White Millennials are about to start inheriting a lot of money…

[NinoBrown]

Millenials and below should think about estate planning now in the 20-40 age range than 70+ with no idea on what to do, especially since dementia and Alzheimer's destroy our community easily.

It's easier and cheaper to get whole life and accidental death insurance policies around this age as well since you will be in better shape.

Maybe you can't get a house but most people can at least get an insurance policy to pass on to family/kids.

 

[get these nets]

I tried to tell them that in their thread last week where they said they would turn down professional women over 30 for marriage due to the women being 'too old' over 30.

They make no sense. More brehs need to start prioritising proper adult women with careers and jobs instead of joining this Kevin Samuels tip to date 24-year-olds.

We need strong duel incomes and families.

Anybody taking life cues from YTers is lost. Might as well write them off.

 

[Afro]

I tried to tell them that in their thread last week where they said they would turn down professional women over 30 for marriage due to the women being 'too old' over 30.

They make no sense. More brehs need to start prioritising proper adult women with careers and jobs instead of joining this Kevin Samuels tip to date 24-year-olds.

We need strong duel incomes and families.

I'll take any 30+ women in good shape and has her head on straight.

shyt is nuts out here, sub 30 women still live with their folks and have NO financial knowledge.

Add on parents sabotaging their own children. It's gonna be a wild ride for the next ten years.

Some of us are starting from the negatives

 

[Lord Beasley]

black men can't even discuss wealth & property without a beef or altercation.

every locker room thread ends up the same way:

Would you rather own a successful but small business or be....

Spoiler

 

[UpNext]

I tried to tell them that in their thread last week where they said they would turn down professional women over 30 for marriage due to the women being 'too old' over 30.

They make no sense. More brehs need to start prioritising proper adult women with careers and jobs instead of joining this Kevin Samuels tip to date 24-year-olds.

We need strong duel incomes and families.

Hard to prioritize professional women over 30 when they be like:

I mean understand what you're saying and I kinda agree with you, but not 100%. I personally haven't seen a black marriage worth emulating, which is why I've rid it from my equation to be successful. I mean how are you 15-16 years in and still destitute? I can be broke all by myself.

It's best to just save em for the streets and get at these younger and less jaded 24 year olds when you're trying to build and going into the relationship with 100% positive intentions. The mindset here is exactly why bruhs are saying go younger, nothing but a future broken family will come from the above mindset.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

She’s definitely a bright spot from a bad situation…props to her

A thousand percent. She's easily the most stable and put together woman I've ever met. The best thing about it is that she's financially conservative on bullshyt that most women would flex about to feel powerful. She has no issue with saying lets have a nicer house or appliances. But there's no need to spring for some 70k-100k car when we barely drive. Or wear a gang of designer shyt when we both work from home. It was shocking how austere she could be. Only thing she splurges on is vegan food and travel. I gotta convince her alot to actually treat herself. But she's got money trauma, so she thinks at any moment like our house will blow up or we'll both lose our gigs at the same time. Good to be prepared, but it borders on pathological sometimes.

I'll take any 30+ women in good shape and has her head on straight.

shyt is nuts out here, sub 30 women still live with their folks and have NO financial knowledge.

Add on parents sabotaging their own children. It's gonna be a wild ride for the next ten years.

Some of us are starting from the negatives

Bro, you don't even know. I think about my relationships in my 20s' and how none of the women I knew were hype on shyt like benefits and retirement. None of them had a plan to own a home or invest. It was crazy in retrospect. Our generation romanticized debt and "the grind" so much so that we forgot what we were grinding for. Ain't no way I'm about to seriously date some 23-25 year old whose main concern is saving for a butt job.

 

[Rawtid]

Hard to prioritize professional women over 30 when they be like:





It's best to just save em for the streets and get at these younger and less jaded 24 year olds when you're trying to build and going into the relationship with 100% positive intentions. The mindset here is exactly why bruhs are saying go younger, nothing but a future broken family will come from the above mindset.

