Why has the Rate of black people in interracial Marriages sharply increased in recent years?

[Will Ross]

why do people make stupid threads like this?
Whenever this topic comes up people use 1960 arguments oh you got self hate.
No we live in a integrated world and people date who is around them.

 

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Haven’t read through the thread yet. Has anybody blamed Black women yet?

But seriously, this isn’t new.
Reasons vary but all of it is social conditioning. Hip hop culture drove a lot of this for young black males viewing white women and exoticals and spicy Latinas defining them as what’s “poppin”. There’s is going to be a shift in black female thot rap that follows this trend soon. Mark my words. Slow ass black female rappers gon soon be talking about only wanting redbone men with straight hair they can run they fingers through. Coming to a ep mixtape near you.

Add positive stereotyping of non-black women as being “submissive or feminine”, colorism, and Black women image being associated with poverty and the ghetto and you get the handful of black men who are marriage-minded thinking that whiteness or anything but blackness is the answer. In spite of many anger-filled bitter scorned hoe tears from countless posters on this site towards me, I’ve been saying this shyt for years.

(Cue “FAT FEMINIST bytch! YOU FUKKIN AN ASIAN! YOU HATE BLACK MEN! DYCK WATCHING!”
Sorry. I can’t resist because these lames be mad as hell wit it too.)

Meanwhile, a lot of black women generation Z chicks are stupidly following the exact playbook they ironically mad at black dudes for following. But just like a lot of these black dudes have problems in these IR relationships, a lotta black women will get their wake up calls too. Because in spite of the issues we have in our community, foreign communities have JUST as much fukkery, if not more. Then you adding the possibility of racism, cultural differences and language barriers on top of that...AND these chicks being food for any man they meet regardless of race because they got bottom of the barrel self-esteem. AND the increased risk for women due to their vulnerability when it comes to dating men regardless. There’s a reason why a lot of women ain’t YOLO on foreigner dikk like that in most races in comparison to their men (Asians got some crazy shyt going on because them chicks chase a bag over anything.)

But oh well. You can try to tell people that the stove is hot, or you can watch em ignore you and catch them 8th degrees burns.


Solutions: Teach black love. Not just in relationships. But black self love. Little black girls and little black boys should look at this

And this

as the prototype. Sure others in other races can be attractive. But not more attractive than what we see when we look in the mirror if you got two black parents.

Fix black image, fix black self-esteem and you fix black love.

The rest is white noise and excuses. All that “they accepted me more” shyt or “I ain’t have nobody black on my level...” it’s excuses.

Because saying the truth for a lotta people is too hard apparently and gets people hurt.
Saying “Im a mentally broken buffoon who has internalized every single negative stereotype about the opposite sex in my own race and the top attractive people in my race don’t want me, so I’m going to switch it up completely for a non-black mate, date a non-black 5 and treat em like a dyme, take all kinds of racist, insulting shyt from them that I wouldn’t tolerate from somebody in my own race because their social value will give me the validation I need to overcome my inadequacies from wanting high value Black mates who didn’t want me in the past.”
I’m sure not everybody in an IR relationship is like this but a lotta people seem to have these hang ups.And whites profit from all races vying for them while they get the pick of the litter.

Or just ignore all of this and watch our race to the bottom continue as we get more Eve’s willing to c00nsplain for racist MAGA white husbands and more Chelsea Handlers socially pegging 50 cents in the media as he can only fix his mouf to bully blacks.

 

[CEO of Morgan Industries]

Black women outnumber black men in college by a good amount yet black men marry IR twice as often. We know education isn’t the answer

it’s not about growing up in the burbs either since our men and women are in the same neighborhoods.

If you're talking about the gender gap, I agree. It's definitely not the only answer. I think it's part of the answer, though.

The other part of the answer is social/cultural: Black men have more access outside of the race because of sexual stereotypes that are seen as positive, and black women don't have the same access because they lack those stereotypes.

