Why Isn't Your FWB or Casual Sex Partner Your Girlfriend?

MaxPain

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This thread again

Im single now but

Its cuz not only shes a thot/admitted to having a high body count

she on Twitter heavy & binge watches reality tv

The other one dont know her dad and was abused by an ex years ago, no thanks

They both fine though. Cool peeps as well. I like hanging out with em but they gon stay in my toy box till I meet a worthy woman
 

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There are levels to this.

Not every woman I sleep with is girlfriend caliber to me for various reasons.

Similarly, there's only one woman that I've dated that I considered marrying.

I bring this up because there are some who think a girlfriend is just a mock wife, especially if you live together.

You have to know a person's best role. It'd be a mistake to put someone in one they aren't suited for. I've done that and it ended horribly.
 

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You like her enough to talk to her frequently, listen to her, have xes with her, go out sometimes ect. So why isn't she your gf?

Of course only in a woman's mind that this question would make sense. LOL
Let me now challenge you, why don't you give that nice simp a chance?
He genuinely respects you and would love to be up under your feet hell might even fluff your pillows at night, but that's not how any of this works now does it :sas1:
 

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- She has 2 kids
- Her eating habits are atrocious (she eats too much junk food)
- she refuses to go gym or do any sort of physical activities aside from sex
-has no real hobbies apart from sitting in the house and watching movies/tv shows
- she keeps her place dirty
- Don’t ask her about her past but I do know she went through a hoe phase
 

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Her eating habits are atrocious (she eats too much junk food)
- she refuses to go gym or do any sort of physical activities aside from sex
-has no real hobbies apart from sitting in the house and watching movies/tv shows

Same thing :ohhh: She's hood and has a mega muffin top. Flower tattoo's on the gut trying to hide it. Smokes cigs and blunts all day, hides the smell with stripper lotion. Hits up McDonald's on the daily. She a freak tho. :snoop:
 

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:sas1:Cause she's community property, ma'am. Any other questions?
 

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When I was apart of this lifestyle I only met up with my women to have sex, chill for a bit and that’s it. I got sweet on one of them but she didn’t know how to cook and I got a little irritated putting in work on her and not having a good meal afterwards.

We went out a total of 2 times in 3 years. I did motivate her, she also motivated me. I became a positive influence in her life since she was in college.

I stopped talking to her I met my current woman and decided to be monogamous. I never told her that slowed down. I couldn’t face her because after telling another woman I was fukking about my new relationship she flipped really bad. Didn’t want to hear her cries and anger.

In a perfect world I would take her on as my woman with my current woman. Unfortunately my current woman is too damn jealous and competitive. I just hope the other woman is well and made her dreams come true. She was a good one.

Something I learned from dealing with many women at once is secretly most of them would like you to make them the one. They’ll lie and go along with the fukk friend narrative but it’s a front.

Once you decide to make someone else your number one they’ll flip and blame you like they didn’t know what was up from the beginning. If you can’t handle just fukking don’t front.
 
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