you guys are really gonna fault him for marrying that girl? you guys are treating it like he was just like "I'm gay, but I need to act straight". that seems to be totally ignoring the reality of the situation and the pressures involved
Everyone has outside pressures that effect their behavior. But at the end of the day each person is held accountable for his own actions.
Anyone who can go through a lifetime of lies and deceit, especially to the ones closest to them, and then only come clean when it is personaly/professionally beneficial to themselves, should not be applauded as "brave" or a "hero"
Gay people continue to get passes for truly reprehensible actions, cause they always have someone for them and making excuses.
Scust