Why are black men the only minorities who get berated for not voting democrat

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No it’s not saying that at all. The point still stands that many if not most (not all) BW are more likely to prioritize a man’s height and swag over his character and integrity when choosing who to procreate with, especially when they're under 35. Yes women care about physical attraction but non-BW and BW in stable relationships are more likely to prioritize character traits. Even other BW on here have said this.




Do you expect a woman to sleep with a man she’s not attracted to for the rest of her life? Do you think most attractive black men prioritize a woman’s personality, and qualities, and marry women who they aren’t attracted to? People date on their level. There aren’t enough men on attractive women’s level, and that’s across all races. And you can find plenty of white women on social media complaining about men, and how unhappy they are in their marriages. They don’t say white men, but you know who they are talking about.

No marriage is lasting without a healthy sex life. A woman does not get pleasure every single time she has sex. Relationships have ups and downs. Each person is going to annoy the other person. And if that physical attraction isn’t there, it’s not going to work.

Do you think every woman should give every man who approaches her in a gentleman like manner a chance, regardless of his appearance?
 

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Do you expect a woman to sleep with a man she’s not attracted to for the rest of her life? Do you think most attractive black men prioritize a woman’s personality, and qualities, and marry women who they aren’t attracted to? People date on their level. There aren’t enough men on attractive women’s level, and that’s across all races. And you can find plenty of white women on social media complaining about men, and how unhappy they are in their marriages. They don’t say white men, but you know who they are talking about.

No marriage is lasting without a healthy sex life. A woman does not get pleasure every single time she has sex. Relationships have ups and downs. Each person is going to annoy the other person. And if that physical attraction isn’t there, it’s not going to work.

Do you think every woman should give every man who approaches her in a gentleman like manner a chance, regardless of his appearance?

No I’m not saying that women should get with men they aren’t attracted to at all. However, many people in successful relationships both men and women aren’t with the most attractive person they’ve been with. People in stable relationships prioritize character and integrity over looks. That doesn’t mean the person that they’re with is unattractive.

How is this even a debate when the women in the most stable relationships prioritize character over looks?
 
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No I’m not saying that women should get with men they aren’t attracted to at all. However, many people in successful relationships both men and women aren’t with the most attractive person they’ve been with. People in stable relationships prioritize character and integrity over looks. That doesn’t mean the person that they’re with is unattractive.

How is this even a debate when the women in the most stable relationships prioritize character over looks?

Because there is a narrative that attractive people can’t be of good character, intelligent, kind, loyal, funny, etc, and people are single because they aren’t giving the uglies a chance. If you have to force yourself to be with someone, it’s not going to work. Society puts less attractive people on a pedestal, as if they can’t lie, cheat, or mistreat you.

From what I’ve seen, the less attractive man will try his best to humble an attractive woman, and break her confidence out of his own insecurity.

Google: No physical attraction, and it’s full of people, mostly women saying the man is great, treats her well, but she hates touching him. Those women are suffering in silence because they don’t want to be alone. Do you want a woman who is with you because she doesn’t want to be alone? Would those men be with those women if they weren’t physically attracted to them? How often do you see fit, well dressed men with homely fat women? (Especially conventionally attractive black men with homely black women, we know some make an exception for other races) No man is looking at a woman across the room, and thinking “Wow, she looks like she’d be a good wife.” We want to smash, and HOPE she has a good personality. Looks get you into the door.
 

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Because there is a narrative that attractive people can’t be of good character, intelligent, kind, loyal, funny, etc, and people are single because they aren’t giving the uglies a chance. If you have to force yourself to be with someone, it’s not going to work. Society puts less attractive people on a pedestal, as if they can’t lie, cheat, or mistreat you.

From what I’ve seen, the less attractive man will try his best to humble an attractive woman, and break her confidence out of his own insecurity.

Google: No physical attraction, and it’s full of people, mostly women saying the man is great, treats her well, but she hates touching him. Those women are suffering in silence because they don’t want to be alone. Do you want a woman who is with you because she doesn’t want to be alone? Would those men be with those women if they weren’t physically attracted to them? How often do you see fit, well dressed men with homely fat women? (Especially conventionally attractive black men with homely black women, we know some make an exception for other races) No man is looking at a woman across the room, and thinking “Wow, she looks like she’d be a good wife.” We want to smash, and HOPE she has a good personality. Looks get you into the door.

I guess we’ve just been around different people. I see attractive men and women who are in stable marriages all the time with partners who they could probably do better than attractiveness wise. No, the partners aren’t ugly but the point is these people prioritized character and integrity over looks. Doesn’t mean they don’t value looks. Did you grow up around mostly married people as a child? That may be the disconnect.
 
