Why Don't Women Take Time to Actually Learn Men?

[Cynic]

"It's not obsession, it's love"

Quoted under

"There are some women that will obsess over a man after the relationship but it doesn't usually lead to stalking, death threats and killing their former partner."

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[EARFQUAKE]

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Whats the diference between a mothers love and obsession ?

A mother obsessed with her children has a complex that needs to be addressed. Obsession is toxic and unhealthy.

Because it’s the closet thing women will ever feel to the love men for them. You telling me women don’t abuse or kill their children ?

That’s something they actually created.

Right so, again, any parent that does this doesn't truly love their child. It's delusional to think they do.

men are dumb AF.

Oh ok, gotcha.

delusional

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

[QUOTE="BlackPearl The Empress, post: 30113769, member: 13961]
But they want to own their woman's sexuality. A woman can get away with murder except cheating. A man will lose his marbles over a woman cheating.

You was pitching a Perfect Game until you got here.

It's not necessarily that a man "wants to own their woman's sexuality",
A man wants his woman to keep her sexuality - but he wants to be the one she wants to give it to.

That sounds like it's the same, but it's quite different.

It's like that no matter what kind of relationship they might have.

The difference is - depending on what type of relationship they have, a man may have bought her sexuality
and therefore does "own" it in a way. In that sense, he values that investment and doesn't want anybody else to take it.[/QUOTE]

It's the same thing breh. You're just trying to dress it up to sound noble.

 

[Taadow]

It's the same thing breh. You're just trying to dress it up to sound noble.

It's a little different, because "ownership" of something has everything to do with if you possess it or not.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It's a little different, because "ownership" of something has everything to do with if you possess it or not.

Uh huh...and men want to have sole possession of a woman's sexuality.

 

[Taadow]

Uh huh...and men want to have sole possession of a woman's sexuality.

This is impossible because a woman's sexuality is hers.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This is impossible because a woman's sexuality is hers.

Well duh but men believe what they want to believe. Men's view on a woman's sexuality aren't always based in reality

 

[LauderdaleBoss]

Great thread and lot of real shyt was posted by the OP.

Only thing I'd add is for women to get hobbies or something that you can do outside of work that you can focus on and get better at for yourself. This is more like an add on to help with number 3.
Potential dudes will think you have no life or nothing else going on when you going super hard with the texting and calling and shyt. If that nikka truly feel you, he'll make sure he gets to converse with you no matter how busy the both of you are. Keep yourself occupied and be living life until that happens.

other than that. shyt was on point.

 

[kuts]

I'm no expert but I at least understand the fundamentals. It just frustrates me seeing women chase after men when I know they have no shot in hell at getting these dudes for one reason or another. Women today have zero fukking game.

1. If a dude's heart is somewhere else that other women will always trump you in his mind. It doesn't matter how attractive, educated, nice, domestic or good for him you are. Men love HARD. A man's love is borderline obsession. Women are different. If we find a dude just as good or better than the last we're straight. But once a man's is set on a woman it's a done deal and it is extremely difficult for him to let it go. It will take him YEARS to get over it. Now he can/will entertain and have sex with you no problem. So if you are gonna mess with a man who loves someone else play your position and stop getting in your feelings. And I don't just mean men in relationships. There are plenty single men out here in love with chicks and they usually make that obvious in one way or another.

2. If you get a man in a trifling way he will never respect you. If you have a man and you just have to have sex with the new dude he will again entertain you but never respect you nor make you his girl b/c in the back of him mind he knows that you aren't loyal. As soon as something "better" comes along you're gone. And even if he does make you his girl he will never ever trust you. So save yourself the time, if you are going to thot make it about fun. Don't fall for this dude.

3. A man who wants you will let it be known. Please don't chase men. Stop blowing up his phone. People make time for the things they want to make time for. It he doesn't make time for then he doesn't want you.

Funny how this actually applies to men more than women IMO, just exchange every instance of Man with Woman and vice versa.

Might even need to move this to TLR proper.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Because they do not have to. Even if they wanted to they wouldn’t take the opportunity to do it.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Great thread and lot of real shyt was posted by the OP.

Only thing I'd add is for women to get hobbies or something that you can do outside of work that you can focus on and get better at for yourself. This is more like an add on to help with number 3.
Potential dudes will think you have no life or nothing else going on when you going super hard with the texting and calling and shyt. If that nikka truly feel you, he'll make sure he gets to converse with you no matter how busy the both of you are. Keep yourself occupied and be living life until that happens.

other than that. shyt was on point.

this. When you talk to women and ask them what do they do other than work, taking IG pics and scamming men, they tell you they don’t have any hobbies.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

So much effort but your wrong we are simple creatures

THIS. We tell women one thing they put it another way. fukking retards. Anyway, this is just women chasing after the pump and dump guy. If women wanted a man they would go after the guy that is always trying to get to know them. But nah he is too “predictable and boring””doesn’t get their panties wet” so they need a guy to entertain them like a monkey.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Imma sound like a simp, but the one thing I learned in life is that women always got options. Even ugly women got options. and most of those options (inb4 some coli fella quotes me and tell me how he wouldnt) will listen to those women speak without expecting reciprocation.

so while this sounds like a shytty game, keep in mind that means if a woman DOES come to you and wants to learn you, she is VERY interested in you. you just gotta wait for the right one breh

You right.. after they have been ran through by the guy that they wanted but he didn’t want her so now they want to get to know you to see if you will be clean up man.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I have been studying.

A friend of mines plays women like it's nothing. Women love him. I never seen anything like it. His favorite saying is "bytches ain't shyt". I can't even argue with him because time and time again women are doing some trifling shyt to get at him. They aren't ugly, fat or broke either. shyt is baffling but after witnessing it and thinking on it I realized that he just plays to their egos and makes them think they are the best thing walking. On top of that he has money and he's attractive. He's been doing it so long it's just a game at this point. He doesn't even pursue it unless they are extremely attractive or they have something he can get outta them. Breh gets money, airline passes, free trips etc. He usually hypes them up, tells them all the nasty things he'll do to them and then fakes them out. He told me he learned a whole ago not to have sex with them because then they go crazy. I don't even think he has sex that often but I am sure he gets a ton of blow jobs.

Anyway, he'd never be able to do any of that if at any point the women thought:

"Hey why is this random man who never met me and knows nothing about me hyping me up?"

"If I am so irresistible why isn't he returning my calls after I gave him that yearly fly free pass?"

"If I am so sexy why haven't he had sex with me?"

It NEVER happens. Never does the thought that they may not be as great as they think they are ever occur to these women. Some of them have been strung along for years.

After I realized the thoughts never occurred to them I realized that the majority of women are self center ego maniacs who are easily manipulated if the right package play up their egos.

Honestly it's how we are raised. I battle with it myself. But I have seen the light. lol

GOOD. This is what women do to men every day. TGEy deserve it.

 

[Rigby.]

You right.. after they have been ran through by the guy that they wanted but he didn’t want her so now they want to get to know you to see if you will be clean up man.

There are tons of women like this that’s no doubt. Some nikkas get jaded and think it’s all women. It isn’t. nikkas (just like women) gotta stop getting they hearts broke once and think that’s the end of the road for finding someone you really vibe with.