That's why there's always been a gap. However, the original post/title of the thread asked about the increase in rate, not the gap between black men and women, though, so that's what I was remarking on.

 

[AStrangeName]

I would like to point out that while our population numbers is still low in the U.S., but the numbers have been slowly going up as shown in this site.
Black Population in US | BlackDemographics.com

IIRC everyone, but white people has seen an increase in population in the U.S., however, when it came to us there wasn't a big increase in numbers. It was almost like they didn't want the general public to know we have been sitting on 14% for quite some time as other races numbers were displayed and shown continuous increase with each year, while our numbers "apparently" was still 13%.

Edit: Forgot to mention that we're closing in on reaching 15% as well, so possibly by the end of the decade, we might see ourselves reaching 16% or possibly 17%. They cannot continue to withhold this information forever, because sooner or later, people are going to start questioning.

 

[Houston911]

If you're talking about the gender gap, I agree. It's definitely not the only answer. I think it's part of the answer, though.

The other part of the answer is social/cultural: Black men have more access outside of the race because of sexual stereotypes that are seen as positive, and black women don't have the same access because they lack those stereotypes.

That's why there's always been a gap. However, the original post/title of the thread asked about the increase in rate, not the gap between black men and women, though, so that's what I was remarking on.

If education (on its own) was a factor like that then there shouldn’t be a gap between women and men though. Well there should be a gap, but it would be women marrying out more than men.

I think the social/cultural piece that you mentioned is prolly more accurate

 

[Hoodoo Child]

It's a funny situation; the people who inspired you to hate yourselves are the one we look to for adoration and solving our own issues.

Yikes

 

[Will Ross]

Black women outnumber black men in college by a good amount yet black men marry IR twice as often. We know education isn’t the answer

it’s not about growing up in the burbs either since our men and women are in the same neighborhoods.

That is because women don't ask men out and if you put a black woman on a mixed or white campus.
she going to have to compete with women of other races. Now black women that have no issue asking men out date out at a higher rate than anyone

 

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If you're talking about the gender gap, I agree. It's definitely not the only answer. I think it's part of the answer, though.

The other part of the answer is social/cultural: Black men have more access outside of the race because of sexual stereotypes that are seen as positive, and black women don't have the same access because they lack those stereotypes.

That's why there's always been a gap. However, the original post/title of the thread asked about the increase in rate, not the gap between black men and women, though, so that's what I was remarking on.

Yes. Also, it’s pretty common for men of all races to date out more than women do because they tend to put in more work naturally as pursuers and gatekeepers of marriage. (Although I’ve seen white chicks date like whole ass men.) So with all these reasons I expect the gender discrepancy between the races. Except for Asian chicks. There is a different dynamic there.

White men going to Asian women looking for submissive chicks

Black men going to white women looking for submissive chicks or easy, naive, p*ssy

Hispanic men and Native men just wilding out

Asian men just chasing money because filial piety and stereotypes said fukk women, you better not bring anybody but Mulan in this house.

White women fukkin anything that walks but will only marry white or rich

Hispanic women do the same but reserve loyalty points for Hispanic dudes.

Asian chicks only fukk green dikks with loyalty to no one.

Black chicks fukkin themselves, degrees, and fantasies of the fine nikkas dikking them down one day becomin loving husbands and father figures. And when that doesn’t work out (see Asian chicks mentality).
If u mad I’m talkin bout you.

 

[5thbornpowerseed]

Access

 

[BlackStarLine]

Black chicks fukkin themselves, degrees, and fantasies of the fine nikkas dikking them down one day becomin loving husbands and father figures. And when that doesn’t work out (see Asian chicks mentality).
If u mad I’m talkin bout you.

Yup, so many of my girlfriends are like this..smh. I want to call them out but I'm afraid of the vicious clap back

 

[The M.I.C.]

Haven’t read through the thread yet. Has anybody blamed Black women yet?

