Does it come from a place of placing higher standards on black people because you expect the best from them or does it come from a place of self hate or insecurity?
Where does this come from?
Self-hate is a factor but the highlighted is a reason also but in a different way.
Not all criticisms are negative and stem from a place of hatred.
Personally, I've come to the realization that too many of us are walking zombies and any type of "criticisms" aka things that blacks could do better in order to improve our collective situation, is frowned upon and seen as hating.
Basically anybody who even attempts to shed light and point out destructive, backwards behavior is seen as being "hypercritical" or a "c00n" by the people who are sleep.