ill_will82
What you see, is what you get
I barely come in The Salon section (It ain't really for men) but good thread. My take on it, men & women don't take time to learn each other.
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Why Don't Women Take Time to Actually Learn Men?
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What if you get your heart broke multiple times?
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nikkas fall through the cracks every day
m0rninggl0ry
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Great message! Hindsight is 20/20 And I can admit my wrongdoings in my past relationships. I want to add 5.
5) Never settle! If a guy tells you hes not into marriage and you want marriage, leave. You can’t change his mind at all.
m0rninggl0ry
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And that’s the key! Learn him, get to know him. That’s takes awhile. I’m in my late 20s and I am figuring this out now.
I actually don't agree with this one. Playas leave the game everyday. The right woman will change a lot of men's minds. But if the dude is saying it to a woman it probably means he just is not interested in marrying her. If her end goal is marriage then yeah he ain't the one.
Women are easy as fukk. Especially after 25. It's up to you if you want to deal with the consequences. For me, I wanted more. I think the biggest issue is, knowing men is hard af just like knowing women. It takes years to master and you need experience to a degree. The big advantage about your former profession is 70% of it is getting to know your customer and his patterns and ideals. After awhile, you start to pick shyt up and people will say, damn, you got game.
Game is nothing about understanding the opposite sex or same and learning how to get what you want while getting a good ROI. Anyone who can't get a good ROI. Doesn't have game, they have a mouthpiece. Game is always getting better. Learning the ends and outs. Game never ends. A mouthpiece can dry up. A woman loves the idea of Joe
But a woman loves the idea of a loving husband who is willing to ride the journey and make her world better each and every day.
As a woman, you gotta find what you have. Is it game, is it a mouthpiece, is it a wet piece of ass, what is your catch? That's your homework as a woman to do.
None of ya'll never really see the light. The smart ones just adjust, understand their strengths and weaknesses. If they have great qualities and the looks are solid, they play the right position to get a permanent spot. After talking to 100s of women, friends, etc. I came to the realization, ya'll don't figure out shyt. Ya'll just happen to look what the qualities you want and if God says the same, you find that guy. That guy finds you. He LOVES you deeply. You are at the age and stage to receive it and appreciate it. You are happily off the market although you swear your ass can go back on the market knowing that's a fukking lie
Sit your ass down missy
Women have it hard in this. All of the advantages of the teenage years isn't a friend. Women aren't like men. The women with the best game are the ones in position to get choose and maintain it. Those are rare and are almost always permanently off the market by 21. Women with no game are the usual thots, dense women who got amazing skills in terms of taking and understanding the male mouthpiece but can't keep a relationship for more than a year that's not rockier than the Smokey's Mountain in Tennessee. Game is such a hard thing as it's nearly earned differently than it is for men. It's a lifetime choice for women. It's a learned choice for men and many will never have a shot at any game.
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LOL! This part is true. "bad bytch" better be all around. She trying to play in the NBA and all she is, is a chucker, she ain't making my roster and she clearly will never be my franchise player.
Women greatly overvalue their options. Very rarely do any of them have any options. fukk options don't count. nikkas who got value that's willing to wife you. Not ain't shyt broken ones either. Even ya'll those nikkas aren't a catch. Men, we know our options. Like when I had no options that was serious. I was like, I ain't got nothing. When I had a couple decent prospects. I put them in the minors. They didn't make it. I talked to 100's of women if not thousands. I can tell you how many were legit for me. Like maybe 3-4 at most. I know when, where and how. I knew even when one had the looks and intelligence but lacked a critical thing I couldn't look pass. I knew day 2 with my wife that she had the total package. I was officially off the market and there was NO way I was losing her. 0.0% chance. I would do whatever it took even if she didn't things that would get 99.99% of others cut off, I figured how to work with it and make our situation better. It wasn't perfect and it never is. Relationship are hard af. I always try to give women these gems because women are like men. They want something different. Sometimes you got to remind them what they got at home is their BEST situation and a blessed one. Women like men will try men they like. As a man or woman, it's your job the cut the bullshyt short and respect your relationship for what it is. A blessing. That's for those who got their one. But if you do not, you have to understand, your hubby is a catch.
All women are the same. But if you are a smart woman, you will realize all men are the same. We all got fragile egos. We all want to please whom we love. We all want to provide what we can to see you smile and be happy. That look you have with you child, is that look we have with you when we see you smile just cause it Sunday morning.
Good thread. Women are taught to be people pleasers early and to stroke male ego. Which is fine if deserved and disastrous when undeserved.
I love observing men and people in general and reading through their BS.
Be careful with men who like to give women advice about men especially if they aren’t family members because often it is self serving and not completely honest.
I love observing men and people in general and reading through their BS.
Be careful with men who like to give women advice about men especially if they aren’t family members because often it is self serving and not completely honest.
Sounds exactly like my brother. Only guy I know who has women paying his bills and walking in 15° snowstorms just to be in the same room as him
.Same could be said about men in relation to women.
And you hit it all on the nail Sis. Damn. Especially the obsession part. If I love you, you could be my world and if you hurt me, I’ll hate you. Men fall harder and faster then women do. HOH is a veneer to protect one’s self from pain
And you hit it all on the nail Sis. Damn. Especially the obsession part. If I love you, you could be my world and if you hurt me, I’ll hate you. Men fall harder and faster then women do. HOH is a veneer to protect one’s self from pain
Everything from men sounds condescending and sexist to women
And everything from women sounds belittling or naggy to men
Good thread, Sis. You’re making me realize we ain’t that different haha
David_TheMan
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For the most part generalized advice is garbage.
Men aren't _________ and women aren't ________
If you still are looking for a mate, and you think its a sex/gender thing, and not an individual thing you are lost and are just playing a game of chance.
You want to know a person watch how they act, honestly self evaluate determine what you want in life what are your objectives and work with that.
Simple as that, but its hard for most people to honestly self evaluate.
Men aren't _________ and women aren't ________
If you still are looking for a mate, and you think its a sex/gender thing, and not an individual thing you are lost and are just playing a game of chance.
You want to know a person watch how they act, honestly self evaluate determine what you want in life what are your objectives and work with that.
Simple as that, but its hard for most people to honestly self evaluate.
smh.... There is no game when you have those things...