White women cant find educated white men either

[Jimi Swagger]

the incentive for marriage is gone

they duped men over "love and commitment" for decades. now, men see marriage for the business contract that it is

It was always business contract hence the reason for arranged marriages and the fact people placed into slavery could not legally marry therefor could not obtain property or acquire wealth since "property cannot own property." Today's men are not responsible. Only difference in today's society is that they aren't forced to marry since they have access to higher salaries, ownership etc so they don't rely on marriage for economic stability. Thank the Victorian era for this crazy system. Also remember that most divorces are filed by women and that since 1990 the age 50-65 divorce rate has more than doubled, meaning older women are not sticking in for the long hall. I remember shooting one of my great aunt's 50th wedding anniversary and she having the poo poo face the entire time, especially when we had all the kids (including the outside child and her grand children) in the photo. She also told my baby cousin to enjoy her youth and just keep a dog as a pet if she is ever lonely.

 

[Biscayne]

White women have options can always date upper tier East European or non-White men they just don't want to settle or "slum" I have no sympathy. Those chicks at public PWIs know what time it is an swirl openly with black athletes and others.

Why do black women come up in every post? It's kinda disturbing.

Black women were mentioned because, the OP wanted to debunk the notion that White men are pro commitment and that White women have no problem finding men in their league, thus debunking the notion that "Sistas just need to find white men, and everything will be alright." Who's in your Avi por favor.

 

[Jimi Swagger]

Black women were mentioned because, the OP wanted to debunk the notion that White men are pro commitment and that White women have no problem finding men in their league, thus debunking the notion that "Sistas just need to find white men, and everything will be alright." Who's in your Avi por favor.

I don't agree with either. White women have options and are coveted if they step out of their comfort zone and so do American brehettes. I lived in Europe and travel to Arabic countries all the time and notice this (and personal experience). Also in Latin American countries.

Regarding the avi:

 

[Biscayne]

It was always business contract hence the reason for arranged marriages and the fact people placed into slavery could not legally marry therefor could not obtain property or acquire wealth since "property cannot own property." Today's men are not responsible. Only difference in today's society is that they aren't forced to marry since they have access to higher salaries, ownership etc so they don't rely on marriage for economic stability. Thank the Victorian era for this crazy system. Also remember that most divorces are filed by women and that since 1990 the age 50-65 divorce rate has more than doubled, meaning older women are not sticking in for the long hall. I remember shooting one of my great aunt's 50th wedding anniversary and she having the poo poo face the entire time, especially when we had all the kids (including the outside child and her grand children) in the photo. She also told my baby cousin to enjoy her youth and just keep a dog as a pet if she is ever lonely.

Why do you think it's usually the women who initiate the divorce? The men in those marriages are just as miserable, but financially, it's just more beneficial for the husband to stay married, and more financially beneficial for the wife to bounce. The men are just as regretful for taking that marriage leap, but as the old saying goes, "It's cheaper to keep her." All the reason for that #GMB team to evangelize. I'm not apart of #GMB, buuut I kinda see their point.

 

[Jimi Swagger]

Why do you think it's usually the women who initiate the divorce? The men in those marriages are just as miserable, but financially, it's just more beneficial for the husband to stay married, and more financially beneficial for the wife to bounce. The men are just as regretful for taking that marriage leap, but as the old saying goes, "It's cheaper to keep her." All the reason for that #GMB team to evangelize. I'm not apart of #GMB, buuut I kinda see their point.

American men and Western European men have Peter Pan Syndrome which they always have which is a byproduct of capitalism. When women were confined to certain jobs and by the legal system they depended on men they remained married to them through abuse, infidelity or what have you. Now with equal opportunity, women and children shelters, favorable child support laws there is really no need to hence the single mother phenomenon. No one has ever questioned if these women wanted to be single by choice. I've talked to a lot of older women who want the companionship but not the headache of washing someone's underwear.

I don't know understand the whole #GMB as many are broke and have nothing financially to offer a women, perhaps a few who make 6 figures and own a end unit townhome through Fannie Mae.

 

[Biscayne]

I don't agree with either. White women have options and are coveted if they step out of their comfort zone and so do American brehettes. I lived in Europe and travel to Arabic countries all the time and notice this (and personal experience). Also in Latin American countries.

Regarding the avi:

Dreezy looks like someone...

I always see Katie and Sasha collabing.

 

[Biscayne]

American men and Western European men have Peter Pan Syndrome which they always have which is a byproduct of capitalism. When women were confined to certain jobs and by the legal system they depended on men they remained married to them through abuse, infidelity or what have you. Now with equal opportunity, women and children shelters, favorable child support laws there is really no need to hence the single mother phenomenon. No one has ever questioned if these women wanted to be single by choice. I've talked to a lot of older women who want the companionship but not the headache of washing someone's underwear.

