Wife caught our 4 year old beating off to porn... :mjlol: (Update: Day Care Looking For the Parents)

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as a young nikka i had to smoke a pack of ciggies after being caught having one..never smoked since :youngsabo:...,
in case this hasnt been asked...what colour where the participants in said video..is your son on :mjpls:, can u hook up the lil nikka with an account here..let the lil nikka :eat:in jbo and various other threads in the coli...can someone bump ''the fappening'' thread for this young nikka....this will teach him:ufdup:
 

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I would snatch that TV out of his room ASAP and get him evaluated. Even if there isn't any abuse going on, it can't hurt to have him see a professional just to make sure. If he has been around family, friends, cousins, etc then you can't know everything that he's been exposed to.

Him showing that much interest in his own mom breastfeeding is also a bit of a concern when you combine it with everything else.

It's crazy that kids are growing up with so much access to the world so early on. The things these kids were doing and saying when I worked in a school used to have me speechless sometimes.
 

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I would like to believe that my house is in order. I'm not poor. I'm not broke. I have pretty good kids who are respectful and decent. My baby boy got caught doing something he shouldn't have been doing. Do I feel bad about it? No. Do I feel like I've failed as a parent? No. I'll take some of your advice and follow up and see where this behavior was learned. I don't really watch porn and his mother doesn't either. I'll ask him has anyone ever touched him and has he ever touched anyone. I'll askmy oldest daughter has she touched him inappropriately as well. But for now, I'm chalking this up to exploration. He's a mannish 4 yr old. We were at a Buffalo Wild Wings one Saturday afternoon and he couldn't take his eyes off the waitress cleavage.


As I've said before, I like how threads like this give people a clear perception of others without ever meeting. You muthafukkas are the best!!!
 

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I would snatch that TV out of his room ASAP and get him evaluated. Even if there isn't any abuse going on, it can't hurt to have him see a professional just to make sure. If he has been around family, friends, cousins, etc then you can't know everything that he's been exposed to.

Him showing that much interest in his own mom breastfeeding is also a bit of a concern when you combine it with everything else.

It's crazy that kids are growing up with so much access to the world so early on. The things these kids were doing and saying when I worked in a school used to have me speechless sometimes.


Yeah, I will definitely look into it. He's a mama's boy. He's really attached to her and every now and then I kinda have to check him.
 

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Nobody is judging you people are legit concerned. It's too young.

And I take their judgement concern into consideration. I never claimed to be the perfect parent. But I do feel like I am a damn good parent. I guess this is something I slipped up on. I'm not sure just yet becuz I still have yet to grasp the seriousness that others have shown.

Like I said before, a girl in Pre-K lifted here dress up and showed me everything during nap time. I didn't trip then. I was never touched or harmed by an older cousin or uncle or anything like that.
 

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4- and 5-year-olds engaged in oral sex at California Lutheran pre-school | Opinion - Conservative

Carson preschool to close after alleged student sexual activity

Richard McCarthy says his 4-year-old son and at least another boy often received oral sex at school from a 5-year-old girl, and that his son “told me about all the bad things that girl had been doing to him. It went down in the classroom, it went down in the bathroom and it went down out on the playground. The two boys that have been introduced to this feeling that they don’t know how to process are still looking for it, and trying to make it happen.”


McCarthy says after the school told him his son was acting up again, he rushed to campus. Fighting back tears, the father said “I just had to keep yelling in his ear, ‘You’re not in trouble, you’re not in trouble!’ And I just told him, ‘You’re never coming back here again for these people to do this to you.’”
But now, he doesn’t know where to send his son: “There’s no way I can just take him to another school and be that parent that just lets a predator loose. How else do you explain it?”


ow, McCarthy and other parents are concerned that their children, after being inappropriately exposed to sexual behavior at such a young age, may become sexual predators themselves.
“There’s no way I can just take him to another school and be that parent that just lets a predator loose,” McCarthy said. “How else do you explain it?”


Owen said, “Parents are saying, ‘My child is now a predator. Now how can I let him go to another school?’ I have talked to three of the parents who have not been able to, but I would think there are schools around. ‘There were many children lying there and they watched these acts. In our business and in psychological terms, that’s sexualizing a child at a young age.”