But seriously, this isn’t new.
Reasons vary but all of it is social conditioning. Hip hop culture drove a lot of this for young black males viewing white women and exoticals and spicy Latinas defining them as what’s “poppin”. There’s is going to be a shift in black female thot rap that follows this trend soon. Mark my words. Slow ass black female rappers gon soon be talking about only wanting redbone men with straight hair they can run they fingers through. Coming to a ep mixtape near you.

Add positive stereotyping of non-black women as being “submissive or feminine”, colorism, and Black women image being associated with poverty and the ghetto and you get the handful of black men who are marriage-minded thinking that whiteness or anything but blackness is the answer. In spite of many anger-filled bitter scorned hoe tears from countless posters on this site towards me, I’ve been saying this shyt for years.

(Cue “FAT FEMINIST bytch! YOU FUKKIN AN ASIAN! YOU HATE BLACK MEN! DYCK WATCHING!”
Sorry. I can’t resist because these lames be mad as hell wit it too.)

Meanwhile, a lot of black women generation Z chicks are stupidly following the exact playbook they ironically mad at black dudes for following. But just like a lot of these black dudes have problems in these IR relationships, a lotta black women will get their wake up calls too. Because in spite of the issues we have in our community, foreign communities have JUST as much fukkery, if not more. Then you adding the possibility of racism, cultural differences and language barriers on top of that...AND these chicks being food for any man they meet regardless of race because they got bottom of the barrel self-esteem. AND the increased risk for women due to their vulnerability when it comes to dating men regardless. There’s a reason why a lot of women ain’t YOLO on foreigner dikk like that in most races in comparison to their men (Asians got some crazy shyt going on because them chicks chase a bag over anything.)

But oh well. You can try to tell people that the stove is hot, or you can watch em ignore you and catch them 8th degrees burns.


Solutions: Teach black love. Not just in relationships. But black self love. Little black girls and little black boys should look at this

And this

as the prototype. Sure others in other races can be attractive. But not more attractive than what we see when we look in the mirror if you got two black parents.

Fix black image, fix black self-esteem and you fix black love.

The rest is white noise and excuses. All that “they accepted me more” shyt or “I ain’t have nobody black on my level...” it’s excuses.

Because saying the truth for a lotta people is too hard apparently and gets people hurt.
Saying “Im a mentally broken buffoon who has internalized every single negative stereotype about the opposite sex in my own race and the top attractive people in my race don’t want me, so I’m going to switch it up completely for a non-black mate, date a non-black 5 and treat em like a dyme, take all kinds of racist, insulting shyt from them that I wouldn’t tolerate from somebody in my own race because their social value will give me the validation I need to overcome my inadequacies from wanting high value Black mates who didn’t want me in the past.”
I’m sure not everybody in an IR relationship is like this but a lotta people seem to have these hang ups.And whites profit from all races vying for them while they get the pick of the litter.

Or just ignore all of this and watch our race to the bottom continue as we get more Eve’s willing to c00nsplain for racist MAGA white husbands and more Chelsea Handlers socially pegging 50 cents in the media as he can only fix his mouf to bully blacks.

Very well stated.

 

[Marti]

Part of the reason why is because black men are disenfranchised. Women are less likely to listen to you whent they think less of you. Peep how black women rarely divorce their white and Asian husbands. Black women are 44% less likely to divorce their white husbands. How interesting . Black women let non black men get away with more

Or maybe these black women are just happy in their marriage ??

why are black men twice as likely to marry out and divorce their white female partners 100% of the time is the real question

 

[The M.I.C.]

Or maybe these black women are just happy in their marriage ??

why are black men twice as likely to marry out and divorce their white female partners is the real question

Very interesting question.

 

[Marti]

Or is it because non-black men provide financial comforts that black men always can't? It's easier to divorce someone when they are more financially dependent on you than vice versa.

Hence why white women file for divorce from their black male partners most of the time

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Yup, so many of my girlfriends are like this..smh. I want to call them out but I'm afraid of the vicious clap back

Do it and report back!