Wife caught our 4 year old beating off to porn... :mjlol: (Update: Day Care Looking For the Parents)

[MeachTheMonster]

Ok, but couldn't a kid that was abused also do the same exploring as a kid who wasn't.

And the only reason he's(abused kid) doing it now was because he was exposed to it and his curiosity didn't come naturally?

This is kinda like asking would a person drink water cause they were taught to as opposed to just being thirsty.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

This is kinda like asking would a person drink water cause they were taught to as opposed to just being thirsty.(or purposely starved)

Edit

Boom.

That's the point of the need for concern. You don't know. And it's a very fine line just like the situation in the op.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Edit

Boom.

That's the point of the need for concern. You don't know. And it's a very fine line just like the situation in the op.

If you are "concerned" about NORMAL behavior then you'll be concerned all day every day.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

If you are "concerned" about NORMAL behavior then you'll be concerned all day every day.

Are you being disagreeable just for the sake of it.

The maturation of this thread proves my point on this topic breh. Op came in here on some and it might end up being some shyt.

And you in here turning this one serious topic into ever occurrence in day to day life, female type shyt.

 

[Kenny West]

@ the update

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Are you being disagreeable just for the sake of it.

The maturation of this thread proves my point on this topic breh. Op came in here on some and it might end up being some shyt.

And you in here turning this one serious topic into ever occurrence in day to day life, female type shyt.

You are the one in here arguing with The American Academy of Pediatrics and every other organization that has researched the topic.

They recommend you talk to the child, which is what he did. From what he posted here, it's normal behavior. Telling him to jump to conclusions beyond that is what could be harmful to the child.

Just read the literature on the subject. Im not making any of it up.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

You are the one in here arguing with The American Academy of Pediatrics and every other organization that has researched the topic.

They recommend you talk to the child, which is what he did. From what he posted here, it's normal behavior. Telling him to jump to conclusions beyond that is what could be harmful to the child.

Just read the literature on the subject. Im not making any of it up.

I'm not arguing but it's two sides.

Most of the situations/variables I stated that would off set those charts, you ignored. You and ole boy, among others told op it wasn't an issue. Now he's considering legal action. And you still in here talking about its no concern or I'll be concerned about everything. Like child abuse is a common occurrence.

They said show concern. Members in here was basically saying let him cook and wanting p*ssy at his age is normal.

 

[Westcoastnative]

 

[Numpsay]

I've only read the first page, but so far I've gathered a 4 year old knew how to find porn and then knew what to do with himself when he found it. He likes to watch his mom breastfeed, and the OP has already had to talk to this kid about how to act around his sisters.

And apparently this is all normal to the op?


Don't be in denial bruh, and you might want to check the older sister, or older kids he may be around at school/daycare.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

I'm not arguing but it's two sides.

Most of the situations/variables I stated that would off set those charts, you ignored. You and ole boy, among others told op it wasn't an issue. Now he's considering legal action. And you still in here talking about its no concern or I'll be concerned about everything. Like child abuse is a common occurrence.

They said show concern. Members in here was basically saying let him cook and wanting p*ssy at his age is normal.

I said the kids behavior is no concern from what he posted.

He's talking about suing the school. Even though it's normal behavior the school could have been negligent in not watching the kids.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

I said the kids behavior is no concern from what he posted.

He's talking about suing the school. Even though it's normal behavior the school could have been negligent in not watching the kids.

Which is cause for concern. But that would never be discovered If he followed some of yalls advice.

And you still havent addressed issues that those charts don't account for. Negligence by the parents or adults in the kids life or abused kids he may encounter. Those studies aren't the end all and be all breh.

Did you even read through the thread?

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Which is cause for concern. But that would never be discovered If he followed some of yalls advice.

Did you even read through the thread?

The fukk are you blaming me for other people's advice

My first post says that he should talk to his kid and see what's going on, but don't overreact because it's normal behavior for kids at that age.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

The fukk are you blaming me for other people's advice

My first post says that he should talk to his kid and see what's going on, but don't overreact because it's normal behavior for kids at that age.

My bad, I lumped you in with others with similar opinions.

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I'm still curious as to how a 4 year old new to 'fondle' himself while watching 'porn'......

I notice the op still hasn't said what the name of the netflix movie was.

 

[ThisWorldAintRight]

I'm not arguing but it's two sides.

Most of the situations/variables I stated that would off set those charts, you ignored. You and ole boy, among others told op it wasn't an issue. Now he's considering legal action. And you still in here talking about its no concern or I'll be concerned about everything. Like child abuse is a common occurrence.

They said show concern. Members in here was basically saying let him cook and wanting p*ssy at his age is normal.

Because like I said, it's not uncommon for kids to touch themselves/masturbate. The fact that op's kid searched for porn isn't all that odd considering that kids are curious. It's the reason they have parental controls after all so that kids that young don't get exposed to it.


shyt's unfortunate, but some of y'all are acting like this is some unheard of shyt which I just don't understand.