Why are Black People Upset when Corny, Swagless, non-Edgy, Too Nice Black Men leave our Community?

[Stuntone]

These types make up a lot of Interracial daters and Passport Bros. They don't get no love or respect in our community. I don't blame them for leaving.



I don't understand why people are shaming them for leaving. What would you have them do? Stay here and be miserable?

 

[Matt504]

Go where you're appreciated not tolerated.

 

[Bondye Vodou]

Women only care when these nikkas have . Men only care to appease the angry women.

 

[85 East]

Man we aren't monolithic. We should celebrate the fact we can be more then just thugs and  niggers. That type of thinking puts a cap on our greatness and expectations. Let these youngins be themselves, and not cartoon versions of who they think they have to be.

 

[RichYung]

Because they lose out on the men they planned to settle with after getting passed around. Their security blanket goes to where they’re wanted.

 

[Stuntone]

Being Corny in the Black Community is almost a Death Sentence.

 

[JamesJabdi]

We need to drop the narrative that these brehs are leaving the community.....its like when them divestors with natural afro hair date a white man and say "We go where are appreciated"......if you can't get love in your own community why do you think that other communities gonna love you?

 

[Umoja]

They're looked at as retirement plans

 

[Jaguar93]

This conversation is getting old. Let those women have their preferences. You can always find your equal. There’s lame, corny, and squared black women. Out there op

 

[ChatGPT-5]

you can leave a community? so a mexican that dates /marries a polish woman is no longer mexican? when he makes salsa is it called something else?

 

[Luke Cage]

if i know yall coli brehs as well as i think, you likely not getting any attention from women outside the black community either.
corny or not you still creepy af in your approach to women.

 

[TDA92]

So leave the community and let those who are miserable, be miserable.

This isn't an airport, no need to announce your departure.

 

[Seoul Gleou]

black people, IN REAL LIFE, DO NOT FUKKING CARE

the ONLY place this corny stuff is an issue is online

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I don't really see this with hood chicks

I see this with more boule suburban black chicks

They the ones who complain about passport bro or critical of "lames" the most


Most hood chicks aren't on social media like that and if they are they not getting into these type of discussions.

Also plenty of dudes with swag or hood dudes are simps

So a square black dude not needed to be a simp most times

Most of the swirlers aren't nerdy black dudes btw

Many swirlers are desired by black women

But no one wants to talk about that

 

[Kooley_High]

Honestly if another group of women is checkin them theres nothing to be mad at. Like OP said, why should you be lonely for being yourself.