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I guess we’ve just been around different people. I see attractive men and women who are in stable marriages all the time with partners who they could probably do better than attractiveness wise. No, the partners aren’t ugly but the point is these people prioritized character and integrity over looks. Doesn’t mean they don’t value looks. Did you grow up around mostly married people as a child? That may be the disconnect.
You just said it. The partners aren’t ugly. And you don’t know if they think those people are attractive, or what they looked like when they first got together. Some people let themselves go, but the partner still loves them, and is committed to the marriage, as they should be. The point is, you have to be attracted enough to be physically intimate for the rest of your life. And just because people are married, doesn’t mean they are happy. You have no idea what’s happening behind closed doors.
 

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You just said it. The partners aren’t ugly. And you don’t know if they think those people are attractive, or what they looked like when they first got together. Some people let themselves go, but the partner still loves them, and is committed to the marriage, as they should be. The point is, you have to be attracted enough to be physically intimate for the rest of your life. And just because people are married, doesn’t mean they are happy. You have no idea what’s happening behind closed doors.

I never said that women should be expected to marry ugly men. The point is a lot of attractive BW pass on men who are 6s or 7s in looks, have Grant Hill personalities and/or they’re under 6ft tall but have good character while trying to get with men who are tall with swag who aren’t marriage minded. Then when they hit 30 or 35 and lack marriage-minded options, they’re complaining about the lack of good men.
 

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Even asking this question will get you called an agent or c00n. We're told to vote because our lives will be worse if we don't. Instead of being told to vote because of how great our lives have been since we voted last time. It's a vicious and condescending cycle.


Nah, because the loud minority of black voters that are MAGA are, and perhaps fittingly, mocked and derided for voting Trump. It's not apathy, it's a lack of acquiescence to the status quo.
You're not Black or America, so please explain to those of us who are why you are even posting on this thread?:sas1:
 
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I never said that women should be expected to marry ugly men. The point is a lot of attractive BW pass on men who are 6s or 7s in looks, have Grant Hill personalities and/or they’re under 6ft tall but have good character while trying to get with men who are tall with swag who aren’t marriage minded. Then when they hit 30 or 35 and lack marriage-minded options, they’re complaining about the lack of good men.

So who are the 6 and 7 black men marrying? Are they marrying 6 and 7 black women? Are they interested in 6 and 7 black women? And 5’10 attractive black men still do well.
 

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Black American men are generally weak, have no comraderie & create no consequences for getting disrespected as a group.
This is why all the diaspora war bullshyt needs to stop. Like yesterday.

We are all we got and some of y'all are fighting like idiots amongst each other about fukking hairlines and dance moves.
 

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Petty Vandross.. fukk Yall
Asian and Latino men also marry the mothers of their children more often, even when conceived out of wedlock.

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Another self hating piece of shyt
I mean I always knew you were a bytch
But every thread like this you show naked ass
A lot of you muthafukkas are not black, playing in digital blackface or clearly just retarded sumbytches on the spectrum living life through an electronic device
A lot of you mouse for brain bytches place nonblack people on these pedestals
And have never been around them or dated them
The only thing you morons can base this shyt off of is podcasts, weird internet threads
Latin men be dipping off on they wives
Literally drop they ass off in America and get ghost and if they don’t do that
Them muthafukkas cheat and have all kinds of families or be molesting family members
Asian men are abusive to their children just like their mothers
Every fukking thing you see about their success is a fukking mirage
The women don’t leave because they are down right fearful of the consequences
Middle eastern women follow the same suit
You geek nikkas know nothing about the real world around you
Then get gassed up by other eunuch, mush for brains, bad hygiene and no hairline having fakkits of this dying forum
Again you nikkas ain’t problack
If you were
You wouldn’t be so quick to shyt on black people
You wouldn’t be on this forum all day
You would be out there making a difference
Being a real man to a woman and your family
Oh wait most of you nikkas ain’t fukking nobody and can’t hold a conversation with a woman irl
fukk you and the garbage mother that kept you
 
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Another self hating piece of shyt
I mean I always knew you were a bytch
But every thread like this you show naked ass
A lot of you muthafukkas are not black, playing in digital blackface or clearly just retarded sumbytches on the spectrum living life through an electronic device
A lot of you mouse for brain bytches place nonblack people on these pedestals
And have never been around them or dated them
The only thing you morons can base this shyt off of is podcasts, weird internet threads
Latin men be dipping off on they wives
Literally drop they ass off in America and get ghost and if they don’t do that
Them muthafukkas cheat and have all kinds of families or be molesting family members
Asian men are abusive to their children just like their mothers
Every fukking thing you see about their success is a fukking mirage
The women don’t leave because they are down right fearful of the consequences
Middle eastern women follow the same suit
You geek nikkas know nothing about the real world around you
Then get gassed up by other eunuch, mush for brains, bad hygiene and no hairline having fakkits of this dying forum
Again you nikkas ain’t problack
If you were
You wouldn’t be so quick to shyt on black people
You wouldn’t be on this forum all day
You would be out there making a difference
Being a real man to a woman and your family
Oh wait most of you nikkas ain’t fukking nobody and can’t hold a conversation with a woman irl
fukk you and the garbage mother that kept you

Am I lying? What are the marriage rates for us compared to everyone else?
 
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