Why millenials and Gen Z are no longer dating

[JasoRockStar]

What happened to him?

He posted a pic this white girl on here who was one of his coworkers' daughters. Dudes were trying to reverse image search, find her profile on social media so they can snitch on him. Mods found out and bushed him. His time in the dark, barren wasteland...changed him. It changed him in ways that he doesn't even fully comprehend. He's still mentally, emotionally and spiritually attached to The Bushes. Unrighteously attached at that.

@Still Benefited

 

[How Sway?]

Porn is lowkey a big part of it for this gen.

All this shyt could be resolved if we got rid of unlimited data and wifi.

It won't go down w/o a fight though.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Dating is literally prostitution the sooner you idiots realize this the better off you will be.

Dating was never a path way to Marriage, Courting via Social Circles was and that is NOT dating.

 

[Cadillac]

White people are sounding more black daily with their twangs. Shyt is scary.

Black american /ADOS culture is dominant,

everyone tries to talk like

 

[Cadillac]

Men did this to themselves

Social media made women feel like they deserve the world while putting in zero effort

why? because of how thirsty men are

prior programming like tv shows, talk shows before social media did that to.

 

[Michael's Black Son]

All this shyt could be resolved if we got rid of unlimited data and wifi.

It won't go down w/o a fight though.

Yup.

- smartphones
- social media
- unlimited everything except sense
- delusions
- attention whoring
- folk not knowing their lane
- low reward, high risk for clout chasing

 

[Wildhundreds]

Dating is literally prostitution the sooner you idiots realize this the better off you will be.

Dating was never a path way to Marriage, Courting via Social Circles was and that is NOT dating.

Whats the difference between the two?

 

[Dave24]

I was having a convo with my nephews that are 22-24. I explained to them how at their age, I went to a grocery store, saw a good looking woman, hollered at her, waited at the bus station to holler more and get the number. Nobody’s likes rejection but it is part of the game and built a man character.Either you took the L and move on or you become an incel. Assuming, you are average looking, it didn’t matter if I was rejected 100 times, it only takes one woman that will like you and she can become your wife.

@010101

 

[TheGreatMTB]

It's because everyone wants everything now. They're too focused on the outcomes and not the inputs that generate them.

Dudes want women out the panties NOW.
Women want men taking them on expensive dates NOW and treat them to instagramable romance NOW.

Everyone is focused on the surface level benefits and no one is thinking:

"how great would I have to make a man feel for him to want to take me on expensive dates and drown me in romance."

"How much would I have to improve woman's life for her to want to ride me every opportunity she gets?"

The entire dating pool is full of surface level thinkers who often deserve the trash they attract but lack the self reflective skills to realize it.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

The internet did a number on people, social norms and interaction. Pumped a lot of anxiety into basic engagements between sexes. People viewing each other's sex as opposition. Expectations are high returns are low. A pool of shallow shyt people. No one wants to build just find perfection, so they can flaunt him/her on socials. Anything less is settling. So they all wait for the next because there are plenty just more is not better. There's always more out there, no need to value what you have.

Some of the best relationships you will ever see are with people who grew together watched each other struggle and glow up. Invested time with each other. People want that without the work like relationships can be had the same way we get most of our other fixes with instant gratification. But the Netflix and Amazon's of love, the dating apps... offer thrill but not much fulfillment. It's gonna be some harsh living for a lot of people in these generations full of shallow narcissists. Everyone isn't the prize. A lot of people should have settled. Humble yourselves.

The Internet is a curse and a blessing

Dating in the 2000’s was the last great era. Technology wasn’t dominant like it was today. People was more in the present moment. Metoo nor exposure culture wasn’t around so brehs wasn’t scared back then. Ladies was getting chose.

Skip to the early 2010’s. Online dating in the 2010’s opened the door for people to find women/men in different codes. Everybody was eating. Yes, the Internet gives us the opportunity to meet potential dating partners.

The main game changer was Instagram. Standards became inflated. Being fake turned into the new real. Toxicity and trauma has been normalized.

Since everybody is online men are more comfortable getting virtual intimacy instead of real intimacy. Younger women are finessing younger men with Onlyfans. Giving out the illusion of a being a Internet girlfriend.

Tik Tok played a role. Exposing how a lot of these Gen Z chicks think. As a result, men have thrown out the towel. Women not getting asked out as much.
As a whole human nature has deteriorated. People see each other as disposable. Becoming more apathetic.

 

[Givethanks]

My guy sent me this and said he's adding this to his move list.


Mind you, he follows that incel shyt, thinks women are all gold diggers while dating this girl who's doing very well for herself and does everything for him.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Women are literally writing off blue collar workers and short nikkas
And they wonder why they single
Then couple that with listening to they ain’t shyt friends
Ain’t shyt mommas
Ain’t shyt aunties
Thinking they can change a nikka who is a high earner and he will only be faithful to her
And this is what you reap
You can’t keep saying all men are trash then
back door and say a horse/carriage ride is too much for a first date
You can’t say you want a dangerous man and think a nikka who has shyt to lose
Is going to take you seriously
You can’t advertise nothing but ass all day
And think some nikka really wants you to be the mother of his children
Everything these whores post on instagram and twitter is counter intuitive to what they want
Men are reading the tea leaves and saying
fukk all the goofy shyt
I can just smash and dash because all these whores are showing they demons on Tik Tok
Ain’t nobody got time for that

 

[Turk]

More and more young nikkas are checking out of dating, marriage, etc for a multitude of reasons. I'm really intrigued to see where this shyt will lead in 20, 30, etc years

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Her point about divorce is very accurate. I was just talking to one of my old music teachers. I saw his house was for sale a while back, so I figured he either retired or got divorced. Turns out he got divorced and is now living in a rented room for the time being.

It’s crazy how a man can go from a really nice house in a really nice neighborhood, to renting a room in someone’s house, just because your wife up and decides to leave you.

 

[010101]

different programming*