Yet you have alot of single parents who make way less than that raising two kids.
Raising a child and giving them a decent childhood, are two different things. Poverty shouldn't be your standard.
Yet you have alot of single parents who make way less than that raising two kids.
Raising a child and giving them a decent childhood, are two different things. Poverty shouldn't be your standard.
"Need" to experience it being a luxury are two differnt things. I don't feel people should NEED another to advance, but it's so much better/easier if you do. Also, a healthy, functioning relationship isn't the same as just a relationship. Don't depend success on relationship status. Get it, regardless. I'd be fukked if I decided to "wait" for a suitable partner. Even if I opted out of having kids before married, I would never have a kid.
They don't even help during the transition. Its usually one sibling out of a possible 5 doing all of the care giving to the elder. As soon as that elder passes, then people start coming with their hands out with no shame. Then you realize some of the boomers got swindled out of their homes and nobody can even benefit from the property.
So this boomers destroyed everything is legit ignorant talk or white kids sending dumb internet nikkas off.
So it’s YOUR responsibility to find the RIGHT individual. A good dude making only $40k and is budget conscious is a better long term bet than a dude making $100k and is all about rims on the Charger. Which do you think will have something of value at retirement?
Yeah, but people like fukking. Raw especially. Everything is ideal, but reality is reality. We continuously lie to overserves that overall sexual responsibility will trump what feels TF good, this is why out of wedlock births stay on the rise. And just because you had kids out of wedlock, doesn't mean you're in for a life of struggle.No offense but if we could’ve avoided having kids before we were established/married, shyt even having them as well-off single parents, half of the community’s problems would be solved..
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Cool, you’re apparently resigned to being single. Adamant, even. I believe a lot of single mothers are jaded like this and this is a problem. Your children are likely to see this and emulate it, perpetuating it and keeping black homes with single parents. I guess until that changes, it is how it is. Best of luck to you and yours, sister…It's only my responsibility to do right by the money I'm getting. I can't control the next person. Yes, it'd be great if I partnered with someone who had the same financial values, but that's just not likely. You have to look out for yourself individually, until you're married for real and even then you have to create a dividing line.
Cool, you’re apparently resigned to being single. Adamant, even. I believe a lot of single mothers are jaded like this and this is a problem. Your children are likely to see this and emulate it, perpetuating it and keeping black homes with single parents. I guess until that changes, it is how it is. Best of luck to you and yours, sister…
yep a lot of blacks lose their homes tryna get money smh
That was just one example of what dude could be spending his 100k on…he may still have less at the end of the year than the other bruh since he may not be as financially responsible.100k dude can get a new charger with high end rims every year and still have more bread than the 40k responsible bruh![]()
Unfortunately for our community in alot of ways it is. Raising a child with two healthy parents does wonders then a single parent that's stressed out and struggling.
Naw, yo ass is committed to being single*sigh* I'm not resigned to being single, it's just one position has yielded better results than the other. Why be against someone single and advancing, than together with someone and going no where? The idea of a "relationship" has been beat into people, even when that shyt doesn't cause you to thrive. It's so weird.
I'm sorry if that's what you got from my post.Naw, yo ass is committed to being single. Go ahead, be single, it’s all good. Your whole mantra is “individualism” and “self”. Says a lot about your environment…you need to move or somethin, damn
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No lie, it's the most ridiculous and sad thing I've ever seen. People you thought was sensible and caring turn into...something you don't recognizeIf you're black and never seen siblings and relatives fight over dead people belongings, you're definitely a kid and shouldn't be in these type of discussions.