Will you wife a woman that is

[Olivia Pope]

You basically described my girl although she occasionally nannies. And I prefer it that way.

Fact is women can't lead and shouldn't be allowed to lead or co-lead in a relationship (which is what most successful and educated women expect). I'm also successful and I don't need her to work unless she wants to. Smart women are also seriously overrated - conversing with your average smart male friend>>>conversing with your highly intelligent female friend as the former is always willing to take risks. Anyway, just look pretty, wear heels and read Cosmo.

So you prefer a woman that is cool with being a housewife? So you make good enough money that will take care of everything financially? Only way I will stop going to school/working is if the man I am about to marry is making 500k and up....call me a gold digger but hey...

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

no!

 

[Olivia Pope]

You have to understand that most of the males on this board aren't men. They are bytch ass nikkas. They're the soft, skinny jeans wearing fashionistas variety. Don't take nothing these nikkas say on here seriously.

thanks for letting me know.....I was reading that thread like

 

[Olivia Pope]

Nope, but she'd be my fukk partner for a WHILE.

I will admit, though. I saw that thread that you're refering to, and I was like

Niccas on her actually want chicks without a future? shyt is crazy to me. Most nikkas on here are retarded.

They don't want a nerdy / goal oriented woman, but are quick to post pictures like this:

and

You nikkas are fickle as fukk.

This is one of the main issues I have with the gender war within the black community. These same men talk about not wanting a nothing ass chick or a run down female wanting them now but turn around and shyt on career oriented women.

 

[blockburna420]

Only if she got connections, knows how to hustle and does hair

 

[Olivia Pope]

I would, yes. Only if we're on the same religious level.

Will you be able to support yourself and her and if u guys have kids as well on ur salary?

 

[kevm3]

Men find a lot of 'career oriented women' boring because they think their degree in and of itself qualifies them for a man. "Oh I'm college educated, I got a great job. Why can't I get a man?" What these women over look is often time they got a big mouth, wants a man with all kinds of unrealistic qualities and they don't know how to move out the way and let a man be a man while they be the woman.

 

[Olivia Pope]

You took what guys were saying out of context. It's not that their borderline ugly or some shyt, it's just 7 out 10 times those chick tend to act holier then thou, like if they shyt don't stank in other terms. But to add to the topic at hand, "a joint account'll turn one bum, to two bums."

The title of the thread read college educated women are boring and posts in the thread talked about most of them being ugly.

It seem to me you guys on here want a damn near perfect super woman.....

 

[Olivia Pope]

Men find a lot of 'career oriented women' boring because they think their degree in and of itself qualifies them for a man. "Oh I'm college educated, I got a great job. Why can't I get a man?" What these women over look is often time they got a big mouth, wants a man with all kinds of unrealistic qualities and they don't know how to move out the way and let a man be a man while they be the woman.

The same thing can be said about the many men that say things like " I don't have a jail record, no kids, I'm in college, I work, I'm a good guy why don't women want me?"

And from the few threads I read on here quite few of the guys on here want a woman with unrealistic qualities also. I made this thread so I can understand the males on here.....




































I'm bored and don't got shyt to do

 

[Remarkable]

Negative

 

[Olivia Pope]

I'm somewhat of a control freak so I don't mine paying all the bills and be the only one working. It just means that the girl will be heavily dependent on me and is less likely to cheat/leave (I have separation anxiety and have dealt with disloyal women many times).

That answered a lot of questions.....

 

[zerozero]

yes. of course. she has to manage the house, kids, and our social life though

i'll also have to raise the kids of course but she'll probably end up doing the majority of the housework if she's a housewife..

 

[Olivia Pope]

So some of you guys are cool with supporting your wife (having a hustle is technically a job in my book)

and the other half said no.


Hmmmm

Interesting.

Don't mind me people....I'm just trying to understand the men on here.....

 

[MewTwo]

That answered a lot of questions.....

Just ignore that 'control freak' bit. My point still remains -- everyone in the ideal family structure has a role. You can't have 2 leaders. If both mom and dad are busy with their careers then who the hell is going to raise the children? In a situation like this the children grow up to be wild (i.e.: daughter becomes loose and slutty, son becomes disrespectful, etc.)

 

[Captain Crunch]

Men find a lot of 'career oriented women' boring because they think their degree in and of itself qualifies them for a man. "Oh I'm college educated, I got a great job. Why can't I get a man?" What these women over look is often time they got a big mouth, wants a man with all kinds of unrealistic qualities and they don't know how to move out the way and let a man be a man while they be the woman.

Kev the God