Why some girls can't accept that they just not attractive?

[Killer Instinct]

You threaten to come to gainesville and tina turner me

You were talking wild.

And I'm still coming through Gainsville when I leave UCF and your inbox better be clear, Anna Mae.

 

[iBrowse]

I think it's people in general. Humanity is sick and twisted.
The irony of me saying this
But I'm a changed woman, yall gone have to forgive me.

All I'm saying is men and women here like to deflect and act as though they're enlightened individuals that are exceptions to the rule. We all are shallow to varying degrees and if a man or woman wants to make a thread to vent let em have at it. It's natural for people to feel some type of way when they don't get the person/type they desire and most end up settling to some extent. imma still agree with the fact that men have to just deal with it though. Right or wrong women are simply given the benefit of the doubt when it comes to dealing with emotions and all of that shyt openly.

 

[Elle Driver]

Not trying. I am.
Throwing stones when you live in a glass house.






Girl, stop it.
I ain't that bad (unless you're built and post like @LadySimone)
You've either been hacked or you're trying to get married because you done went soft on us.

Okay I can be meannnnnn (only when I'm pushed though ) but you on another level, KILLER Instinct.

And I'm not trying to get married. Too late for that

You were talking wild.

And I'm still coming through Gainsville when I leave UCF and your inbox better be clear, Anna.

Look at this nikka.

You on another level. Don't tell me you're yellow

 

[Aceofspades404]

You were talking wild.

And I'm still coming through Gainsville when I leave UCF and your inbox better be clear, Anna.

too bad you can't send me messages nikka

 

[Couth]

I am well aware of that but this isn't what we are talking about. Op accused unattractive women of using their skin tone as a cop out from not be able to find guys to like them. Any conscientious black person who actually considers the effects of racism and colorism knows that the only subset group who use this technique are dark skinned black women, so essentially op is attacking dark skinned women for using his cop out when in fact it is not their fault.


You threaten to come to gainesville and tina turner me

Nah.

I'm pretty sure op was just using the dark skin situation as an example. Fat girls do the same thing. Talk about how men don't want them because of societal pressure. Sluts do the same thing. Talk about how men don't want them because society wants women to suppress their sexuality. In most cases the female is just lazy and would rather make up excuses for her plight then work to change it.

Society isn't fair. Thats a fact. But complaining about it or trying to cop out changes nothing. Only thing you can do is grind for what you want. Dark skinned people have to grind harder, but so do fat people, and so do hideous people, and so do short people, and so do people with one arm. Thats life. Most of us weren't born perfect. Anyone who expects the world to be fair is delusional.

Women from every race, shade, and ethnicity complain about their skin color and ethnic features. The grass is always greener.

 

[Mr Rager]

they got family members lyin to them, their friends, social media, and nikkas that don't get any p*ssy hypin em

/thread

 

[Aceofspades404]

Nah.

I'm pretty sure op was just using the dark skin situation as an example. Fat girls do the same thing. Talk about how men don't want them because of societal pressure. Sluts do the same thing. Talk about how men don't want them because society wants women to suppress their sexuality. In most cases the female is just lazy and would rather make up excuses for her plight then work to change it.

Society isn't fair. Thats a fact. But complaining about it or trying to cop out changes nothing. Only thing you can do is grind for what you want. Dark skinned people have to grind harder, but so do fat people, and so do hideous people, and so do short people, and so do people with one arm. Thats life. Most of us weren't born perfect. Anyone who expects the world to be fair is delusional.

Women from every race, shade, and ethnicity complain about their skin color and ethnic features. The grass is always greener.

And here you are doing the same thing. You should really feel uncomfortable grouping dark skinned women with fat women and sluts. Does that make any sense to you? Continue to deflect bc of course a white woman complaining that she doesn't have blonde hair and blue eyes faces the same amount of struggles. What a joke.

 

[DIMES]

Real talk too many nikkas feed into the shyt about you can fukk anybody long as you got enough game
Women are the ones who do the choosing, game is just having a set of rules you follow in order make sure the woman doesn't change her mind about you
Too many broke ass crusty lookin nikkas tryin to bag a dime, but they bring nothing to the table LOL why would that chick want you if she can get a Trey Songz lookin nikka with a degree who can take her to Paris and shyt?

U got low self esteem when t comes to girls


I'm good looking even so I couldn't bag shyt if my game was trash

 

[Couth]

And here you are doing the same thing. You should really feel uncomfortable grouping dark skinned women with fat women and sluts. Does that make any sense to you? Continue to deflect bc of course a white woman complaining that she doesn't have blonde hair and blue eyes faces the same amount of struggles. What a joke.

i see what you're saying. But that's life. Dark skinned people are at the bottom of the food chain. if you wanna make it as a dark skinned person you gotta hustle harder. Same way a fat person would have to hustle harder.

White supremacy has had the same effect on the asian community (indians included).

 

[DIMES]

Oh so now you're throwing fat into the mix when your original post only focused on them being ugly. Dude just stop. This whole thread is just an attack on dark skinned women and you know it.
Name me another subset of women who complain about guys not finding them attractive bc of their skin tone? Aint that what this thread is about?
FOH with your shyt.

Asian women

Dominicans

Indians

Your so dumb haha

 

[philmonroe]

I'm not sure what I stumbled into here...

A treatise against ugly people?! Lmao!

To me it's not that genuinely ugly people are tryin to jump on the colorism bandwagon, it's moreso that negative perception of darker skin on woman makes people judge them harsher. I've seen dudes give a pass to straight up hideous non-blk chicks just cuz and yet a blk chick has to be perfection.

Shyt is crazy. Sure there may be some people using colorism as a scapegoat but at the end of the day you can't act like people don't trip about this issue sometimes.

Well take that bullshyt to them cats that did it don't lump everybody else in with your (speaking in general) bullshyt. Just because something bad happened to one person don't mean its cool for them to go stereotyping in this bytch male/female.

 

[Software]

U got low self esteem when t comes to girls


I'm good looking even so I couldn't bag shyt if my game was trash

??? What bro what are you talking about? My post definitely addressed that.

 

[Raiders]

Same reason I can't

 

[Killer Instinct]

Okay I can be meannnnnn (only when I'm pushed though ) but you on another level, KILLER Instinct.

And I'm not trying to get married. Too late for that

Look at this nikka.

You on another level. Don't tell me you're yellow

You stay throwing rocks at yellow nikkas.
You ain't fooling nobody Elle.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Asian women

Dominicans

Indians

Your so dumb haha

All that is tied to colorism and white supremacy and op wasn't referring to them bc he specifically used light skinned and dark skinned.