Why Men Get So Few Matches on Dating Apps

[blues_funk_reggae]

I get good matches on the apps ..the issue is when I start talking to the bytch the first thing they all say is “so where are you taking me, let’s do something fun, etc”

Maybe im being too picky but that shyt turn me off, like of course I’m going to take you out but first can we meet and see if we even vibe before I start spending. Back in 2015 sure I would have been cool with just taking a bytch out but it’s 25 and a date for two costing no less than $150 and that’s if you trying to be cheap..imagine spending 150 on every bytch you match with and hoping she likes you enough to continue..you match 5 bytches they all want to go out for the first meeting that’s $750 lol

When I start doing the math it takes me out the game considering I spend this money and the bytch might not even be feeling me for real and just uses me as a “date night” for a couple weeks..

I will say once you fukk, all that spend on me let’s go somewhere shyt go out the window, the issue is you have to spend to get her open to fukk now a days..bytches so scared of getting played they making you spend first before they take you serious

This is the thing that a lot of women don't understand. You hear them always complaining about "broke men" and men who wanna go "50/50" on the first date. They only see it from their end, but fail to realize that if you take the average 28 year old man, who's been dating since 18 and has 10 years of experience under his belt, he's been around the block several times and has done this already. Just like you said, you already done the "take me out" game. Men out here have BEEN doing that, and have BEEN paying 100% on the first date, and have been getting ghosted left and right. Now he's on date #13, #20, #34 ... and still has to foot the bill without getting to know her first? That sh*t gets played out real fast, real quick.

Lots of women out here want a man to crash out for them financially off rip, and men are starting to buck back and say, "nah, I'm good, y'all ain't really worth the chase." Men have the money, they not broke, the problem is they don't wanna spend it on YOU.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Dating apps, speed dating, Kendra G, Pop the Balloon etc are all the same.

An over abundance of woman all wanting that 10 Percent of men. The 10% will feast while the 90% starve.

The bottom 90% must not being trying. I got women choosing me and I ain't some undercover brother player

 

[2Quik4UHoes]

Dating apps: where starving nikkas pursue mentally ill women

Unless I’m overseas I don’t fukk with them shyts fr. I passed that online dating phase when I was young nikka on Black Planet and AOL chats tryna get some cheeks on the other side of town.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Dating apps, speed dating, Kendra G, Pop the Balloon etc are all the same.

An over abundance of woman all wanting that 10 Percent of men. The 10% will feast while the 90% starve.

Women view most men as "meh" at best on raw attractiveness. You gotta bring multiple things to the table unless you're so attractive that female 6s, 7s and 8s approach you unsolicited and are content with just dikk. I'm talking about the kind of brehs that don't need to flash money or even dress that well.

 

[Dorian Breh]

^^^^

Met my fiancé on an app. She swiped on me

She swiped on me too breh

Last week

 

[The ADD]

She swiped on me too breh

Last week

Good for you

 

[HabitualChiller]

There were too many women selling cat on Blk

I just matched with 2 Thick Thai women who sell box on Bumble. I'm about to get off these apps.

These hoes are friends, too

 

[FlyRy]

you brehs are still dealing with domestic dating apps?

 

[Michael's Black Son]

Dating apps, speed dating, Kendra G, Pop the Balloon etc are all the same.

An over abundance of woman all wanting that 10 Percent of men. The 10% will feast while the 90% starve.

Exactly.

All the bĩtches want the same 28 dudes just like the real world and those dudes don’t want them outside of a quick nut

And what legit dude is finding chicks on a damn app.

A man of means is already in a social circle with people on his level or higher. He is going to marry up/level up when it’s time to settle down.

Average chick doesn’t realize she’s a bussdown or a damn migrant female to a legit dude even tho she sees herself like she’s royalty

 

[Soldier]

Exactly.

All the bĩtches want the same 28 dudes just like the real world and those dudes don’t want them outside of a quick nut

And what legit dude is finding chicks on a damn app.

A man of means is already in a social circle with people on his level or higher. He is going to marry up/level up when it’s time to settle down.

Average chick doesn’t realize she’s a bussdown or a damn migrant female to a legit dude even tho she sees herself like she’s royalty

« Migrant female »
What does it mean?

 

[Michael's Black Son]

« Migrant female »
What does it mean?

Someone who is 4ft 11in, appears to have recently entered the country illegally and sells candy — with a baby strapped to their back — on the NYC subway

There’s TON of them here in the city.

And will often violate your personal space to try to make you buy candy

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

Someone who is 4ft 11in, appears to have recently entered the country illegally and sells candy — with a baby strapped to their back — on the NYC subway

There’s TON of them here in the city.

And will often violate your personal space to try to make you buy candy

One of them came up to me the other day offering candy, I said no....15 seconds later they circle around and come back and ask me again, I'm like woman you just saw, stop harassing people out here with these expired twix bars

 

[cartierhoe]

Women have millions of options in comparison to men on the apps so they can afford to be choosy

 

[LiveFromLondon]

A lot of men speech themselves outta p*ssy I must say

Heard this said many times so please give examples, I need to know if Ive done so myself

 

[Michael's Black Son]

One of them came up to me the other day offering candy, I said no....15 seconds later they circle around and come back and ask me again, I'm like woman you just saw, stop harassing people out here with these expired twix bars

Breh they are the migrant version of how Indians have the monopoly on Subway, Popeyes and Dunkin Donuts now.

First, I’m not buying candy from a random person.

And what makes them think when they show up, you suddenly want to eat sugar.

The kid strapped to the back won’t tug on my heartstrings either. Take that shīt back over the border