Why some girls can't accept that they just not attractive?

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Variations of this topic get made a lot :pachaha:. Anyway, I wanna know why it bothers yall so much when people you perceive as being "ugly" consider themselves to be attractive or worthy of attention. Everyone should feel good about themselves, no matter what they look like. As long as they are a cool and down to earth person, why should it matter. To me, it seems like deep down some of yall are mad that these "ugly bytches" won't fukk yall or let yall "practice" on them. It's like yall don't want them to feel they are worthy of more quality.
 

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All truth breh :yeshrug:


Woman act like looks don't matter to them when it really matters to them more then men:sas2:

I agree then I kinda don't.

A lot of men don't care as much about their own appearance as much as females but they do care about the appearance of a potential SO or SO more than females.
 

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I agree then I kinda don't.

A lot of men don't care as much about their own appearance as much as females but they do care about the appearance of a potential SO or SO more than females.


You must not see some of the heffas that nikkas are willing to dikk down and wife.....:comeon:
 

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do dark skin women not have free will? Sure as a child it would affect them, but to be over 18 and blaming these issues on childhood is simply pathetic, a grown adult! get over it

I know you were not quoting me, but as a darkskin woman I have some experience with this. In my youth, people ragged on me about my skin tone. I used to think I was very ugly and I carried it with me all the way into my college years. I am much better now, however, I sometimes have my set backs. Telling someone to get over it is kind of insensitive. Especially, when it has been engrained into a person's mind for years.
 
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I know you were not quoting me, but as a darkskin woman I have some experience with this. In my youth, people ragged on me about my skin tone. I used to think I was very ugly and I carried it with me all the way into my college years. I am much better now, however, I sometimes have my set backs. telling someone to get over it is kind of insensitive. Especially, when it has been engrained it into a person's mind for years.

is the world not insensitive? sure it could have affected you, but there are solutions out there, cbt for example. crying is attention seeking and counter productive
 
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