Mannnnn please...
nikkas get old and forget they bumped all types of superhero rap in their day. If it wasn't songs about who had the most money, it was about havin' the best girls, or bein the hardest nikka alive, or bein the illest MC, or being the most of whatever the topic was. That's what rap at its core has always been... 'I'm the shyt'. Rap at its core has never been 'eh, I'm OK'
This thread is wrong from the first post, because a song like 'I Wish' was an oddity in its time anyway. It's not like every rapper was out makin songs about girls they couldn't get, or stuff they didn't have. Matter fact, most of the top rappers around that time were about either gettin' theirs or havin' theirs already- not just wishing on what they wanted. So it's kinda a weird example to use.
And also, hip-hop would be boring as fukk if it was just rappers making songs the so-called "average guy" can relate to- I can't speak for everyone but most rappers have some sense of ego, confidence and sensationalism in their music. A lotta rappers just ain't cool with bein' "average", and neither are their listeners. It's like goin' to the movies and watching a movie about a muhfukka going to movies... you don't wanna see that shyt. You wanna laugh, be entertained, see something interesting. Maybe some shyt you can understand, but nothing just middle-of-the-road and mediocre. That ain't where (the majority of) rap is, nor has ever been.
Even an example like 'The Message' is kinda a bad example, because while it did represent a new corner in rap to where people could cover those types of subjects, it's not like that's what every rapper was doing. There was just as many (and many more) songs about being the best, having money, and gettin' girls. I don't know why people think these things shouldn't exist or should be minimized in hip-hop, when they're not even minimized topics in everyday conversation.