Winter is Coming

[godkiller]

You can not get an abortion at 6 months and a man has just as much responsibility as a woman. she didn't get pregnant on her own.

I agree with you and I don't have any problems with women and their choices, really. I also don't support abortion by black women for any reason outside of fetal retardation.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

Because I'd guess about 60-70% of these dudes are products of deadbeat fathers

wouldn't be surprised if the percentage is higher

 

[At30wecashout]

So what is a whore?
Also, by this definition a man can be a hoe.

A whore trades sexual acts for currency. Of course I don't have to tell you that. A hoe just gives it out. The work involved is a "hi, how you doing" then they have
access to your naughty parts.

Of course a man can be a hoe, I have been saying this from jump , and the quote you posted didn't say "he" or "she" for that reason. If there is one thing I can't stand, its a dude fukking anything and everything and having the nerve
to cast stones. Yes, sex is easier to get for women, but the best girls aren't easy to get to anyway. They have options and aspirations, and keep it warm till someone
is more useful to them than as a drill for the night. Same for dudes. If he was willing to fukk anything and everything, why should a woman be impressed when he comes
to her? Second things go awry, he might be out breathing down Simone's neck.

Because sex is biologically required to continue our species. You don't judge people for breathing or judge the pace of their heart rate.

I feel you completely that perhaps the non promiscuous and promiscuous do not mix. But where is the line? 5, 10, 20 it only seems to matter if it's more than a man as deemed acceptable, either from his own experience or crazy enough could just be a arbitrary number set by a man for a woman, just cause

I dig that you're borderline hoe acceptance but you still connect sexual choices to worth, value, and relationship qualities and the sexual spectrum is too varied for that. I get wanting someone compatible with YOU but a lot of people go haywire and all of sudden because a FEMALE human being has regular and various sex she's socially, emotionally and relationship wise worthless por que?

I just think folks need to be real that it stems from feelings of male inadequacy. It's easy to spot the emotionally weak and sexually stunted by how much vitroL (or condescending tone) they display towards women who are not even their sexual partners

All I smell when that goes down is bytch nikkas and fear, it's quite palpable.

Please, girl, if you are gonna quote me, at least don't change the scope. In the past few days I have explained this one to you specifically. If you

want to uphold the virtues of being able to fukk around, thats fine with me. Life is about variety, and sexual partners are no different. However...

1. Sex is biologically necessary to continue the species(debateable, due to technology). Fact. Breathing is necessary to live. Heart rate can indicate a condition, blood pressure, and a host
of other things necessary to live. A person can live and die a virgin. It isn't necessary to personal survival, though it is an aspect of social growth that people use to keep sane.

2. Numbers don't matter. What does matter, though, is taking patterned behavior and avoiding those who exhibit it if from my perception, someone exhibits something I am personally
against (not to the point of shaming, I simply don't rock with it), or because past experience has let me know that with X behavior comes Y personas.

Someone sexually uninhibited is likely to be more impulsive and exploratory, which can be great for one man and woman, but not the next. Also, someone who is promiscuous might
need more frequent sexual stimulation than is necessary for me. We can be diametrically opposed and won't know it until we get together and I like it slow, sensual, and twice a week,
and you are more a 5x, wanna try a new position every time type of person. No, this can not be known by bodycount, YES, your sexual demands, kinks, etc might be outside of my
realm of comfort.

3. Of course I attach the value of the woman to how she goes about her social life. I have a dreadfully low body count. The difference? The partners I did have, save for one, I cared about
VERY deeply, and we had sex after a ton of boxes were checked. I don't need sex so bad that "anyone" will do. I don't have a dozen people I call "friends". I have 3 Day-1 people I will
never let go of. One of my principles is to keep the circle small and Ride-or-Die and not share with anyone and everyone. There is nothing special about me, no mystery, no wonder
if any girl I am attracted to physically would be able to have sex with me at the drop of a hat. Do I want to hold her after? Do I want to speak with her? Would she be down to shower up
and then shoot a game of Soul Caliber with me?

