Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

[onthereal]

she married

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

I know most of y'all don't use condoms, so why are you sleeping with women who you don't even like and would never be with? Especially without a condom?

cause i like the way your cream looks on my bare penis...

 

[Draje]

You must be a female. He isn't in to you boo. Women need to understand sex and love are completely different things to most men. Where as with women they actually have to want you to be they man on some level before they give up the goods. When it comes to men the female can be a no good thot ass bytch, but he will still fukk if he likes the p*ssy. He just won't be with her or commit. With women like I said, it's the total opposite. Last knowledge I'm kicking for free

Since when? Women have been fukking dudes they ain't into for money, security, and such since forever.

Prostitution is totally a thing. Women can fukk just for physical reasons too.

 

[iBrowse]

But thats not entertaining

Fair enough.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

Older than me(usually 5+ years...lately 15+ years)

Too chubby and no intentions on taking an active role in their health.

They don't want a relationship and lately that's all I run into alot of women that are starting to realize men see no value in commitment especially men with their shyt together(too much to lose settling down)

Ugly(my standards for fukking and dating are completely different)

They value a man that will hangout with them, go out to eat or drinks, fukk them good and cuddle with them afterwards. I give them everything but the title and gifts. And they still have the luxury of going out on dates with other nikkas. I just have the luxury of getting the p*ssy when they come back from their dates.

gospel!

 

[ChiefQueen]

Cause I done been there done that. I only got 1 fwb right now, she's sticking around because she's sprung. She thinks we're getting back together. We're not. She probably thinks by continuing to fukk me that one day I'll come to my senses and get back with her

Sad.

 

[ChiefQueen]

This entire thread is extremely saddening to read. My sistas need to do better. Know your worth. Your body is a God given temple in which you must hold to the highest regard. Quit being a piece of meat that some random bum gets to enjoy for 5 minutes.

 

[Collateral]

Sad.

This entire thread is extremely saddening to read. My sistas need to do better. Know your worth. Your body is a God given temple in which you must hold to the highest regard. Quit being a piece of meat that some random bum gets to enjoy for 5 minutes.

 

[sfgiants]

because i just want to unload my yolk and nothing else
maybe grab some food watch tv but then i got shyt to do don't wana go on dates or meet ur parents or cuddle
literally just want to eat, sleep and cum

there are women that want the same

and it works out perfectly

 

[ChiefQueen]

You'll be the first one crying in a few years time asking where all the good women with morals and values are. Smh. I hope you're ready to settle with somebody like yourself in the future. Good luck.

 

[Collateral]

You'll be the first one crying in a few years time asking where all the good women with morals and values are. Smh. I hope you're ready to settle with somebody like yourself in the future. Good luck.

I'll only take blame for the way I broke up with her. It was too sloppy, I gave her hope. But everything else is on her. When someone says they don't want to be with you anymore then that should be it. But girls like to hold on whenever they get dumped. That's not my fault, she should have moved on.

 

[ChiefQueen]

I'll only take blame for the way I broke up with her. It was too sloppy, I gave her hope. But everything else is on her. When someone says they don't want to be with you anymore then that should be it. But girls like to hold on whenever they get dumped. That's not my fault, she should have moved on.

Is she slow? Or does she lack self-esteem? Please, tell her to move on and get some self worth the next time you see her.

 

[Giselle]

Another question for you guys since I don't want to make another thread.

Do you take your fwb out on dates? Do you think you are obligated to date your fwb?

what if we both mainly want sex and are happy with the way things are? why are you trying so hard to make things fit with what you would want in the situation?

you're probably the same type of girl that would complain the dude is cheating on her and why dudes don't keep it real. but when dudes keep it 100 from the beginning it's still a problem.

Nope, not that type.
This was a general question.

OP don't realize that there's a large segment of women out here that simply don't want a relationship with said dude. They wanna freak him and go on about their business

I do know that. I didn't ask about them though, I asked about you guys.

OP DONT KNOW WHY SHE GETTIN FUCCED WIT NO COMMITMENT LMAO

This isn't about me. I do not usually post my business on here.

