Ya' Cousin Cleon
OG COUCH CORNER HUSTLA
Dudes have zero idea how expensive childcare is in 2020
Lol men are respected for it though, within their families where it counts. Stop trying to impress the world. I’ve seen the dynamic work Rigidity in thinking can’t exist when you’re black in America. Continuing to tirelessly try and live up to roles that are damn near impossible, is a waste of time to me.
Again, I’m not saying the whole male as a provider isn’t ideal and I agree most women would rather have a traditional set up, but when you’re black it’s not always going to be the basis of the relationship, but it could grow to that. A lot of us date out because it’s less work to get to the ideal.