Taken from this thread, this brehette gives some common sense advice. Seems like the most logical advice for any brehette above 25 seeking marriage.
It comes across when a woman is involved with another dude, whether casual or not.
There was something important in what i wrote that i needed u to catch...
If u know a 30+yr old woman, no kids, successful or whatever, like the 1s ur talking about in the bolded lines... ask her honestly if she is fukking...
Now, I dnt know where the "hoe" thing came from. I didnt call anybdy that.
But just start with that 1st part... "are u fukking?"...
Thats very important
Even if she isnt fukkin, shes an outlier... and we are not gonna discuss ppl who dont make up the majority of what ull see in the dating world
I get what you're saying and I got what he saying.
Basically, if you have marriage in mind the BEST thing for ANY single women to do is to stop fukking.
When you stop fukking you have a clear head. You aren't loyal to "dikk". Because believe or not when a woman is fukkin and tryna date especially when it's good, you're gonna turn down men who are open to date you bc your interest lies somewhere else.
Being celibate is a great way to refocus and recharge. Clears your mind. You get to really get yourself together, emotionally, physically, and mentally. And you aren't loyal to dikk.
So you are now open to vet properly. (Hopefully) Actually put your interest into the line of vision of another man who IS actually interested in you.
It comes across when a woman is involved with another dude, whether casual or not.