White Millennials are about to start inheriting a lot of money…

[Wildhundreds]

No lie breh the shyt is digusting...I seen mothafukkas in my own family do this shyt...

They don't even help during the transition. Its usually one sibling out of a possible 5 doing all of the care giving to the elder. As soon as that elder passes, then people start coming with their hands out with no shame. Then you realize some of the boomers got swindled out of their homes and nobody can even benefit from the property.

So this boomers destroyed everything is legit ignorant talk or white kids sending dumb internet nikkas off.

 

[Rawtid]

Nah, oftentimes people with the same goals will seek each other out. I’ll admit men are superficial and will fuk up by choosing looks over substance but I think most people serious about marriage will look for a partner that they believe will be able to build with. Race has plenty to do with it….again look at how the different races are raised and look at the outcome.

I mean understand what you're saying and I kinda agree with you, but not 100%. I personally haven't seen a black marriage worth emulating, which is why I've rid it from my equation to be successful. I mean how are you 15-16 years in and still destitute? I can be broke all by myself.

 

[Originalman]

He gon swear nobody looked out for him after his mama passed……

Yep breh you ain't never lied.....and it was a valuable lesson for me. No matter how much you want to you can't save folks from themselves. Even when they are family...

They got to want to do it FOR THEMSELVES!

 

[Lakers Offseason]

Generational Wealth: Why do 70% of Families Lose Their Wealth in the 2nd Generation?



It's about to be 100% with these lazy entitled pieces of shyts.

 

[desjardins]

I done seen so many relatives squander property they inherited at this point I just mind my business out of frustration
It's a house in our family sitting abandoned right now that's in one of the hottest real estate markets in the country. At least do a rehab and rent it out and if you can't make a deal with someone in the family who can (me muthafukka )
instead these dumb asses probably backed up on taxes and will lose the asset for nothing or sell it to some suit wearing cac for 30% of it's worth

One benefit of our generation having so many degrees and being in this "LLC" mindset is HOPEFULLY we make better use of whatever opportunities come our way

 

[SNG]

I mean understand what you're saying and I kinda agree with you, but not 100%. I personally haven't seen a black marriage worth emulating, which is why I've rid it from my equation to be successful. I mean how are you 15-16 years in and still destitute? I can be broke all by myself.

No one is saying being with a person that is jobless. If both people make 40,000 a year. Your up 80,000 in your household. Even if your making 60,000 and your man is making 40,000 that's still 100,000 between yall.

 

[Tryna Makit]

More power to them.... congratulations?

 

[Rawtid]

No one is saying being with a person that is jobless. If both people make 40,000 a year. Your up 80,000 in your household. Even if your making 60,000 and your man is making 40,000 that's still 100,000 between yall.

Great, but if two people aren't on the same page financially, shyt still is a bust. INDIVUALS are the ones driving efforts, not couples. Even paired at $100K isn't enough to make a comfortable future for two people.

 

[Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr]

I mean understand what you're saying and I kinda agree with you, but not 100%. I personally haven't seen a black marriage worth emulating, which is why I've rid it from my equation to be successful. I mean how are you 15-16 years in and still destitute? I can be broke all by myself.

This explains a lot. This statement circles right back to my original argument and is exactly what @SNG just posted….if you haven’t been exposed to it, you won’t know what it is. You need to experience it. My sister, I truly hope that someone will come into you and your child’s life so you can experience it. All of our women deserve someone faithful and solid to build with, and vice versa for the brothers. It’s not for everyone but it’s a great feeling to know you have backup in love and support.

 

[Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr]

Great, but if two people aren't on the same page financially, shyt still is a bust. INDIVUALS are the ones driving efforts, not couples. Even paired at $100K isn't enough to make a comfortable future for two people.

So it’s YOUR responsibility to find the RIGHT individual. A good dude making only $40k and is budget conscious is a better long term bet than a dude making $100k and is all about rims on the Charger. Which do you think will have something of value at retirement?

 

[Rawtid]

This explains a lot. This statement circles right back to my original argument and is exactly what @SNG just posted….if you haven’t been exposed to it, you won’t know what it is. You need to experience it. My sister, I truly hope that someone will come into you and your child’s life so you can experience it. All of our women deserve someone faithful and solid to build with, and vice versa for the brothers. It’s not for everyone but it’s a great feeling to know you have backup in love and support.

"Need" to experience it being a luxury are two differnt things. I don't feel people should NEED another to advance, but it's so much better/easier if you do. Also, a healthy, functioning relationship isn't the same as just a relationship. Don't depend success on relationship status. Get it, regardless. I'd be fukked if I decided to "wait" for a suitable partner. Even if I opted out of having kids before married, I would never have a kid.

 

[Hater Eraser]

Wow!!
People need to appreciate when others lend them a helping hand. In life, nobody gives a F about you. When you find somebody who does care, you can't betray that. He will regret that for the rest of his life.

This is true man. The messed up part is dude been bad mouthing me to the rest of the family for the last year talking about how I did him wrong and I didn't keep my word to his mom..... Folks so damn selfish man and its so sad when it blood doing this to you...

Ive been watching Last Days of Ptolemy Grey and it touches a lot on the topic of trifling family and money being transferred down generationally ..

 

[SNG]

Great, but if two people aren't on the same page financially, shyt still is a bust. INDIVUALS are the ones driving efforts, not couples. Even paired at $100K isn't enough to make a comfortable future for two people.

Yet you have alot of single parents who make way less than that raising two kids. You still have an able body person who is making money, can cook food, wash clothes and babysit his own children and share the load if need be.

 

[Jasmine20]

Mothafukkas don't want to hear it. But some of these jokers (gen X, Millennials and Zoomers) just lazy and trifflin. One of my close older counsins passed away about 4 years ago and before she died she asked me to make sure her only child (son who is a zoomer) had somewhere to stay. Dude had been in trouble and was cleaning up his life. I loved my older cousin cause she always was there for me so I told her cool.

So she dies and my younger cousin (her son) had no where to stay. I put him up in one of my rental properties to stay in till he gets on his feet. Even though he had a little minimum wage job I tell him. Hey just give me 200 bucks a month and you can stay here. Lights and water included.

Do you know that mothafukka couldn't even give me the 200 bucks a month. Not only that this mothafukka was slanging dope out my property (without me knowing) and ran off with the plug on one dope boy. Dope boy came by and shot in the house twice. Eventually the next day my cousin was arrested for some outstanding warrant and spent 6 months in jail. Do you know this fool called when he got out asking could he stay in my rental property again....man I hung the phone up on this fool and told him to don't call me again.

Seriously?! This happens often unfortunately. Parents or family members helping out the family and mfs do dumb ass shyt or don't appreciate it. Smhh

This is true man. The messed up part is dude been bad mouthing me to the rest of the family for the last year talking about how I did him wrong and I didn't keep my word to his mom..... Folks so damn selfish man and its so sad when it blood doing this to you...

He's bad mouthing you?! Wow. He needs his ass whooped. He had a great opportunity and fumbled it

 

[Rawtid]

So it’s YOUR responsibility to find the RIGHT individual. A good dude making only $40k and is budget conscious is a better long term bet than a dude making $100k and is all about rims on the Charger. Which do you think will have something of value at retirement?

It's only my responsibility to do right by the money I'm getting. I can't control the next person. Yes, it'd be great if I partnered with someone who had the same financial values, but that's just not likely. You have to look out for yourself individually, until you're married for real and even then you have to create a dividing line.