Which one of y'all said this to Tamera Mowry?

[marcuz]

she kept talkin bout how she kept her son out in the son hopin it darkens him and how she hopes his hair gets curlier

she was clearly bothered by the fully cac appearance of her son. like any other proud black person.

no black person wants to give birth to a white child

paula patton is biracial though :tf: stop with all this proud black woman crap, it undermines authentic black women.

 

[GreatestLaker]

link?

how is she going to be bothered when she's half white herself? what did she expect was going to happen? funny part is robin thicke still calls their son black

I didn't find anything on that, but I came across this.

Robin Thicke in an interview with Howard Stern, "The funny thing is, in high school she didn’t take me to prom because she didn’t want everyone to know she was with a white dude because she was president of the Black Student Union. I was a secret. She didn’t want to show up with a white guy. Funny right?"

 

[marcuz]

I didn't find anything on that, but I came across this.

wow that's hitting so many stereotypes at once :joel:

 

[GreatestLaker]

link?

how is she going to be bothered when she's half white herself? what did she expect was going to happen? funny part is robin thicke still calls their son black

Found the quote.

"He's blond, he has blue eyes. It's crazy. Everybody's like, did you have anything to do with this? They think we like adopted a Russian child...and everyday I'm like he's gonna get blacker, no look," Patton said.

 

[Poitier]

It relates because Barack implied that the cops were racist.... Secondly, let's keep it real. Let's keep it all the way 100 breh. Do u think black people said some mean and hateful shyt to her regarding her white husband and her child? Yes or No?

White cops are a subset of White people. Tamera simply implied that Black people were racist.

And no, I don't think anyone even thought about Tamera until she started leaking her wedding photos, articles about her love of white men, etc to incite the trolling she would then receive

 

[Swagnificent]

link?

how is she going to be bothered when she's half white herself? what did she expect was going to happen? funny part is robin thicke still calls their son black

here are some links: http://madamenoire.com/289298/i-was...to-take-him-to-her-prom-because-he-was-white/

http://blogs.babycenter.com/celebrities/paula-patton-wants-son-to-get-blacker/

she didn't want to Robin Thicke to the prom cause he was white and is tryin to make her baby blacker

Paula Patton is OK with me even though she married a cac. She doesn't seem to hate her blackness. Also she married a white dude that is actually on her level. Successful and good looking (no homo). The fact Tamera married some unknown overweight cac lets me know that she's just a self-hatin c00n lookin for the first cac to show her interest.

If you gon marry at cac at least let it be someone that is on your level or higher. Tamera is too good lookin a black woman to be with such a lame cac. She coulda done better.

 

[GreatestLaker]

here are some links: http://madamenoire.com/289298/i-was...to-take-him-to-her-prom-because-he-was-white/

http://blogs.babycenter.com/celebrities/paula-patton-wants-son-to-get-blacker/

she didn't want to Robin Thicke to the prom cause he was white and is tryin to make her baby blacker

Paula Patton is OK with me even though she married a cac. She doesn't seem to hate her blackness. Also she married a white dude that is actually on her level. Successful and good looking (no homo). The fact Tamera married some unknown overweight cac lets me know that she's just a self-hatin c00n lookin for the first cac to show her interest.

If you gon marry at cac at least let it be someone that is on your level or higher. Tamera is too good lookin a black woman to be with such a lame cac. She coulda done better.

So if she had married a black man she would've been self hating too?

 

[Swagnificent]

I agree with this.

Anyway I dont see why people are up in arms about a biracial (black and white) person marrying a white person. Theyre half white themselves. On another note if I have children I am not raising them on that "colorblind" bullshyt. To be colorblind is to ignore the differences we have of the races instead of accepting races. To be colorblind is to be ignorant. Why should we not see and notice each others color?

edit: I want to add that yes that there are biracial people who identify themselves as black, but they are still half white. That doesnt go away just because of what they claim.

its not so much that they are technically bi-racial, its the fact that America still views them as black. Barack Obama before he became President wasn't seen as a half white man. He was seen as BLACK. Period. That is how most bi-racial black folks move through America. shyt I ain't even know Tia and Tamera were half-white till like last year. I always thought they were just light skin. Same with Lauren London/Melyssa Ford/etc. These people don't move through America as bi-racial people. they move thru America as Black folks.

and I agree with you about color-blindness. that shyt just comes of as racist. I don't want you to ignore that I'm black. I want you to accept it and appreciate our differences rather than acting like they don't exist.

 

[Premeditated]

So if she had married a black man she would've been self hating too?

nope because black people weren't her ancestors oppressor.

 

[Poitier]

So if she had married a black man she would've been self hating too?

