Which Turns You on More, Man That Persues or Man That Ignores?

[Oceanicpuppy]

I actually have a dude ignoring me right now, Not cute or sexy at all. Makes me feel unwanted.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

listen ladies, y'all need to pursue too

Then dude will abuse it and think he doesn't have to work as hard to love and show affection.
I find when a guy goes after you it shows he is really invested in you. Women approaching works but after that it's up to man to take the lead.

 

[LiberianGirl]

The one who pursues as long as he doesn't come on TOO hard
Ignoring me turns me off

 

[Rue]

I'd prefer the ignore, i like a chase and making an effort getting to know you, hell id start to like olives just because a guy likes olives and i HATE those fake grape looking things , sometimes guys that are all over me makes it too damn easy, and sometimes i dont feel like getting any unwanted attention

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I actually have a dude ignoring me right now, Not cute or sexy at all. Makes me feel unwanted.

how can you tell if he's ignoring you or if he hasn't noticed you?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

The one who pursues as long as he doesn't come on TOO hard
Ignoring me turns me off

what is coming on too hard?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I'd prefer the ignore, i like a chase and making an effort getting to know you, hell id start to like olives just because a guy likes olives and i HATE those fake grape looking things , sometimes guys that are all over me makes it too damn easy, and sometimes i dont feel like getting any unwanted attention

...and there were 2

 

[Rusty Kuntz]

I'm pretty obvious when I want something. I don't fukk around. It's a waste of time.

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

how can you tell if he's ignoring you or if he hasn't noticed you?

I caught him checkin me out more than once. I gave him the green light. I'm just waiting for him to approach.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I caught him checkin me out more than once. I gave him the green light. I'm just waiting for him to approach.

what was the green light

 

[Oceanicpuppy]

what was the green light

I was checking him out as well. long starring, you couldn't miss it. Its a staring contest right now.

 

[user1]

us men are oblivious to yall "signs"

this is very true . No hate but sometimes I think ya'll slow. But I prefer pursue even though I have asked a few guys out before.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I was checking him out as well. long starring, you couldn't miss it. Its a staring contest right now.

he probably scary or thinking too hard
"she probably staring cuz I got something on my face"

 

[LiberianGirl]

what is coming on too hard?

doing too much too soon...pet names, obvious overcompensating, being overly sexual, being arrogant because of my attention

I don't really know how to put it in words, but you know thirst when you see it

and this is all assuming I'm attracted to you physically

 

[wheels]

doing too much too soon...pet names, obvious overcompensating, being overly sexual, being arrogant because of my attention

I don't really know how to put it in words, but you know thirst when you see it

and this is all assuming I'm attracted to you physically

interesting