You say that yet many women who stress physical needs like wanting a man who has a big d or has height proves you wrong.
Some women say a lot of foul and vulgar things, it doesn't mean that most women feel that way or that women are wired to be that way.
Some women are capable of behaving "just like the boys" but that doesn't mean most women are that way. Personally, I am more aroused by watching a Malcolm X speech than I am at looking at some meme of a dude with his sausage poking out of his sweatpants. That does nothing for me, sorry.
What does height have to do with not finding pictures of phalluses attractive? I didn't say women don't consider attraction, I said that women in general don't view naked men the same way that men view naked women. Exceptions are not the standard.