No because she is of color. Her skin isn't White, her hair is dark, her eyes are dark, etc. White people are not "people of color."

 

[Marvel]

I hate telling people how to live their lives, especially when I don't even know them, and especially when I'm only 20 and don't really know shyt myself. But to that female here talking about having interracial kids all I've got to say is, you'd be doing an extreme disservice to your children if you didn't teach them this kind of discrimination exists. Although I will say this is not something you should actually have to burden (because tbh, you will fully never understand the intricacies and this is just the truth), this is something that's more than you and would actually fall more on the shoulders of whatever color man you mate with. But as the mother of those children it is your responsibility to be at least cognizant of the situation, you cannot afford to have your mixed children "blind" to the world because the world will not be blind to them. You say you're still learning from your boyfriend about these issues, ask him what a "nikka wake up call" is because it's the very thing that keeps us from being like you and "blind". You being the skin color you are you can afford to live like this, most white people front like they live like this even though they don't. Being black, you can only get so far in this society before society reminds you you are black, and this is unfortunately what is going to happen to your biracial children.

And I saw a comment about The-Coli.com. From what I can see, most of these race threads and comments (outside of the usual pawg this or that) on this forum aren't made by black people. The vast majority of them are masquerading as blacks to promote the viewpoint of black men and women being ignorant and inferior. Some of yall don't want to think that people are actually paid to come to these forums and do this shyt and that it's just white losers in their basements, that's not true. It's both them and people paid by certain agendas. I don't know why these people aren't being banned, I will say that The Coli is the only website I visit who doesn't ban these people immediately. I'm sure it has something to do with race threads generating the most clicks on this website outside of the game threads or WWE threads (or Kind Gentleman threads), but I don't think the clicks are worth the continued degradation of this community here and it's something I'd like to see cleaned up for The Coli in 2014.

Anyway, and it's not just white people and their trickery, black people are feeding into this bullshyt too and actively helping those white people in tearing us down. The truth is as African Americans we're being programmed to idolize whites. Some of us follow the protocol and go along with the brainwashing (aka "c00n" or bedwench), then there are those of us who take a much more staunch in maintaining blackness, then there are those of us in the grey area. Unfortunately what happens to a lot of black people is they'll get mistaken for someone like @Chris.B or one of those women from Lipstickalley who would willingly allow to be spat on for the company of a white man, and get unfairly attacked if they date someone out of race. Both blacks and whites look down on IR relationships, but it's a little more personal when it comes to blacks. If we don't preserve us, no one else will. When we're being taught that "white is right", the white man created and did everything and we were just along for the ride except for that MLK guy, and the entire cultures and inventions that our people created are getting erased or being credited to a white man, this is what we got. You're left with a view (albeit an extreme one, these coli dudes aren't running around calling people cacs) of an extremely dysfunctional, insecure, manipulated, community of people who hate themselves.

TL;DR - Black people are fukked in this country whether it by our own hands or the hands of those in charge, and you need to do your very best to teach your children about all of this instead of sweeping it under the rug. If you won't bring it up to them then someone else will have no problem doing it.

You are only 20.

Please post more often. You remind me of a young me.

 

[Swagnificent]

paula patton is biracial though :tf: stop with all this proud black woman crap, it undermines authentic black women.

she moves through this country as a black woman

people need to stop with this bi-racial crap. other than people who look very mixed, most mixed folks are still presumed and treated as black. no one will say that nikkas who look like Barack Obama walking down the street are "bi-racial" they'll just say they black.

 

[Swagnificent]

So if she had married a black man she would've been self hating too?

of course not. Tia and Tamera no matter what their racial makeup is technically are viewed in America as BLACK WOMEN not biracial. That is how most people look at them and that is how are identified. No one walking down the street would call them bi-racial. They'd say there go two black women.

Get the fukk off this shyt bout tryin to get mixed people into their own category. In America its either black or white. PERIOD. Ain't no such thing as bi-racial. Barack Obama ain't the first bi-racial president. He's the first black president.

 

[GreatestLaker]

nope because black people weren't her ancestors oppressor.

No because she is of color. Her skin isn't White, her hair is dark, her eyes are dark, etc. White people are not "people of color."

But she is half white. You dudes aren't making any kind of sense to me at all. To look down on her white side would also be a form of self hate. There is no difference.

Shes a self-hater because she married someone that looks like her father? Do you people listen to the shyt that you say?

 

[marcuz]

she moves through this country as a black woman

people need to stop with this bi-racial crap. other than people who look very mixed, most mixed folks are still presumed and treated as black. no one will say that nikkas who look like Barack Obama walking down the street are "bi-racial" they'll just say they black.

you can one drop rule yourself to death, but i refuse