Didn't realize my post came off as besetting.While this doesn't apply to me, I do find it interesting how you seem beset by these dudes in real life and apparently on here. You seem drawn to where these guys congregate then seem annoyed by their presence. I honestly don't understand it. It's odd.
These are the men in my lane. Having a mortgage and earning a gross six figures doesn't doesn't make me better than anyone. I don't have a problem with leadership/submission, I have a problem with ill-equipped men making it an ultimatum to date. I don't understand why men hold onto to that dynamic so tightly when collaboration/partnership will yield better and peaceful results.