Why Would A 20+ Year Old Woman Want You?

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While this doesn't apply to me, I do find it interesting how you seem beset by these dudes in real life and apparently on here. You seem drawn to where these guys congregate then seem annoyed by their presence. I honestly don't understand it. It's odd. :jbhmm:
Didn't realize my post came off as besetting.

These are the men in my lane. Having a mortgage and earning a gross six figures doesn't doesn't make me better than anyone. I don't have a problem with leadership/submission, I have a problem with ill-equipped men making it an ultimatum to date. I don't understand why men hold onto to that dynamic so tightly when collaboration/partnership will yield better and peaceful results.
 

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You were almost 10 years older than that man, entertaining the situation, knowing he wasn’t much older than a high schooler.

Women are lonely bro.

I'm a young nikka and I stay runnin thru these older career women.

Women out here starving for masculine affection.

Its a famine in the land.

:russ:
 

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Didn't realize my post came off as besetting.

These are the men in my lane. Having a mortgage and earning a gross six figures doesn't doesn't make me better than anyone. I don't have a problem with leadership/submission, I have a problem with ill-equipped men making it an ultimatum to date. I don't understand why men hold onto to that dynamic so tightly when collaboration/partnership will yield better and peaceful results.
Where are the women that want that? What’s yours is mine and what’s mine is mine is rampant out here. I have had several women tell me that they would rather live on their own and be single if they have to help pay bills.
 

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You’re giving a good reminder for older men to NOT fuk with younger chicks. It’s that feminist influenced passive aggression.

You’re asking what older men bring to the table, yet all along you’re ‘talking to a dermatologist’. You just answered your own question. There are no dermatologists—-and everything that comes with that, knowledge, wisdom, power, temperament, money —-in your age group. Voila there it is.
This bird really made this thread while she's 26 dating a man that's in his 30's (or even 40's) herself :skip:
 

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I’m 34… I have a home in a nice area that I only owe about 28k on, I have a town home that is paid off (rental property), I have access to 400k in credit, 800+ credit score, I drive a mid level luxury car, and I have a great job with 401k and a pension that I’m fully vested in. I’m also 6’2, I jog daily, lift a few times a week, and I’m very handsome. I generally prefer women in my age range and I prefer dating women with kids as well, so I’m not on the bitter 30+ single mother hate train….

That being said, this question is better suited for younger women because they’re at me and approach me often. I also find that women resent me for being moderately successful.


:wtf:



Are you a baby daddy?



Why in the hell would you prefer a woman with kids?
 

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This bird really made this thread while she's 26 dating a man that's in his 30's (or even 40's) herself :skip:

she 46 and single.

young women that are dating successful men are happy and full of joy.

she views men as worthless and says that being a successful man's wife is not an honorable position.
 

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Yeah, I’m a divorced father of two. My current soon to be fiancé doesn’t have kids though.



Okay your statement makes a little more sense now. A never married childless 34 year old man might have a different viewpoint :yeshrug:



If I was 34 I would almost exclusively date women 25-30 and only go up to 30-35 if she was extraordinarily fly.
 

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she 46 and single.

young women that are dating successful men are happy and full of joy.

she views men as worthless and says that being a successful man's wife is not an honorable position.

This. She's playing a fantasy role.

The 'you should not date women younger than you' discourse is not pushed by young women themselves.
 

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While this doesn't apply to me, I do find it interesting how you seem beset by these dudes in real life and apparently on here. You seem drawn to where these guys congregate then seem annoyed by their presence. I honestly don't understand it. It's odd. :jbhmm:



These women should be required to submit a picture so we know where this angst comes from.

Attractive women are usually not that bitter
 
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