Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

[wickedsm]

That takes self reflection and setting realistic expectations.

A lot of women would prefer just to shoot for stars and hope for the best.

Smh. Sad but true.

 

[DamienWayne]

I didn't realize op was a woman, if have to ask

 

[Won Won]

Don't know where my last FWB stood, but she wasn't dependable or settled down enough for anything more. Known her since HS, and she really hadn't changed. Still flaky, still dabbling in coke, still lots of family drama.

 

[FocusedDaily]

because I have a career, a house, a paid off car, a retirement account, along with pension from my job, and a nice savings account and she just had a fat ass in her walmart pants.

This, My wifey is intelligent, has a career, and is a great partner.

But "walmart cashier thot / CNA" type chicks are such a weakness. They look at the potential upgrade and try to suck the skin off your d!ck.
Expectations are low and they're kinda just happy to have attention from an established dude. It's been years since I indulged, but this one friend of a friend I smashed years ago was open just because I owned a house and spoke to and dealt w her respectfully. That's it. Had a three way w her and her home girl the first time we smashed because I ordered in pizza and wasn't acting thirsty. I know a lot of high level respectable women with grad degrees, and none of them are down for that type of action out the gate, if at all.

On some level, being my "something to do when I'm bored" was better than having 100% attention of the type of dude that would cuff her w her baggage.
Eventually they all get to comfortable and overstep, or get fed up and move on.

 

[DEAD7]

Cause we both in relationships

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

You like her enough to talk to her frequently, listen to her, have xes with her, go out sometimes ect. So why isn't she your gf?

You must be a female. He isn't in to you boo. Women need to understand sex and love are completely different things to most men. Where as with women they actually have to want you to be they man on some level before they give up the goods. When it comes to men the female can be a no good thot ass bytch, but he will still fukk if he likes the p*ssy. He just won't be with her or commit. With women like I said, it's the total opposite. Last knowledge I'm kicking for free

 

[surv2syn]

That's true in all situations.

If I'm with a top tier dime, I'm way more excited to be hitting. Even new p*ssy is more exciting than old.

So hell yea a woman is the same. If you are 3 levels above what she used to getting, she's gonna be way more turned on.

Also, and this goes to being a fukk buddy... they are going to let you get away with a lot more shyt, cause they feel like they can't get another one

she cant get preg so its buffet style raw dog and blast on site
#nopullout

 

[iBrowse]

What exactly is this "vetting" process and how much success have you had with it?

If you think I'm going to break it down for you....I'm not.

Of course not because we both know the answer to my questions.

Just found it odd YOU were offering advice of all people.

nikka get off my back.

I don't wanna be bothered with you. Obviously.

You ALWAYS speaking on shyt you know nothing about.

Stay in your zone.

You didn't admit on here that you were in a situation ship with a man twice your age?

Or that you entertain cold approaching from strangers?

With all that said, you think you fit to give advice in a thread like this?

If I'm out in public and a man wants to speak with me, is it wrong to stop and entertain him? Yo gtf you a lil boy.

People cold approach all the time in NOLA.

And again you speaking on shyt you know nothing about with ya fake ass. Yeah I got a great guy who's 17 years older than me and I do NOT wanna be in a relationship with. What's your point?

I see we spreading "bidness" again when we don't have our way

I'll let you talk to yourself in this thread why that message stays on "unread"

O and actually I'm very fit to give advice.

If she wants it she can hit my inbox.

Not fake. Don't take it so personal.

And I'm spreading something you posted in public on here? Yeah ok.

If I were any other poster lol...

Keep acting dumb.

Don't ever threaten me.

Come on guys please get along

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Cuz shes a thot

and you dont value your body enough NOT to put your penis i a woman that doesnt value hers?

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I know most of y'all don't use condoms, so why are you sleeping with women who you don't even like and would never be with? Especially without a condom?

because yall let'em do it....

this isnt rocket science

 

[King of Creampies]

You like her enough to talk to her frequently, listen to her, have xes with her, go out sometimes ect. So why isn't she your gf?

She has 2 kids and I dont wish to get into a relationship with a single mother.

 

[Marci-Senpai]

My dikk too little for any chick to want and fukk with me in that way

 

[Guvnor]

Cause she not the loyal type, crazy, stupid, or better off as a friend cause you can't get your shyt together Sometimes it's cause she only wants the D from you and not a relationship so she made you the friends with benefits.

 

[Dwolf]

Come on guys please get along

But thats not entertaining

 

[Lamar Givens]

Brehettes on the coli, you all need to take a good look at this forum thread and read it multiple times until your eyes and head hurts.

This is why the Most High has said sexual promiscuity (casual sex, fwb, sex with your boyfriend will always put you on the losing end.

This thread is almost 14 pages deep of men dropping knowledge of how they operate with women.

It baffles me at how some of y'all still think you can disobey the Most High and come out on top.

Honor the Most High with ya body and stop FORNICATING!!!

/close thread