Why successful black men are a$$holes

[philmonroe]

Man real shyt I was done with this thread so I wasn't gonna bother with saying this but since my alerts and thread bumps brought me back here

The bolded is solidifying the throwing shyt against the wall feeling I had earlier. You've missed the point and substance of a lot of my replies and instead just tried to qualify whatever I said that doesn't align with your beliefs.


I write about how folks switch up. "It's just your circle" Even though it wasn't even about me


I make a post about the game as a whole, you don't reply to the dynamic I explained, instead "You only think that cause some girl is stalling you out" "doesn't sound like you're getting them like that"

I give an examples of dudes who talk about women negatively but still gets women like that. So now they're's something wrong with the women and you're good on them. I guess.

It's just telling that I spent most of these exchanges correcting you when neither my post nor this thread was about me in the first place. I still got respect for you for speaking your peace and being civil but it just feels like you on some passive aggressive bullshyt "and you can disagree because in all honesty who going to co sign something that they think makes them look bad?"




So because it hasn't happened to me, I shouldn't feel any type of way about it.

Ok. Like, do you accept a black celebrity laughing off institutionalized racism because he himself is successful and not in jail?

And also our definitions of hypergamy are probably very different too

TL:DR =. I don't throw things against the wall just explaining reasons why there are the differences we have on situations no more no less.

I haven't thrown shyt agains the wall. I've told you numerous times that I can only go by what you post and give you my views on it. Don't know why that's so hard for you to understand. I'm about to break down why I really like talking offline instead of online folks start switching the flow up too often.

When I said its your circle I was talking about anybody's circle and I also was saying the problems are usually from people that are closest to us. You trying to make it like I'm not speaking in general but only to you. Hell it could be dudes close to me doing the same shyt the stuff you speaking on isn't only relevant to you.

About the girls I told you I don't care who says it it comes a point where yes I do think that person (again not just you) isn't having the success he/she wants when they say certain things . I already said if I'm wrong I'm wrong (and already said I'd take the L regarding you on this issue) who cares its just me saying what I think on a given situation.


Now I'm a hater or some type of discrediting person cause I said I'm not messing with a chick that's cool with him calling her a bytch? You can't be serious with that. I said if it works for him more power to him but yep I'm a hater. That's not making sense fam.

Its also telling now that you think what I say is just about you like it doesn't apply to anybody that fits that criteria. It just so happen its you I'm talking to but I don't switch up. Look in the dating thread I said the same thing about dudes talking about spending 100 on a date. You don't have to agree with me but I'm consistent if its you or anybody else. I have to be or nobody going to take what you say agree or not seriously if you keep flip flopping.

Regarding having anything to say again I just normally see people talk about things that are of a concern to them. I'm pretty sure you not talking a lot about chick issues right? Maybe I'm wrong again but my point is people usually talk about things they care about in some way. Also be honest how many times have you said somebody giving you praise is throwing stuff off the wall compared to somebody disagreeing with you? Its just human nature and don't have nothing to do with just you it just so happens you are the person I'm replying to no more no less

Lastly if a celebrity wants to laugh off racism that's just on them honestly. I don't really care I just know what I have to do to better myself and those around me and when it comes to that topic that's how I look at it. I'm not trying to change them cause people going to do what they do at the end of the day you know that. I do agree its been civil but think its a shame you think I'm being passive aggressive and or trying to come at you when I'm not. We just disagree on certain things but just because of that don't mean I'm trying to come at your neck. Just explaining why I feel like I do on a topic period.

 

[philmonroe]

Not directed towards me but I want to answer anyway. Whatever BM/WW relationships are out there are no more successful than BM/BW so when BW say that they are going to the other side to find happiness I have to because those relationships implode faster than any other racial combination

I think its the BM/WW that last the least from what I remeber and WM/BW lasting longer. I could be wrong but I'm certain I saw that somewhere

I personally don't where I am but I notice them more in big cities like toronto or super small towns where the black population is really low. I have never had an issue with black men with interracial dating, its the black female trashing I don't like.

I agree I'm not with the bashing of your own either.

 

[Art Barr]

Sounds like u dont even like white men. You just hate how black men act. Seems like if you really liked em you could give two cares about what black men are doing and wouldnt even comment on subjects like this

that ether!!!


Art Barr

 

[Opus]

It's too bad but on a lighter note, any plans for the holidays?

Work probably. Nothing special. You?

 

[Yup]

Work probably. Nothing special. You?

Hoping to travel.

 

[mamba]

Do you think most Black women want thugs?

I can't speak for Black women.

I'll let the woman at :53 in this video speak.

 

[FinesseKing]

Forget that humble carp, no one else is but for some odd reason everyone expects black people to be. In my opinion that's their code word for "negroe don't ever give me a reason to envy you".

 

[philmonroe]

Forget that humble carp, no one else is but for some odd reason everyone expects black people to be. In my opinion that's their code word for "negroe don't ever give me a reason to envy you".

People in general regardless of race want others to be humble oftentimes. Its not just black people. Think how many times people on here talk about rich people drive a beat up car while only broke show offs drive a nice car or some other be humble stuff. It just seems like a thing for some to be that way.

