Why Would A 20+ Year Old Woman Want You?

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Yeah the ones w/o a dad.


No, the ones with enough wisdom to value a husband/father leading a family…. You’re telling on yourself… was your father not a leader?….was your mother not a wife?….if you had a son, would you expect him to lead a family?… do you prefer men who don’t want to take the lead?….would you want and encourage your future daughter to have a family (including husband)?….I don’t think you’ve thought any of these things over so this question is posed more for the other shortsighted women guided by this cloaked feminist agenda you’ve been subtlety pushing ….of course you will deny it tho, even tho its plain to see for everyone else keeping up with this thread….you ignored my last post, maybe you can prove this one wrong instead. Maybe you can’t. …Your move.
 

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Lol most men can’t build a shelter. They can barely pay for an apartment. The world has changed, no one needs men to ward off intruders, that’s what ADT and ring cameras are for. Y’all need to make yourselves useful in other ways. This traditional role you’re holding on to doesn’t fit in today’s world.
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I am currently into an older man who’s my dermatologist. He’s obviously well educated, spent time in the military and is very handsome. Older men with their shyt together is always a win, but not all older men fall in that category. So I agree with you, it’s easier to build with someone in our age group.

I had no intention to insult anyone but I hear so much about how older women are such a liability and that men need to date younger…which is their business. But as a younger woman I just want to know what these older men are offering that trumps men within our age group, because as they like to repeatedly say men making a certain income are 1% of the population, and chances are these men are not apart of that stat. So what are you offering to twenty year olds that we cannot find within our age group.
People keep answering but you don’t like the answer. I’m 40 so I’ll answer. Even though I don’t date young women. I could easily. Here’s why.

It is rare that a human sees himself as better in their 20s than in their 30s/40s. Physically is about all you could say has worsened. But everything else SHOULD improve as time goes on. For women and men.

You should have more money. Better job. A bigger place. A better car. More knowledge and experience. You should have seen more things and had more experienced. Been to more places. Ate different food. Had loves. Had relationships. Watched others. Life experiences in every aspect makes you a better person.

Well for women, these are things that they want at every age. Yes they want a sexy man. But they also love a smart man, accomplished man, man with a great job, well traveled, has some knowledge bout food, drinks, movies, cars. Knows how to treat you. Knows how to navigate a conversation. Things you get better at in life.


Men want a sexy woman too. SOME men want the other things too. But A LOT of men want a sexy woman. The end. They do not care if she’s got any of those other qualities. She looks like Bria Myles. They want to smash.

Now of course a woman will take a man with everything at 23, quicker than she will take a man with everything at 43. But it’s way more likely that man will not have shyt at 23 and the other will have it all.

Now you’ll say most men don’t have all that shyt. Ok but peep game. I don’t have to have all that shyt. I just gotta have more than the dudes your age. You can’t find a man with his own place then I don’t need a house. I need a 1 bed apt and I’m already doing better than my competition. He got a 1 bed. I’m 45, I should have a 3 bed house. Or at least 2 bed apt. And so on.


These dudes can’t pull that on a 35 year old who also has what he has. Now they equal. Now the competition is equal. Now you have to be better than them. Much easier to be better than 25 year olds. And much better LOOKING women. Please don’t let nikkas lie about they looking at fertility rates. They gonna be asking that young betty for an abortion soon as she late.
 

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People keep answering but you don’t like the answer. I’m 40 so I’ll answer. Even though I don’t date young women. I could easily. Here’s why.

It is rare that a human sees himself as better in their 20s than in their 30s/40s. Physically is about all you could say has worsened. But everything else SHOULD improve as time goes on. For women and men.

You should have more money. Better job. A bigger place. A better car. More knowledge and experience. You should have seen more things and had more experienced. Been to more places. Ate different food. Had loves. Had relationships. Watched others. Life experiences in every aspect makes you a better person.

Well for women, these are things that they want at every age. Yes they want a sexy man. But they also love a smart man, accomplished man, man with a great job, well traveled, has some knowledge bout food, drinks, movies, cars. Knows how to treat you. Knows how to navigate a conversation. Things you get better at in life.


Men want a sexy woman too. SOME men want the other things too. But A LOT of men want a sexy woman. The end. They do not care if she’s got any of those other qualities. She looks like Bria Myles. They want to smash.

Now of course a woman will take a man with everything at 23, quicker than she will take a man with everything at 43. But it’s way more likely that man will not have shyt at 23 and the other will have it all.

Now you’ll say most men don’t have all that shyt. Ok but peep game. I don’t have to have all that shyt. I just gotta have more than the dudes your age. You can’t find a man with his own place then I don’t need a house. I need a 1 bed apt and I’m already doing better than my competition. He got a 1 bed. I’m 45, I should have a 3 bed house. Or at least 2 bed apt. And so on.


These dudes can’t pull that on a 35 year old who also has what he has. Now they equal. Now the competition is equal. Now you have to be better than them. Much easier to be better than 25 year olds. And much better LOOKING women. Please don’t let nikkas lie about they looking at fertility rates. They gonna be asking that young betty for an abortion soon as she late.
And that is the game.

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I'm 39 but still look late 20's/early 30's,
Men are constantly preaching about avoiding women over 30, which is interesting because not all women over thirty are jaded baby mamas. Many of them prioritized their career and personal growth over men. Many of them are more experienced, financially literate, well travelled, well versed on many worldly topics, and have heightened levels of self awareness.

The same infertility problems women encounter as we age are no different from men. We both have our prime years to have children, we both have our health problems and we both can be jaded at any age. This notion that women have an expiration date is ridiculous.

However my question is what are these 20+ year old women getting from you? What baggage have you accumulated that you need her to sort through? How jaded have you become over the years?

It’s no different than when women demand a wealthy man, but she is not fit, feminine and cooperative. What are you bringing to these women that would make her pick you? I highly doubt all of you are so called High Value Men. So why would a 20+ year old choose a man with higher risks of infertility, erectile dysfunction, kids and debt over her younger male counterparts?
I'm 39 & get mistaken for late 20's/early 30's, still have my hairline, humble, good job with great benefits, wise, level headed, great sense of humor, logical, blessed where it counts from what I'm told, laid-back, know how to be all about 1 woman, love to travel, etc. And if it don't work, the bar will be set high enough that if she go for another person it'll be a good chance she's settling s the next question is why would I want a 20+ year old woman.
 

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I am currently into an older man who’s my dermatologist. He’s obviously well educated, spent time in the military and is very handsome. Older men with their shyt together is always a win, but not all older men fall in that category. So I agree with you, it’s easier to build with someone in our age group.

I had no intention to insult anyone but I hear so much about how older women are such a liability and that men need to date younger…which is their business. But as a younger woman I just want to know what these older men are offering that trumps men within our age group, because as they like to repeatedly say men making a certain income are 1% of the population, and chances are these men are not apart of that stat. So what are you offering to twenty year olds that we cannot find within our age group.
You’re giving a good reminder for older men to NOT fuk with younger chicks. It’s that feminist influenced passive aggression.

You’re asking what older men bring to the table, yet all along you’re ‘talking to a dermatologist’. You just answered your own question. There are no dermatologists—-and everything that comes with that, knowledge, wisdom, power, temperament, money —-in your age group. Voila there it is.
 
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