Why are some women happy with not having a title?

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I know it sounds childish but I dont care for a situationship or having a "special bond" with someone

Its either we're in a relationship or Im single.

Most of my friends are either married, engaged or in a ltr.

So I cant really ask them this question because they wouldnt know the meaning :pachaha:

Can a female tell me what exactly does she get out of being committed to a man that won't even call her his girlfriend/woman/wifey ? :patrice:
 

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Because she is desperate and/or thinks she can spin it into a relationship.

They think it's normal/ or that's all they can get/deserve.

They tell themselves it's what they want to.

Some that's all they want really :ehh: it's a rare some tho.
 

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Maybe they don't care about titles, maybe they're desperate. Couldn't be me though. :heh: I don't know any man on earth that wouldn't want to claim a woman he really likes.
Personally at this point in my life, I can like, shyt, love someone and it doesn't mean I want to make them my personal sex slave (for lack of a better comparison)... I don't need to be seeing anyone else either, but the entire title thing can come with a lot of mental boundaries. Let's just let live and see where things go, people change everyday, people may grow apart. As long as honesty & communication are there, who needs a title? It's not tangible.

I like my freedom, and no, that term shouldn't mean I wish to sleep around. It just means I may wake up tomorrow and want to move to the other side of the world to pursue personal goals that may not coincide with their own.
 

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Personally at this point in my life, I can like, shyt, love someone and it doesn't mean I want to make them my personal sex slave (for lack of a better comparison)... I don't need to be seeing anyone else either, but the entire title thing can come with a lot of mental boundaries. Let's just let live and see where things go, people change everyday, people may grow apart. As long as honesty & communication are there, who needs a title? It's not tangible.

I like my freedom, and no, that term shouldn't mean I wish to sleep around. It just means I may wake up tomorrow and want to move to the other side of the world to pursue personal goals that may not coincide with their own.
I feel so sorry for the poor babies who fall for this BS.
 

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I feel so sorry for the poor babies who fall for this BS.
You assume I'm lying? Why? I don't attempt to mingle with any of the women on this site so what would be my purpose/agenda here?

You're holding on to something, it's okay, let it go. You can only live your life and tune your own emotions. You have no control over another.
 
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