KinksandCoils
African American Queen
What woman can u just straight up break up with...not tell them why, and yet talk to them again and she doesn't ask 
When I was 20/21. I fell for this pretty girl with an amazing personality.There was only one problem
- Thread starter Brandon M.
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so he could never be part of your family?
It takes a village to raise a child
the fukk nikka?
the only kids i would raise are my nieces and nephew if my sister n brother in law were to die
Brandon M.
City of Angels
my thought process was that he had his father, how can i start a family like that.so he could never be part of your family?
It takes a village to raise a child
the fukk nikka?
you love your fiance more than kay? 
Love is supposed to be unconditional, instead u left her because she had a son that you barely even saw and was planning on leaving her the whole time, u never loved her
U coulda easily just had a kid with her if u wanted your own kids
I hope youre sharing the one youre with now and uoeno
Simp!
My thought is you did the right thing but you obviously love or like her still maybe less than your wife, though. I share the same convictions but it is what it is.
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
you should close that chapter in your life and move on with your fiance and build from there.let that shyt go.
Brandon M.
City of Angels
this is the thing, i'll always feel like Kay should have been the absolute first one that i married and started a family with. I'l always feel like that. I'll feel like that until im wrinkled and gray.you love your fiance more than kay?
But regarding my fiance, lets call her Maritza...I love Maritza alot, shes fly and and smart and very family oriented . I love all that about her. I'll never break up with her because we're a match. WE NEVER ARGUE, WE NEVER FIGHT...we do have little small disputes and debates but it never gets heated. Those are things are I like .
But to answer your question. i think I love Kay just slightly more than Maritza. That doesnt mean that I dont give my all to her because I do. I smile when i think about both of them. Maritza is a wonderful girl and if I had never met Kay , Maritza would be my 1,2 and 3.
Brandon M.
City of Angels
u went through the same thing? details , ages, time frames
Brandon M.
City of Angels
u say "let go" like we're not humans and dont have the conviction of emotions.
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
its unhealthy for your relationships to let those feelings linger.
Not to the extent as you but I've had a few girls that would have made great wives with less pressure. One is a college girl I've cheated on a few times. She is from St. Kitts. We were different but too different but she was spicy (personality) but docile. We broke up 2011. I broke up with her cuz I thought I got another chick pregnant. End up not being mines and it made room for my son's mother and I to give it another shot.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
fukk any nikka that trolls this thread. This is some real shyt 
I don't even know what to add, but damn, life is a beautiful struggle
I don't even know what to add, but damn, life is a beautiful struggle
Brandon M.
City of Angels
i dont have that in me to say "fukk her" ..........i can say it ...but it'll always be in the back of my head...i wont let it effect my and maritza...Maritza get the world from me and vice versa