She got a kid and who her man coming home from jail soon. That's too much for me to deal with at 21 and she 20

So, you couldn't find anyone else? I'm pretty sure there are other women you could find who doesn't have a bf in jail. That could be dangerous for you.

one had 3 abortions

Another was bipolar (actually bipolar)

One was approaching 30 when I was 20

Wow, How did you find out ?

@InquisitiveHeaux

When I say I expect her to be faithful, I expect her to be faithful because I asked her to keeps things between me and her, or at least to let me know/cut me off if she finds another person she wants to smush.

And I likewise tell her that I will do the same.

So, she is basically your gf until she finds someone else to fck. Got it!

If you go on the female messageboards you see this question a lot.

A female 6/10 will throw the P at a male 8/10 and hopes that he gets so sprung and falls in love with her level of cooperation/cooking/sloppy toppy that it turns into a relationship. Although I've seen that this is rarely beneficial to the woman, I also realize that they are biologically programmed to behave this way so that she can be fertilized by the highest value male possible.

Throughout history, society has instituted various mechanisms to prevent this from happening in favor of the more sustainable family structure with "even" partners, but the biological urge is still there. The ones that have been reared to place a high priority on family and having a long term partner usually can overcome their instinctual urges and make a rational decision to be receptive to men on their level. However, there's a lot of women that weren't raised that way and don't place enough priority on finding a long term mate, so they continue to sign up to be side pieces, jumpoffs, and fwb, in search of that male with superior dna to mate with, and then hope that he magically decides to wife them.

Speaking of female message boards, lsa recently had a thread about this fwb/casual sex/netflix and chill thing. They were in there mad talking about men not dating anymore, only wanting fwb ect. Y'all ain't sht type stuff. As if women don't agree to casual sex.

They also said that fwb should be going out on dates with their casual sex partner, do you agree?


What do you have here? All I see is blank.

You must be a female. He isn't in to you boo. Women need to understand sex and love are completely different things to most men. Where as with women they actually have to want you to be they man on some level before they give up the goods. When it comes to men the female can be a no good thot ass bytch, but he will still fukk if he likes the p*ssy. He just won't be with her or commit. With women like I said, it's the total opposite. Last knowledge I'm kicking for free

This isn't about me. I do not usually put my personal information on here. Just asking a question.

I would never end up in this situation because I would never agree to casual sex.

Brehettes on the coli, you all need to take a good look at this forum thread and read it multiple times until your eyes and head hurts.

This is why the Most High has said sexual promiscuity (casual sex, fwb, sex with your boyfriend will always put you on the losing end.

This thread is almost 14 pages deep of men dropping knowledge of how they operate with women.

It baffles me at how some of y'all still think you can disobey the Most High and come out on top.

Honor the Most High with ya body and stop FORNICATING!!!

/close thread

I agree. I'm going to put this thread on lsa so they can see it. Just have to find a way to do it under incog.










I see your dusty ass is you are still all up and through my thread @DarrynCobretti

I told you before, you can't try to hide in the daps, people can still see you.

 

[Collateral]

Is she slow? Or does she lack self-esteem? Please, tell her to move on and get some self worth the next time you see her.

She knows i'm quality that's why She hasn't been exposed to men like me in her life so once she actually found someone that treated her like a woman she got sprung.

Another question for you guys since I don't want to make another thread.

Do you take your fwb out on dates? Do you think you are obligated to date your fwb?

If it were up to me, no. But some of them are not totally cool with the whole "come thru to fukk and dip with no string attached" move so I gotta take her out sometimes. I'm taking my FWB out on an "outing" one last time and thats it. If she not trying to fukk and dip then I got a nice set of bushes for her

 

[Giselle]

She knows i'm quality that's why She hasn't been exposed to men like me in her life so once she actually found someone that treated her like a woman she got sprung.

You are not quality if you are a cheater.

If it were up to me, no. But some of them are not totally cool with the whole "come thru to fukk and dip with no string attached" move so I gotta take her out sometimes. I'm taking my FWB out on an "outing" one last time and thats it. If she not trying to fukk and dip then I got a nice set of bushes for her

What kind of outings do you take them on?

How is she your fwb if she hasn't had sex with you yet?