White Millennials are about to start inheriting a lot of money…

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"Need" to experience it being a luxury are two differnt things. I don't feel people should NEED another to advance, but it's so much better/easier if you do. Also, a healthy, functioning relationship isn't the same as just a relationship. Don't depend success on relationship status. Get it, regardless. I'd be fukked if I decided to "wait" for a suitable partner. Even if I opted out of having kids before married, I would never have a kid.
:manny:No offense but if we could’ve avoided having kids before we were established/married, shyt even having them as well-off single parents, half of the community’s problems would be solved.. :francis:
 

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They don't even help during the transition. Its usually one sibling out of a possible 5 doing all of the care giving to the elder. As soon as that elder passes, then people start coming with their hands out with no shame. Then you realize some of the boomers got swindled out of their homes and nobody can even benefit from the property.

So this boomers destroyed everything is legit ignorant talk or white kids sending dumb internet nikkas off.

Breh its like you reading my mind this morning. My grandmother on my mom's side died years ago. I was a child and remember the shyt like yesterday. My grandmother was married to one man they got divorced when she was young and she married my grandfather who had my mom (they were both in their 40s when they had my mom so her older sisters were in their 20s and out the house). Anyway one sister and her kids were always jealous of my mother and the other younger sister and her kids loved my mother.

Anyway my grandmother was sick with stage 4 cancer and my mother moved in with her and took care of her while my dad kept me and my siblings back at the house. My younger aunt (who wasn't jealous of my mother) helped out and her kids did too with my sick grandmother. Once my grandmother died my aunt and her kids who were jealous of mother all had their hands out looking for their cut.

While the younger aunt and my mom were cleaning up the home and getting things in order from my grandmothers death. Do you know some of my young cousin's from my aunts side (the sister who was jealous of my mother) got in my grandmothers things, stole some credit cards and ran up bills in my dead grandmother's name? Then when they were caught their excuse was well ya'll didn't give me a cut of the insurance money so I felt I deserved to take the credit cards and get what I wanted. :snoop:


The sad part is the insurance wasn't nothing but 3k. 3K wasn't shyt even in the 90s...my mom told me after the funeral there wasn't any money left so they were fighting over nothing but clothes and what they thought they deserved. :snoop:

shyt so got damn sad breh...:francis:
 

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So it’s YOUR responsibility to find the RIGHT individual. A good dude making only $40k and is budget conscious is a better long term bet than a dude making $100k and is all about rims on the Charger. Which do you think will have something of value at retirement?

100k dude can get a new charger with high end rims every year and still have more bread than the 40k responsible bruh :hubie:
 

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:manny:No offense but if we could’ve avoided having kids before we were established/married, shyt even having them as well-off single parents, half of the community’s problems would be solved.. :francis:
Yeah, but people like fukking. Raw especially. Everything is ideal, but reality is reality. We continuously lie to overserves that overall sexual responsibility will trump what feels TF good, this is why out of wedlock births stay on the rise. And just because you had kids out of wedlock, doesn't mean you're in for a life of struggle.
 

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It's only my responsibility to do right by the money I'm getting. I can't control the next person. Yes, it'd be great if I partnered with someone who had the same financial values, but that's just not likely. You have to look out for yourself individually, until you're married for real and even then you have to create a dividing line.
Cool, you’re apparently resigned to being single. Adamant, even. I believe a lot of single mothers are jaded like this and this is a problem. Your children are likely to see this and emulate it, perpetuating it and keeping black homes with single parents. I guess until that changes, it is how it is. Best of luck to you and yours, sister…
 

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Cool, you’re apparently resigned to being single. Adamant, even. I believe a lot of single mothers are jaded like this and this is a problem. Your children are likely to see this and emulate it, perpetuating it and keeping black homes with single parents. I guess until that changes, it is how it is. Best of luck to you and yours, sister…

*sigh* I'm not resigned to being single, it's just one position has yielded better results than the other. Why be against someone single and advancing, than together with someone and going no where? The idea of a "relationship" has been beat into people, even when that shyt doesn't cause you to thrive. It's so weird.
 

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100k dude can get a new charger with high end rims every year and still have more bread than the 40k responsible bruh :hubie:
That was just one example of what dude could be spending his 100k on…he may still have less at the end of the year than the other bruh since he may not be as financially responsible.
 

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Unfortunately for our community in alot of ways it is. Raising a child with two healthy parents does wonders then a single parent that's stressed out and struggling.

From my perspective, I've never seen two "healthy" parents. Again, my point is, there are ways to thrive when the traditional approach isn't working. You shouldn't thwart efforts because your relationship status isn't ideal.
 

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*sigh* I'm not resigned to being single, it's just one position has yielded better results than the other. Why be against someone single and advancing, than together with someone and going no where? The idea of a "relationship" has been beat into people, even when that shyt doesn't cause you to thrive. It's so weird.
Naw, yo ass is committed to being single :russ:. Go ahead, be single, it’s all good. Your whole mantra is “individualism” and “self”. Says a lot about your environment…you need to move or somethin, damn :mjlol:
 

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Naw, yo ass is committed to being single :russ:. Go ahead, be single, it’s all good. Your whole mantra is “individualism” and “self”. Says a lot about your environment…you need to move or somethin, damn :mjlol:
I'm sorry if that's what you got from my post. :manny: The "wrong" partner is a lot worse than being alone. I'm just focused on the conditions when it's not perfect, so building skills and making more money is more viable than the trial and error of dating. It's just wrong to me, to give people the impression that you can only be successful in a relationship, especially when so many are fickle.
 

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If you're black and never seen siblings and relatives fight over dead people belongings, you're definitely a kid and shouldn't be in these type of discussions.
No lie, it's the most ridiculous and sad thing I've ever seen. People you thought was sensible and caring turn into...something you don't recognize :picard:

You won't see these nikkas for years, or some come every cookout...but let Grandma Bessie pass and she got that nice figurine set Auntie Luciel want, she'll show her whole decrepit ass to get it :francis:
 
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