When Is It Beneficial to Ignore a Woman?

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You know sometimes women act stupid and when you ignore them, things get back to normal. But if you talk it makes the situation worst.
I do know that If a woman is trying to argue, to just ignore her and not indulge in her foolishness.
Right now my woman said she is feeling sad but she doesnt know why. I try to talk to her and she gives me short answers. If I ignore her, I don't want her to be on some "he don't care" stuff.
*You know these womens be acting like that:mindblown:*
 

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Ignore her when she is using you or cheating on you. If you ignore her when she needs you the most but can't really express herself than clearly you either don't care or u will appear like you don't care. We are emotional....not all but a lot of us.
 

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Ignore her when she is using you or cheating on you. If you ignore her when she needs you the most but can't really express herself than clearly you either don't care or u will appear like you don't care. We are emotional....not all but a lot of us.

I asked her what was wrong and she said that she doesnt know. She just feels sad.
I told her maybe its the stress *she been having problems at work* but she said "no".
 

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Pick up the signs

She's sad and doesn't know why. She not happy in the relationship but doesn't know why, even though everything is going great .

The classic its me not you

She not talking about the relationship.
Friday she had some new issue at work and when she got home she was upset.
The next day she was hitting me with one word answers and said she's not happy.
Has nothing to do with a relationship.
 

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you should ignore her if she is using her negative mood or behavior to seek attention from you. If you give her attention when she is being that way, you are teaching her that acting that way will get her attention from you.

also, ignoring her when she's doing bad is only half the equation. You should also reward her with positive attention when she makes a genuine effort to express herself and what's wrong.
 
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