Why Don't Women Take Time to Actually Learn Men?
- Thread starter ™BlackPearl The Empress™
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Well if those women have decided to stop fronting then I guess they've weeded themselves out of the marriage pool. If loyalty, emotional support, fairly consistent sex among the other things come with terms and conditions or levels like a video game then
Something like cooking/cleaning has become de facto negotiable because women today have become so defiant towards domestic duties that brehs just do it themselves or share. But if a woman has to fake those other things, the commitment and security isn't coming.
But this is Average Joe talk...the men you want and all women are wired to pursue may need video game levels where natural components of a relationship are withheld.
Whats the diference between a mothers love and obsession ?
Why are you answering a question with a question? Are you not interesting in expounding your point?
What men want is largely irrelevant. Society and women see men as disposable utilities hence the need for female approval.
It’s about HER... making HER feel good, listening to HER...cowtowing to HER...doing it HER way...passing HER sh!t tests...giving HER attention...
Men are dumb AF.
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im not sure why you are comparing the love between a man and a women to the love between a women and her children . As far as i know men dont help to create their wives unlike when a woman plays a critical role in child birth. The type of obsession that im talking about leads to men attacking their former partners when they try to leave relationships which doesn't really happen between a woman and her child...so im kinda lost.
I was actually interested in a dialogue. If you're gonna be a jerk about it I'll let you live.
Because it’s the closet thing women will ever feel to the love men for them. You telling me women don’t abuse or kill their children ?
That’s something they actually created.
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[QUOTE="BlackPearl The Empress, post: 30113769, member: 13961]
But they want to own their woman's sexuality. A woman can get away with murder except cheating. A man will lose his marbles over a woman cheating.[/QUOTE]
You was pitching a Perfect Game until you got here.
It's not necessarily that a man "wants to own their woman's sexuality",
A man wants his woman to keep her sexuality - but he wants to be the one she wants to give it to.
That sounds like it's the same, but it's quite different.
It's like that no matter what kind of relationship they might have.
The difference is - depending on what type of relationship they have, a man may have bought her sexuality
and therefore does "own" it in a way. In that sense, he values that investment and doesn't want anybody else to take it.
But they want to own their woman's sexuality. A woman can get away with murder except cheating. A man will lose his marbles over a woman cheating.[/QUOTE]
You was pitching a Perfect Game until you got here.
It's not necessarily that a man "wants to own their woman's sexuality",
A man wants his woman to keep her sexuality - but he wants to be the one she wants to give it to.
That sounds like it's the same, but it's quite different.
It's like that no matter what kind of relationship they might have.
The difference is - depending on what type of relationship they have, a man may have bought her sexuality
and therefore does "own" it in a way. In that sense, he values that investment and doesn't want anybody else to take it.
A man killing his spouse because she wants to leave him but he can't stand to see her go isn't love, it's obsession catered with mental illness and anyone who thinks it's love is delusional whether it be between man and woman or parent and child.
I won’t assume or give credence to what the motives of a homicide might be in that hypothetical case that you just conjured up.
So then what was the point of objecting the motive of obsession in the post you quoted that had the example of people killing their s/o?
Drawing parallels in response to another post ? You can scroll up and read them
"It's not obsession, it's love"
Quoted under
"There are some women that will obsess over a man after the relationship but it doesn't usually lead to stalking, death threats and killing their former partner."
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