Why Would A 20+ Year Old Woman Want You?

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

i tried dating a 30+ year old man in college once. once was enough, it was weird.
i tried dating a 20 yo when i was 30, once was enough lol.
i like dudes my age

I like how when you were 20 dating a 30 yr old, it was "weird".

But when you were 30 dating a 20 yr old, that wasn't "weird" on your part.

Yall women

 

[Braman]

Some of these replies answer your question . Only a young ngga would even engage you as if you’re really spittin knowledge lls

Us older cats can see bullshyt and treat it as such. And that’s exactly the type of energy women want and need. Most women know they talkin some bs the minute it comes from their mouth and just waiting for the right dude to call em on it in a stern articulate manner. Id assume you’re more likely to find that with older guys

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I like how when you were 20 dating a 30 yr old, it was "weird".

But when you were 30 dating a 20 yr old, that wasn't "weird" on your part.

Yall women

nah it wasn't weird, i wasn't getting creepy vibes like i did with the old man. it was def lame though. you know how young people are goofy these days. idk how yall that like em young do it.

there, does that make you feel better

plus it wasn't the same dynamic on my behalf. i wasn't chasing young genitals like the old man clearly was doing me, i don't even chase guys my age i let men do all the approaching. for the young guy, he actually came with the sexual angle. you know how yall men are

 

[TripleAgent]

At this stage, they probably wouldn't fukk with me, but, either one will, or I get myself together, whatever comes forst. I'd rather be alone than be with some broken down old chick, or one that doesn't know how to act. The numbers are in my favor

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

nah it wasn't weird, i wasn't getting creepy vibes like i did with the old man. it was def lame though. you know how young people are goofy these days. idk how yall that like em young do it.

there, does that make you feel better

plus it wasn't the same dynamic on my behalf. i wasn't chasing young genitals like the old man clearly was doing me, i don't even chase guys my age i let men do all the approaching. for the young guy, he actually came with the sexual angle. you know how yall men are

“I know she’s only 21 but she came on to me first”


Nah. You were almost 10 years older than that man, entertaining the situation, knowing he wasn’t much older than a high schooler. Don’t make stipulations. When you see that old ass nikka pulling up to pick his girl up at her job at forever 21, just know, if young boy acted a little more mature, you’d be the same creep

 

[GreenGhxst]

Because I'm not her type

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

I've had a couple of college girls when I started doing the tinder thing last year which I must admit does make me at myself a bit since I'm in my mid 30s, majority of the others have been late 20s. I guess women just like older guys in general
Right now I'm talking to one that's 29 and another that's my age.

 

[Rawtid]

What type of dusty ass dudes are you surrounded by?

Regular ones, like some of the dudes that post here. Dudes that grew up in apartments, maybe with a single parent and works a "regular" job. Most likely not college educated. There are near daily posts here about how rent is too much, costs are too much, jobs don't pay enough, etc. now all of a sudden yall dusty because I'm saying it's not likely you'll be needed to ward off intruders in this day and age?

Some of yall are truly mentally stuck. No matter what women really need you for, you're only offering one thing. Even if you're inexperienced and overall suck at it.

 

[Giselle]

@Giselle this new poster's trying to get in your lane

I used to make cute, silly threads or dragging y’all for cheating, surveys & things to pick your brain about relationships, not this kind lol

But op is definitely an lsa font. I believe more of them will be making accounts on here

 

[High Art]

Regular ones, like some of the dudes that post here. Dudes that grew up in apartments, maybe with a single parent and works a "regular" job. Most likely not college educated. There are near daily posts here about how rent is too much, costs are too much, jobs don't pay enough, etc. now all of a sudden yall dusty because I'm saying it's not likely you'll be needed to ward off intruders in this day and age?

Some of yall are truly mentally stuck. No matter what women really need you for, you're only offering one thing. Even if you're inexperienced and overall suck at it.

While this doesn't apply to me, I do find it interesting how you seem beset by these dudes in real life and apparently on here. You seem drawn to where these guys congregate then seem annoyed by their presence. I honestly don't understand it. It's odd.

 

[MoveForward]

The fact that you mentioned Telfar let’s me know you know a little something.


And my latest order is on the way

Where did you get it from? The bags are always sold out on the site.

 

[Everythingg]

Lol most men can’t build a shelter. They can barely pay for an apartment. The world has changed, no one needs men to ward off intruders, that’s what ADT and ring cameras are for. Y’all need to make yourselves useful in other ways. This traditional role you’re holding on to doesn’t fit in today’s world.

It doesn’t fit why? That circles back to men again lol

So when you say “no one needs men to ward off intruders” you mean you don’t need a husband because men have instituted things in society that takes that place. So instead of relying on your husband you rely on what men have instituted (police) to protect you. And you don’t even appreciate that and say “men need to make themselves useful” while it’s men paving the roads you use, installing the plumbing that comes to your house, installing the electricity that allows you to have lighting. Men contribute to your life everyday but you won’t appreciate it till it’s not there and it’s all on your shoulders

And you see how the world almost stopped with covid 2/3 years ago? We’re closer to that then you think

 

[MoveForward]

I’m 34… I have a home in a nice area that I only owe about 28k on, I have a town home that is paid off (rental property), I have access to 400k in credit, 800+ credit score, I drive a mid level luxury car, and I have a great job with 401k and a pension that I’m fully vested in. I’m also 6’2, I jog daily, lift a few times a week, and I’m very handsome. I generally prefer women in my age range and I prefer dating women with kids as well, so I’m not on the bitter 30+ single mother hate train….

That being said, this question is better suited for younger women because they’re at me and approach me often. I also find that women resent me for being moderately successful.

 

[TEH]

Im not in my thirties, but yes I am career driven with no time to travel as much as I’d like. Im not dating or fukking, I’m studying 24/7 and when I’m not doing that I’m working on myself. I don’t make it easy for men like you, I don’t engage with men like you (no offense).

I want marriage but no time soon, there’s a lot I want for myself and I am depending on myself to get it for me, not someone else. And if I don’t get married then I’m fine with that, there’s more to life than being someone’s wife.

There are good and potentially successful men all around you in college. Get one now and not years from now, don’t wait until they don’t want to marry you.

 

[Reflected]

But op is definitely an lsa font.

LOL That's so fukking obvious. These dudes will feed it though.