Eh, this response just appeals to men’s desire for control and not overall partnership. If you want an adult dependent, just say that. But a woman being your financial equal will yield for a better generational plan. You can’t be mapping out the future on a combined income of $60k.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

Hard to prioritize professional women over 30 when they be like:





It's best to just save em for the streets and get at these younger and less jaded 24 year olds when you're trying to build and going into the relationship with 100% positive intentions. The mindset here is exactly why bruhs are saying go younger, nothing but a future broken family will come from the above mindset.

You missed sis' point though.

It's not about being jaded is about being stable and moving towards something. nikkas are going for 24 year olds because they have no plans/standards. So the bare minimum will do. She's saying that she's personally never seen a good example of a black marraige (and many people haven't either). So why would she put so much stock into creating something that she hasn't seen be positive?

That's not jaded that's someone making a plan that doesn't depend on anyone else. I can never fault someone for that. Man or woman. When I met my girl we had a long conversation about that. And we both said we'd never get in a position (willingly) where one had to DEPEND on the other one wholly. We wre two complete adults with careers, dreams and plans. And we aim to achieve those goals together and support eachother's visions.

Not wanting to do that doesn't make someone a bird. It makes them self-sufficient.

Eh, this response just appeals to men’s desire for control and not overall partnership. If you want an adult dependent, just say that. But a woman being your financial equal will yield for a better generational plan. You can’t be mapping out the future on a combined income of $60k.

After getting a certain age, I realized many men want to marry glorified children. I hate dependant people....of all genders.

 

[iBrowse]

They been doing that.

 

[Htrb-nvr-blk-&-ug-as-evr]

She has no issue with saying lets have a nicer house or appliances.

A woman after my own heart…hard to find one that appreciates a nice refrigerator or oven

 

[1thouwow]

Because that's what they can afford and can get approved for

Y’all always have an excuse

 

[AQz]

A lot of home ownership in my family.

even if you won’t benefit from this. Look at it as a chance to put your kids in position

 

[UpNext]

You missed sis' point though.

It's not about being jaded is about being stable and moving towards something. nikkas are going for 24 year olds because they have no plans/standards. So the bare minimum will do. She's saying that she's personally never seen a good example of a black marraige (and many people haven't either). So why would she put so much stock into creating something that she hasn't seen be positive?

That's not jaded that's someone making a plan that doesn't depend on anyone else. I can never fault someone for that. Man or woman. When I met my girl we had a long conversation about that. And we both said we'd never get in a position (willingly) where one had to DEPEND on the other one wholly. We wre two complete adults with careers, dreams and plans. And we aim to achieve those goals together and support eachother's visions.

Not wanting to do that doesn't make someone a bird. It makes them self-sufficient.

Folks are going for younger women because they're more cooperative and willing to follow your lead. Met my fiance when she was 23 (she 26 now and I'm 33), she was bad with finances and all of that. After 3 years of being with me now she owning property after I taught her about equity, credit score over 800 after I showed her how to hustle the credit card game and got on her ass about her spending, and eating out less because I'm willing to stay in and be a home body and we planning on leveraging her property gains in the COVID market (I was on her ass in 2020 to buy a house and put her on to NACA) to wipe out her over 100k in student loan debt that before she met me she had no real plan of ever paying off.

Instead of throwing slick shade at well intentioned brothers like myself that's just tryna build and win out here with women we know we can win with with little comments like this:

After getting a certain age, I realized many men want to marry glorified children.

why don't some of y'all just admit y'all ain't leaders and head of households like that

 

[UpNext]

Eh, this response just appeals to men’s desire for control and not overall partnership. If you want an adult dependent, just say that. But a woman being your financial equal will yield for a better generational plan. You can’t be mapping out the future on a combined income of $60k.

I mean hey, if that's how the women of your ilk see it, I can already tell that's another broken household just waiting to happen. Y'all fun to be around for a short time frame tho.

 

[Zime]

My mother owns multiple properties but not in the US so if shyt hits the fan I’ll be baking off somewhere tropical