If she doesn't do things outside of make my penis move, I am not interested, because I value much more. I don't care what *other* women do, but I do care about the ones I am around
and what they are into. I would prefer, against all odds, that she isn't an easy safe to crack. No, this doesn't make her better than anyone else, but suppose we had time apart for
2 months for whatever reason :A hoe might be willing to entertain men in my absence, the other girl is going to think about me, and I her. I wouldn't ask that kinda loyalty from a hoe, therefore,
I wouldn't be with someone I knew to be one. Shes about her empowerment, and might say "It's my body, and I do what I want." If what she wants isn't me alone, she ain't my type. Temptation
is fine, actions? Nope.

So in conclusion, I understand, if you are promiscuous, of course you feel strongly about this. Just like nerds being turned down forever(me) will feel some way about nerds being shytted on,
or fat people getting accosted by ruthless folks, etc etc. What you do sexually does not degrade you as a *person*, but as a partner, there are a lot of boxes to check, and yes, this is one
that hurts the points of any woman I would want to be with. No, im not going to shame her, but she can get with someone else who didn't mind fukking people today who won't be around
tomorrow.

 

[Black]

Get nutted in by ain't shyt nikkas and blame everyone but yourselves brehettes.

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

Deadbeat dads - what are they?

 

[marcuz]

You can not get an abortion at 6 months and a man has just as much responsibility as a woman. she didn't get pregnant on her own.

your body, your rights, your responsibility. you could have made him wear protection, take the 72hr pill, get an abortion, or adoption. the ball is 100% in your court

 

[thirdeye]

Deadbeat dads don't exist

 

[Kitsch]

this thread might have maybe could have had some potential...

Nah.

 

[Frenchie]

Lol. I love how u tryna make it seem like single mother situations r 100% the fault of men and not also those women perhaps not havin been as responsible and careful as they should have been

Listen, I have a lot of respect for single mothers(single parents period as a matter of fact) but by default in a situation where a baby has been made undesirably unless in the case of abortion the woman is for the most part stuck wit it since u kno, shes the one carrying it. Kinda hard to abandon it at that point. Thats why absentee mothers are almost non existent.

Now jus becuz a woman has been left wit a baby doesnt make her more "responsible" necessarily. A lot of single mothers jus like a lot parents aint shyt. Naturally since theyre in charge of a life they created most will love it and try to take care of it, but ur kinda romanticizing the situation tryna paint them as superheros gettin it done despite the terrible odds that were unfairly put agaisnt them. Not every single mother workin 3 jobs while going thru school.
Im not for deadbeat dads but I think u need to be fairer in ur assessment.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

I'm not going to reveal anything more as that might tip onlookers, but the smartest and most shrewd male posters on LSA have been systematically banned. A few years ago many of he most blatant anti-black male trolls on LSA were being outfoxed and defeated in debates by these male posters at turns. Then the mods started enforcing absurd and arbirary rules. Suddenly one couldn't use the word "cac", or "wench", and one couldn't post in his place or that before getting banned. For all his acclaim here, Sierra Mist never debated anything on LSA and isn't one of the posers I'm referring. He is ironically an example of an unthreatening male poster thta doesn't (usually) get banned (because he's gay). here are several such gay men prostrating on LSA right now that have liege to write whatever they like, so long as it is about the right topics.

Actually, now that I consider it, LSA mods operate like a cac corporation. The mods ban any black men who challenge authority with reason and facts, but otherwise allow gays, trolls, racist women, etc into the fold.

I actually gotta warning today because used cac and wench today. I'll screenshot and post if my account is still active.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

lol this thread is gonna due numbers, but you knew that when u made it.... i see you OP

Just like when a female knows Dayshawn aint really da bess fit for being a parent but his stroke game is mean as hell.

...Oops.

 

[Houston911]

It happens more than you think

20% of women on the coli have either been trained or tagteamed

It's pretty common

 

[Turbulent]

because most coli members are men and we don't date them, mostly don't deal with them like that, etc.

maybe The Salon talks more about deadbeat dads then single mothers?

 

[SanchoPanda]

 

[Kitsch]

20% of women on the coli have either been trained or tagteamed

It's pretty common