Carolina Slim
Superstar
I can kinda see both sides of it. My pops and I had beef before I got married, not because of who I married, but because I didn't invite a lot of people from his side of the family. I didn't know them n1ggas like that, and we were limited to 175 people at our reception. If we went over 175 people, then we would have to pay more. So outside of friends and family and loved ones, a lot of the ones on his side didn't make the cut. He was salty, and said "I'm not coming to the wedding". I was like "this ain't about you, tho" and "if you don't wanna come then " Went on and got married, my uncle (his brother) walked my moms down the aisle.... We got over it, we both bull headed when it comes to our stances. So in a sense I can kinda see Kobe's side when it comes to who he married or how he decided to do it. But I can also kinda see where his peoples is salty cause of how he got his in laws living. If that's HIS money, he should be able to dictate what they get. I would feel some type of way if I had my mother in law or extended in laws living better than my peoples. And if my wife tried to insist that I bless them more than my peoples, then we'd have a problem right there