In an exclusive interview with KABC-TV, the mother of the little girl alleged to have given oral sex to the boys said her 5-year-old daughter was caught by a teacher inside a bathroom at school giving oral sex to a 4-year-old boy. The unnamed mother said:
“It’s unfathomable on so many levels. For one, that it actually happened. For two, where it happened. For three, how often something happened. The way that she [her daughter] explained it, it was kind of like it was an everyday thing…from pulling the pants down to exposing themselves to, you know, trying to get somebody to put their mouth on the privates.”
The mother insisted investigators had found no evidence of child abuse at her home.
That being said, there is no way that a 5-year-old girl would know about oral sex, even less perform oral sex on boys, without having been sexually abused herself.

The little girl was black and fatherless. If that makes a difference.


This is why I can't stand when dudes in here act like mixing young boys and sex is somehow good and only beneficial to him. They never think a step ahead." Only I wish it happened to me" Buncha fools.

Wonder how that little girl is doing now? Smdh
 

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And I take their judgement concern into consideration. I never claimed to be the perfect parent. But I do feel like I am a damn good parent. I guess this is something I slipped up on. I'm not sure just yet becuz I still have yet to grasp the seriousness that others have shown.

Like I said before, a girl in Pre-K lifted here dress up and showed me everything during nap time. I didn't trip then. I was never touched or harmed by an older cousin or uncle or anything like that.
I haven't any post so far demonizing as a horrible parent. People are just concerned that your child maybe exposed to stimuli too early. Frankly, 4 years old is too early. It is not necessarily a reflection of you as a parent cause you cannot control everything. The question is now that you know what are you going to about it.
 

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4- and 5-year-olds engaged in oral sex at California Lutheran pre-school | Opinion - Conservative

Carson preschool to close after alleged student sexual activity

Richard McCarthy says his 4-year-old son and at least another boy often received oral sex at school from a 5-year-old girl, and that his son “told me about all the bad things that girl had been doing to him. It went down in the classroom, it went down in the bathroom and it went down out on the playground. The two boys that have been introduced to this feeling that they don’t know how to process are still looking for it, and trying to make it happen.”


McCarthy says after the school told him his son was acting up again, he rushed to campus. Fighting back tears, the father said “I just had to keep yelling in his ear, ‘You’re not in trouble, you’re not in trouble!’ And I just told him, ‘You’re never coming back here again for these people to do this to you.’”
But now, he doesn’t know where to send his son: “There’s no way I can just take him to another school and be that parent that just lets a predator loose. How else do you explain it?”


ow, McCarthy and other parents are concerned that their children, after being inappropriately exposed to sexual behavior at such a young age, may become sexual predators themselves.
“There’s no way I can just take him to another school and be that parent that just lets a predator loose,” McCarthy said. “How else do you explain it?”


Owen said, “Parents are saying, ‘My child is now a predator. Now how can I let him go to another school?’ I have talked to three of the parents who have not been able to, but I would think there are schools around. ‘There were many children lying there and they watched these acts. In our business and in psychological terms, that’s sexualizing a child at a young age.”

In an exclusive interview with KABC-TV, the mother of the little girl alleged to have given oral sex to the boys said her 5-year-old daughter was caught by a teacher inside a bathroom at school giving oral sex to a 4-year-old boy. The unnamed mother said:
“It’s unfathomable on so many levels. For one, that it actually happened. For two, where it happened. For three, how often something happened. The way that she [her daughter] explained it, it was kind of like it was an everyday thing…from pulling the pants down to exposing themselves to, you know, trying to get somebody to put their mouth on the privates.”
The mother insisted investigators had found no evidence of child abuse at her home.
That being said, there is no way that a 5-year-old girl would know about oral sex, even less perform oral sex on boys, without having been sexually abused herself.

The little girl was black and fatherless. If that makes a difference.


This is why I can't stand when dudes in here act like mixing young boys and sex is somehow good and only beneficial to him. They never think a step ahead." Only I wish it happened to me" Buncha fools.

Wonder how that little girl is doing now? Smdh
I have said it that hypersexual activity is detrimental to men as much as women. Some people refuse to acknowledge it.
 
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