I don't know understand the whole #GMB as many are broke and have nothing financially to offer a women, perhaps a few who make 6 figures and own a end unit townhome through Fannie Mae.

You think it's exclusively a Capitalism thing? Were/are women allowed more options in being single in countries where capitalism didn't run amok? Like saaay, African countries for exp.

And with all these options for women nowadays as far as choosing relationship statuses, why complain? Women who are married, wish they hadn't done it. Lonely women are wondering why they aren't....

 

[LadySimone]

[QUOTE="acewonders, post: 15415644, member:

The average successful man does not have a problem staying single and just fukking hoes well into his 40s, the average successful woman isn't tryna do that, lets be real. To be honest most men are interested the idea of a family and offspring more than the idea of marriage, marriage is just a step toward the family. [/QUOTE]

Apparently he does have a problem with it since he doesn't do it. Only in a black mans dystopia do men with means go around fukking hos. And the fact that you think this is normal and expected just proves time and time again how damaged some black men are. Just dont project that shyt onto other men. It's your mental health issue not theirs.

 

[LadySimone]

the fukk did you just say???

Don't swear at me. Black women's dating pool is full with pookies and ray rays.

Pookie and ray ray the felon
Pookie and ray ray the professional
Pookie and ray ray the homo

When these topics come up (and they come up often at the coli) the men in here are completely disingenuous when they argue that black women have the same issues as white women.

 

[LadySimone]

This entire reply is a red herring. The media only reports on the gender education gap as it relates to black people and we have therefore internalized this issue as a result. none of that bs you added has anything to do with this premise.

But since you brought it up, uneducated black women dont get married because they don't want to do so.

They don't? Says who?



To the extent that they don't it's probably because they have had to adjust to black male culture which states you gotta full hos well into your 40s.

 

[Biscayne]

[QUOTE="acewonders, post: 15415644, member:

The average successful man does not have a problem staying single and just fukking hoes well into his 40s, the average successful woman isn't tryna do that, lets be real. To be honest most men are interested the idea of a family and offspring more than the idea of marriage, marriage is just a step toward the family.

Apparently he does have a problem with it since he doesn't do it. Only in a black mans dystopia do men with means go around fukking hos. And the fact that you think this is normal and expected just proves time and time again how damaged some black men are. Just dont project that shyt onto other men. It's your mental health issue not theirs.[/QUOTE]
Do you spend time with White guys? Like on White message boards, or just hangout with White males? I think you're REALLY out of touch with how alot of men think REGARDLESS of race. Honestly.....

 

[Biscayne]

Don't swear at me. Black women's dating pool is full with pookies and ray rays.

Pookie and ray ray the felon
Pookie and ray ray the professional
Pookie and ray ray the homo

When these topics come up (and they come up often at the coli) the men in here are completely disingenuous when they argue that black women have the same issues as white women.

You don't think there are closeted White men creeping around on their spouse? The DL problem is another issue that was completely foisted exclusively on Black Males.

 

[LadySimone]

White women have options can always date upper tier East European or non-White men they just don't want to settle or "slum" I have no sympathy. Those chicks at public PWIs know what time it is an swirl openly with black athletes and others.

Why do black women come up in every post? It's kinda disturbing.

The reason why black women come up In stories that really have to do with white women is because the dudes in here don't believe white women should own up to their shyt. they replace "white women" with "women" and make all women responsible for this stuff. Trust if the article was talking about black women, black women would have to carry that burden themselves while they preach the virtues of pawgin with women who "ain't like that."

 

[Jimi Swagger]

You think it's exclusively a Capitalism thing? Were/are women allowed more options in being single in countries where capitalism didn't run amok? Like saaay, African countries for exp.

If you research Africa before Arab and European invasion women were free to marry and divorce as they please without state involvement or having to rely on men for survival. Women were not property. You have to define which countries. Africa is huge. Same as in pre-Columbian Native America. Or Japanese women prior to Shintoism and Buddhism. Modern religion are used to confine women and maintain male dominance hence every major religion has them worshipping some type of phallus and religious text to "stay in their place." The book Mirrors: The History of Almost Everyone is good, provides piece meal information concerning this current regime. Things are changing though.

 

[Biscayne]

They don't? Says who?



To the extent that they don't it's probably because they have had to adjust to black male culture which states you gotta full hos well into your 40s.

Out of wedlock rates have risen across black and white. That isn't exclusively Black male, and more so socioeconomic.