Born2BKing
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It's 2 separate questions that need to be addressed. nikkas tryna avoid the men being dead beats to shyt on the women. I myself wonder how some nikkas just be like
when they have kids and don't care for them.
Why do so many men not take care of their kids?
when they have kids and don't care for them.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
Thats a part of the topic.
The bum ass men and the women who give them opportunity is the whole issue.
No one is making excuses for those bum ass men.
Desirous
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She didn't ask anyone in particular...and some Coli men might be dead beats, so let them answer then lol
To answer the question, I think that if you come from a broken home and have daddy issues, you're most likely to be a deadbeat. I've seen it with past dudes I have dated...not that they're bad guys, but they don't have that mentality of "I can no longer put myself first and my child has to always come first" because they saw that their daddy did his own thing and even though they may resent him for it, it becomes a cycle.
Ladies: don't have kids out of wedlock with guys who grew up with single moms...they have commitment problems.
i agree, single black mothers help create future dead beats. most dudes coming from a solid two parent home wouldn't have it in him to be a deadbeat. glad we're on the same page here.
Desirous
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i agree, single black mothers help create future dead beats. most dudes coming from a solid two parent home wouldn't have it in him to be a deadbeat. glad we're on the same page here.
No. The dead beat fathers who can't be bothered help create future dead beats.
Born2BKing
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i agree, single black mothers help create future dead beats. most dudes coming from a solid two parent home wouldn't have it in him to be a deadbeat. glad we're on the same page here.
@ this dumb ass shyt. Haha, expect women to lead men, brehs.
onelastdeath
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Both parents are responsible. Women have ways of getting out of taking care of a child they don't want to though. If a woman decides that she doesn't want a child, she can get an abortion, she can surrender her rights, she can send the baby to be adopted all that. Men are 100% held accountable, even if they got tricked into having a baby by a woman they hate. There is no way out for the man, like there is for women.
Take care of your kids though brehs, it ain't the kids fault.
Take care of your kids though brehs, it ain't the kids fault.
woman make the final decision on sex
No. The dead beat fathers who can't be bothered help create future dead beats.
who has more power to warp a childs mind. the parent who was always there, 24/7, or the absent parent who was never there?
No. The dead beat fathers who can't be bothered help create future dead beats.
yeah, because it works. it definitely beats birthing and raising the exact type of men you claim to hate the most.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
Desirous
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The absent parent.who has more power to warp a childs mind. the parent who was always there, 24/7, or the absent parent who was never there?
Desirous
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Once you bring a child into the world, there's only one decision: to take care of the child or not. Men have the power to decide (unless the woman takes him to court and legally doesn't allow him to be a part of the child's life...but that's not a dead beat father...and we're only addressing dead beats in this thread).