This is a very drawn out way of you saying you'll vote for whoever the party tells you to vote for.
Much of the rest of the country isn't like you. Trump won because he inspired people to vote for him. It might have been all based on lies but people would rather vote for someone than against someone else.
That whole we have to keep X out of office so use your vote to do that is a losing strategy and if you wanna continue to delude yourself into thinking it work maybe you should reflect on the last 4 elections we've had. It's always failed. Voting for Kerry to block Bush failed. People voted for Obama because they believed in him. Romney failed to inspire his party and that whole vote to get rid of Obama movement failed. Clinton was said to be the best option to keep Trump out and guess who is president now.
What you're talking about has a proven track record of not working.
Why do you feel this need to be courted like a fukking female?
You're picking politicians, not spouses.
The entire point of picking a politician is itself a negotiation. Otherwise, you'd run for office yourself at every position. Its literally finding a representative you can live with.
Your local politicians can be more radical. They have less to lose and more immediate freedom.
Your leader for 320 million people is going to be an umbrella of ideas and stances.
Act responsibly, not like a fukking child.