Why is being a lame or square considered an insult?
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It's an online saying but there been situations where black men and black women have to pay a preference tax.what is this?
When we have to date white women who are unattractive to average at best. When a lot of black athletes like Scottie Pippen date non black golddiggers like Larsa Pippin and have to give half his retirement to her....he paying a preference tax. Rachel from the Bachelorette have to pay her cac ex a "preference/swirling" tax because she who is a lawyer and her dad was a federal judge (I believe)...didn't force her cac to sign a prenump. She wanted to flex that white man but she paying $10k alimony every month. Those are examples of paying a "preference tax." Money just going out our community. Many black athletes marry white women and that money gonna leave our community.
Sometimes we put non blacks on a pedestal and we have to pay that "preference/swirling/divestor tax."
Look up on YouTube about divestor tax...and u will see many videos.
When we date interracially...we need to do it out of genuine love or meet organically (like at school, work, etc) and not because of self hatred, frustration towards our own race, or wanting to flex. We also put each other down way too much and other races see that. Not a good look. I know other races do it too but we do it way too much IMO.
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The first bolded sentence is a myth. The second happens to black athletes/entertainers no matter what color the woman is.
King P
Legends Never Die
They're pulling average-cute women. But I can assure you that L7 white men are NOT pulling bad white women.
And L7 Black & Latino men can get women. It's just that we want the coldest women out there, and they ain't going for those types. It is what it is
Being robbed of your lineage, enslaved for generations and being unable to participate in generational wealth entirely during that time period, then getting placed in poor areas that were mostly inescapable due to deeply ingrained systemic racism and policies that are meant to keep you down, while your community is being torn apart by drugs being pumped into it and the subsequent crime that follows...could warp your priorities a bit. Being a hustler, star athlete or entertainer are the main ways out so you prioritize certain qualities
I've seen corny, dusty, lame and even financially struggling white men pull baddies of their own race and especially Asian, black and Hispanic women. It happens quite often.They're pulling average-cute women. But I can assure you that L7 white men are NOT pulling bad white women.
And L7 Black & Latino men can get women. It's just that we want the coldest women out there, and they ain't going for those types. It is what it is
It wouldn't happen much with black men with the aforementioned attributes.
It is what it is. I ain't mad at all...most purpose driven men aren't mad. But sometimes we need to call out the bullshyt, toxicity, double standards, foolishness, etc.
It's a stereotype that black men mess with the leftovers of the white community but some truth to that.
Also, I would like to see money and wealth stay in our community instead of Tyrone and Keisha giving it to Becky and Brad. Marrying a non black means money leaving our community.
It's nothing to be mad about but sometimes u gotta point out the bullshyt, toxicity, etc.
And as a black man..I wanna see more examples of black love but more importantly black wealth and for our demographic to be viewed higher as a collective. As a collective, we are looked at as one of the worst groups of men when it comes to our statistics regarding unemployment, absentee fathers, STDs, making broken homes, etc.
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That's a misconception. That's a projection. Nothing is boring about being square people just lump anything they don't like into that category then make it to be so and it continues to misinform the impressionable young boys and girls. Being square and being boring or corny are not synonymous. Square people got money and go on vacations and do shyt that doesn't put them in a box. All my square friends for dope careers and love to have fun. It should only be kids still thinking like this
I agree about the jail part....Ima foodie and don't want no damn swole lol
IMO...I dislike Donald Glover types for being white worshipping or loving more so than them being cornyIt’s something in my black DNA that makes me hate a corny man.
Look at Donald Glover or any other BLERD
I hate him for being corny …
but at the same time identify with him a lot
It’s a paradox …
Bruh square or circle...I commend u for living right and not drinking, smoking and drugging...and having good health...good to see black men do this.I love being a square.
Never been arrested. Zero criminal record. Perfect credit. No baby mothers, tattoos, or piercings. I don’t smoke or drink. My health is in peak condition. Zero drama. No grays in my hair. Hairline still fine.
10/10 would recommended. I go through life on easy mode.
I wish I could stop drinking on weekends and taco Tuesdays but I'm sipping on a fire margarita now....
There is very little truth to that stereotype. I've never seen black men with white women so far beneath them physically. Cats make the Walmart jokes but that's always after the 2-4 kids, most women are washed in the same circumstance. That's also a regional variable (South/Midwest) where the people from the heaviest parts of the country are commenting. In my region this gap in attractiveness doesn't exist.
At worst he'll be with a WW with a 5/6 face and 8-10 body (which he'd do for any race), or a 6/7 face cute girl next door type with a "plain" body.
I don't care about a young black man's wealth via genetic lottery ticket serving one color of women more than the next under the sham of nuptial/family law. Especially when everyone swears 95% of black NBA/NFL players are lame and gameless, meaning if they were a 5'8" 170-pound electrician, their dating paradigm would the same.
They all with you for being the Top 0.0001% physically and securing an 8-figure worth by age 25 and 9 figure worth by 30. Black, white or Saturnian.
The last paragraph is difficult to do when one half of the group has unrealistic/made-as-they-go expectations on how socioeconomic class, physical attraction, and character supplement each other.