Why millenials and Gen Z are no longer dating

[Wild self]

Shows like the grapevine that instigate and make genders see each other like the enemy. Gay men who constantly are leading the charge against shytting on straight men. Majority of black women I’ve noticed will let a gay black man lead them and tell them how bad straight black men but will never critoze themselves.

The internet and dating apps turned women into monsters and men into losers.

Straight Black men that aint rich/famous = disposable to the eyes of the dating scene.

 

[Mowgli]

At this point, these ratchet entitled thots dont deserve to reproduce, for the good of humanity

Just means men have to be better at choosing a woman beyond "asses is fat" while having their shyt together.

And even then she has to be a hell of a woman to not leave you after she gets what she wants out of the relationship. She's got all the incentive to cash out on you so choosing is the most important part of the relationship process.

 

[Soldier]

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@Cloutius Maximus
@Serious
@UpAndComing

Your thoughts on this ?

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

Got a 26 year old coworker that keeps curving me

Peanut butter skin
huge breastmeat with hangtime
big butt
pretty face
clear skin
6'1

I just need to see what that thang smell like

Send her your meat on the company Slack. Trust me it works

 

[Apollo Creed]

Nikkas on thecoli been trying to oldheads this

One side has data

One side has anecdotes about Gen Z being scared to talk to bytches and how women don't gotta settle for bums anymore

them washed nikkas legit slaves to hoes. Their whole purpose was around whether or not they could get sex. Future gens saw this and the fukkery that came from it and those who get sex ramped up getting sex for the minimum effort, and the cats who would normally had to simp have just said fukk it I rather watch porn or focus on myself.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

One thing she said that was true was that women love forcing a man to lower his standards.
Women love talking that "i WoNt SeTtLe!" sh*t, but want a man to settle for them.
Women with multiple kids, multiple baby daddies, over weight...asking for a godly tier man and thinking he will just accept anything.
Kevin Samuels tried to explain this to women night after night and was met with hostility.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Online dating and hooking up with coworkers is becoming more common from what I see

This kinda make sense except for the coworker part. Are good paid career people dating now? Used to be a thing in maybe the 60s. Now?

It boils down to:
-A lot of guys can't cold approach.
-Clubs are trash with women in groups curving hella dudes.


Most men only way of getting laid are apps or social circle. If you ain't got either you SOL. Socializing and constant rejections is an absolute MUST if you want to get laid. That's the game and it's been that way for the longest, albeit a lil harder because of standards.

 

[Ayo]

If you want to look at relationship dynamics just look at the music that was coming out at that time.

Look at the way music has shifted in the last 50 years. Take hip hop and R&B for example. Most of the music was about the courtship. Spitting game. Long term relationships. And some simp shyt like Nikkas being sad that their girl left them. The other man. Wanting another chance. R.Kelly and a few others in that era would sprinkle in tracks that were more hardcore.

Now music is all hardcore. 'Slut Me Out' is dope but it should be a jump the shark moment for the genre. But it won't be. Because it's representative of the transactional nature of dating and fukking nowadays. Swipe. Swipe. Swipe. Match. fukk.

The generations coming up would literally need a time machine to write anything coming out of the 70s (lenny williams, harold melvin etc) to the early 2000s.

But who am I kidding? Tinder came out 1 month before I settled down. My numbers would be in the thousands if that shyt was around when I was younger.

 

[Wild self]

them washed nikkas legit slaves to hoes. Their whole purpose was around whether or not they could get sex. Future gens saw this and the fukkery that came from it and those who get sex ramped up getting sex for the minimum effort, and the cats who would normally had to simp have just said fukk it I rather watch porn or focus on myself.

People call me a redundant poster for calling out oldheads of Gen X gangsta ass simps

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

the issue is the laws haven't adjusted with equal employment opportunity.

Women understand this and will never vote to change it. So as a man it's idiotic to do anything more than casual sex lol.

It is equal. Everything is split down the middle. We usually see cases of The breadwinner is the one who gets raped, no matter if it's man or woman. That's why you read cases like Halle Berry paying thousands in spousal support. but if both y'all yoked, it's 50/50. I will say having to fight for the kids is BS.

Besides I don't think marriage is that bad. The stats are too vague. Multiple dumbasses marry, divorce, then get married again.

 

[Wild self]

This kinda make sense except for the coworker part. Are good paid career people dating now? Used to be a thing in maybe the 60s. Now?

A lot of guys can't cold approach.
Clubs are trash with women in groups curving hella dudes.


Most men only way of getting laid are apps or social circle. If you ain't got either you SOL.

Plus most high end careers require people working 60+ hours a week and dont have much spare time for anything else outside of sleep.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Some points are real.

Definitely that all women think they’re a 10 is a real.

I think online there’s a delusion that women have greater access to men than reality, because in the real world women get humbled, so they’ll know if theyre attractive or not.

To be crude, a lot of women truly think they’re worth $150,000 and up (via the man they want to date them). They are not Anyone who’s making that or more knows how hard it is to come by and the fact that women think being pretty is equal to it is ridiculous.

Worrying about women's standards is silly, i never understood why dudes complain about that. Most women with high standards end up miserable. A woman wants a man who makes $150k? The universe always has a way of dealing with them whether they deserve or not.

 

[DaHNIC82]

It's because everyone wants everything now. They're too focused on the outcomes and not the inputs that generate them.

Dudes want women out the panties NOW.
Women want men taking them on expensive dates NOW and treat them to instagramable romance NOW.

Everyone is focused on the surface level benefits and no one is thinking:

"how great would I have to make a man feel for him to want to take me on expensive dates and drown me in romance."

"How much would I have to improve woman's life for her to want to ride me every opportunity she gets?"

The entire dating pool is full of surface level thinkers who often deserve the trash they attract but lack the self reflective skills to realize it.

I think the shyt economy created a new form of impatience

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

People don't go out or know where to meet new people. From what I observe this is the biggest issue. I see it in so many forms. Leaning on the internet for dating (which gives people more issues mentally) or coworkers has become more common as a result.

People not heading to bars and clubs like that to meet new folks, nowadays those environments only appeal to a certain type. This why dudes should consider learning to cold approach more than ever but now they too scared. Idk

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

Easy to blame the game when you’re losing

That's a bar nikka


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