 

[Kenny West]

Also be honest how many times have you said somebody giving you praise is throwing stuff off the wall compared to somebody disagreeing with you? Its just human nature and don't have nothing to do with just you it just so happens you are the person I'm replying to no more no less.

People who praise me don't frame and profile those compliments the way you did. If it was "That was a well written paragraph, you must be a journalist" I'd just correct them the way I corrected you earlier. But it usually would end at "That was a well written paragraph".

Besides it wasn't just no disagreement. I wouldn't have made the shyt on the wall comment if you just straight up disagreed and explained why etc. But the conversation didn't move in that direction at all. Like tell me what this

As far as dogging women out that sounds like words of a person that didn't have success with women honestly. Why would somebody want to dog a chick/dude out? That's some hurt stuff cats gotta get right before dating. If the relationship don't work it don't work but I'm not in the dogging chicks out business but I also think that comes from not having bitterness towards them. We usually agree so I know this just one of them things that just happens since nobody agrees 100% of the time.

For you though sounds like you just want to fukk some of these chicks but act like you wanna be their dude and then they start stalling you out honestly"

had to do with disagreeing with my post about rich black a$$holes? You were the first one to bring me personally into this convo. My post wasn't about me. I don't feel on this, but thats why I said what I said.

 

[philmonroe]

People who praise me don't frame and profile those compliments the way you did. If it was "That was a well written paragraph, you must be a journalist" I'd just correct them the way I corrected you earlier. But it usually would end at "That was a well written paragraph".

Besides it wasn't just no disagreement. I wouldn't have made the shyt on the wall comment if you just straight up disagreed and explained why etc. But the conversation didn't move in that direction at all. Like tell me what this




had to do with disagreeing with my post about rich black a$$holes? You were the first one to bring me personally into this convo. My post wasn't about me. I don't feel on this, but thats why I said what I said.

Everybody don't talk like me I guess then. I told you what I meant by it but you don't want to listen or believe me so . I don't get no kick out of playing people.

If I comment on something a person said it has to do with what they said not necessarily the topic at hand. I read what you wrote and didn't agree with it and explained why. That's how the whole dogged out stuff came into play. The second part you asking about believe it or not a lot of "nice guys" have that same complaint you had that made me say that so just like you previously said how what I'm saying came across as not just disagreement but something more that's how what you posted sounded similar to "nice guys". Like I said before you can disagree but I just comment on what is posted for better or worse. I also stated we usually agree but on this we don't but on this you make it seem I have something out for you and its not just disagreement when that's all it is.

 

[godkiller]

Not all successful black men are a$$holes and one does not have to be an a$$hole to become successful.

I have a friend that works at an investment banks, makes over 160k+ a year and he's not an a$$hole.

You do have to be disciplined, intelligent, hard-working and savvy to succeed in the corporate world. That often means having to eschew or exclude certain people from your circle, if only to keep up appearances. I think that's why some people think successful black men are "a$$holes".

 

[Kenny West]

Everybody don't talk like me I guess then. I told you what I meant by it but you don't want to listen or believe me so . I don't get no kick out of playing people.

If I comment on something a person said it has to do with what they said not necessarily the topic at hand. I read what you wrote and didn't agree with it and explained why. That's how the whole dogged out stuff came into play. The second part you asking about believe it or not a lot of "nice guys" have that same complaint you had that made me say that so just like you previously said how what I'm saying came across as not just disagreement but something more that's how what you posted sounded similar to "nice guys". Like I said before you can disagree but I just comment on what is posted for better or worse. I also stated we usually agree but on this we don't but on this you make it seem I have something out for you and its not just disagreement when that's all it is.

Man.....Ok. I don't feel like correcting you.

I don't think you have anything against me (i would've been a lot nastier if I did), but either unintentionally or not it felt like you were toeing that line. A lot of intent gets lost in translation online, but I still feel like I read it right on post 343, especially concerning most of what you wrote above. Agreeing to disagree

 

[philmonroe]

Man.....Ok. I don't feel like correcting you.

I don't think you have anything against me (i would've been a lot nastier if I did), but either unintentionally or not it felt like you were toeing that line. A lot of intent gets lost in translation online, but I still feel like I read it right on post 343, especially concerning most of what you wrote above. Agreeing to disagree

You can't correct me on something that's not wrong. At best you can disagree and if Ive said I don't mean any harm or anything why can't you take that for what its worth esp after giving you the same benefit? There is nothing lost in that translation cause just like you I could have been "nastier" too but keep trying to make it clear ain't nothing to it but disagreement.

 

[Kenny West]

You can't correct me on something that's not wrong. At best you can disagree and if Ive said I don't mean any harm or anything why can't you take that for what its worth esp after giving you the same benefit? There is nothing lost in that translation cause just like you I could have been "nastier" too but keep trying to make it clear ain't nothing to it but disagreement.

"but either unintentionally or not it felt like you were toeing that line"

Ard, you made yourself clear

 

[philmonroe]

"but either unintentionally or not it felt like you were toeing that line"

Ard, you made yourself clear

No shyt I can read but I was talking about before it got to that point in the first place. This shyt done ran its course and its just stupid back and forth at this point and I see where its heading so on that note while its still decent I'm just going to say peace.