When I was 20/21. I fell for this pretty girl with an amazing personality.There was only one problem

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Why do single mothers have such loving, awesome personalities? Because they have to. I've met tons of cool and funny fat chicks. They have to have awesome personalities, too. Imagine that. A girl whose dating value that has been lowered significantly is awesome to be around otherwise.

It's the same thing as a short guy who plays 3 different instruments phenomenally, makes a solid six figures as a lawyer, and has impeccable fashion sense. He's gotta make up for that lost height!
 

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Why do single mothers have such loving, awesome personalities? Because they have to. I've met tons of cool and funny fat chicks. They have to have awesome personalities, too. Imagine that. A girl whose dating value that has been lowered significantly is awesome to be around otherwise.

It's the same thing as a short guy who plays 3 different instruments phenomenally, makes a solid six figures as a lawyer, and has impeccable fashion sense. He's gotta make up for that lost height!
I understand where ur coming from. Your saying if she didnt have a kid , she'd probably be reckless out here? Thats all a possibility.....But From what I know of her she was always sweet. her moms, her family, her friends, they all like to be around her She had a scholarship and is a church going girl. she's never been a partier from what i know. And she doesnt drink from what i know.....but like u said maybe the baby changed her into a responsible sweet woman. who knows
 

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Im in a similar place breh, but worse, this young lady I'm feeling has an 8 year old :damn: No father around, dude doesnt even visit his son. Now the normal human in me is like man I dont know, an 8 year old isnt going to respect me as his father figure if I end up being with his mom, but the Muslim in me makes me not worry about it because in Islam is is very important to take care of an orphaned child (father less, mother less, etc), I dont know breh, its a long shot :yeshrug:
 

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Why do single mothers have such loving, awesome personalities? Because they have to. I've met tons of cool and funny fat chicks. They have to have awesome personalities, too. Imagine that. A girl whose dating value that has been lowered significantly is awesome to be around otherwise.

It's the same thing as a short guy who plays 3 different instruments phenomenally, makes a solid six figures as a lawyer, and has impeccable fashion sense. He's gotta make up for that lost height!

the thing is its all a front til they draw you in. The sex is :noah:, great loving personality, you start to think damn i got a good one :heh:
 

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Im in a similar place breh, but worse, this young lady I'm feeling has an 8 year old :damn: No father around, dude doesnt even visit his son. Now the normal human in me is like man I dont know, an 8 year old isnt going to respect me as his father figure if I end up being with his mom, but the Muslim in me makes me not worry about it because in Islam is is very important to take care of an orphaned child (father less, mother less, etc), I dont know breh, its a long shot :yeshrug:

DONT DO IT breh

if the father aint around not even caring about her son, what kind of dudes was she allowing to bust in her raw, poor choice in men

o the other hand if the father is around hes tapping

you cant avoid the L :damn:
 

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It sounds like you still love her. Do you love your fiance? Who do you love more? Why are you engaged to someone when you love some one else? I would be very angry if was the fiance in this situation. This is making me:sad:. I wouldn't want to marry some one who is in love with someone else, and I wouldn't get married to someone if I was in love with someone else. Does your fiance know that you still speak to her? Does she know about her?
 

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It sounds like you still love her. Do you love your fiance? Who do you love more? Why are you engaged to someone when you love some one else? I would be very angry if was the fiance in this situation. This is making me:sad:. I wouldn't want to marry some one who is in love with someone else, and I wouldn't get married to someone if I was in love with someone else. Does your fiance know that you still speak to her? Does she know about her?

this is the thing, i'll always feel like Kay should have been the absolute first one that i married and started a family with. I'l always feel like that. I'll feel like that until im wrinkled and gray.

But regarding my fiance, lets call her Maritza...I love Maritza alot, shes fly and and smart and very family oriented . I love all that about her. I'll never break up with her because we're a match. WE NEVER ARGUE, WE NEVER FIGHT...we do have little small disputes and debates but it never gets heated. Those are things are I like .

But to answer your question. i think I love Kay just slightly more than Maritza. That doesnt mean that I dont give my all to her because I do. I smile when i think about both of them. Maritza is a wonderful girl and if I had never met Kay , Maritza would be my 1,2 and 3.


i dont really speak to her like that ...just an email here and there a couple times throughout the last couple of years
 

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this is the thing, i'll always feel like Kay should have been the absolute first one that i married and started a family with. I'l always feel like that. I'll feel like that until im wrinkled and gray.

But regarding my fiance, lets call her Maritza...I love Maritza alot, shes fly and and smart and very family oriented . I love all that about her. I'll never break up with her because we're a match. WE NEVER ARGUE, WE NEVER FIGHT...we do have little small disputes and debates but it never gets heated. Those are things are I like .

But to answer your question. i think I love Kay just slightly more than Maritza. That doesnt mean that I dont give my all to her because I do. I smile when i think about both of them. Maritza is a wonderful girl and if I had never met Kay , Maritza would be my 1,2 and 3.


i dont really speak to her like that ...just an email here and there a couple times throughout the last couple of years

:facepalm::sad: :no:


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