I am currently into an older man who’s my dermatologist. He’s obviously well educated, spent time in the military and is very handsome. Older men with their shyt together is always a win, but not all older men fall in that category. So I agree with you, it’s easier to build with someone in our age group.
I had no intention to insult anyone but I hear so much about how older women are such a liability and that men need to date younger…which is their business. But as a younger woman I just want to know what these older men are offering that trumps men within our age group, because as they like to repeatedly say men making a certain income are 1% of the population, and chances are these men are not apart of that stat. So what are you offering to twenty year olds that we cannot find within our age group.
People keep answering but you don’t like the answer. I’m 40 so I’ll answer. Even though I don’t date young women. I could easily. Here’s why.
It is rare that a human sees himself as better in their 20s than in their 30s/40s. Physically is about all you could say has worsened. But everything else SHOULD improve as time goes on. For women and men.
You should have more money. Better job. A bigger place. A better car. More knowledge and experience. You should have seen more things and had more experienced. Been to more places. Ate different food. Had loves. Had relationships. Watched others. Life experiences in every aspect makes you a better person.
Well for women, these are things that they want at every age. Yes they want a sexy man. But they also love a smart man, accomplished man, man with a great job, well traveled, has some knowledge bout food, drinks, movies, cars. Knows how to treat you. Knows how to navigate a conversation. Things you get better at in life.
Men want a sexy woman too. SOME men want the other things too. But A LOT of men want a sexy woman. The end. They do not care if she’s got any of those other qualities. She looks like Bria Myles. They want to smash.
Now of course a woman will take a man with everything at 23, quicker than she will take a man with everything at 43. But it’s way more likely that man will not have shyt at 23 and the other will have it all.
Now you’ll say most men don’t have all that shyt. Ok but peep game. I don’t have to have all that shyt. I just gotta have more than the dudes your age. You can’t find a man with his own place then I don’t need a house. I need a 1 bed apt and I’m already doing better than my competition. He got a 1 bed. I’m 45, I should have a 3 bed house. Or at least 2 bed apt. And so on.
These dudes can’t pull that on a 35 year old who also has what he has. Now they equal. Now the competition is equal. Now you have to be better than them. Much easier to be better than 25 year olds. And much better LOOKING women. Please don’t let nikkas lie about they looking at fertility rates. They gonna be asking that young betty for an abortion soon as she late.