When did black men and women start beefing?

[marcuz]

No. Please show me those threads. Again, I stopped frequenting LSA because of the black woman on black woman negativity.

you know i'm not about to go digging through that site to find examples of their bullshyt :luke:

edit: here's a quick gem:

http://www.lipstickalley.com/f4/do-you-not-find-black-men-attractive-410842/

 

[BlvdBrawler]

There is no beef man, just some bitter ass youtubers blaming each other for their short comings. I never had beef with my sistas

We need to start closing threads once the correct answer is achieved.

+rep

 

[Canada Goose]

Since the 90s, TLC made songs sumblically dissing black men like this song...



Someone made a male version of this song dissing black women....

 

[OPTiMO]

that's because they've always assumed white men would shut them down. things are changing in the social media era

I had that thought. Today at work I was getting a soda from the soda machine and it tried to play me for my change so I pressed the coin button and they dropped out. Black chicks walks up to use it as I'm walking away and I tell her "watch out, the machine will try to hustle you"... She looked at my kinda crazy like huh what huh?... Then I repeated it and she smiled and was like oh thanks.

I think black chicks be so invested with black dudes they not really worried about other races of dudes tho.

 

[SouthernBelle]

you know i'm not about to go digging through that site to find examples of their bullshyt :luke:

Well you are trying to tell me what I saw and how frequent those threads are...I thought it would be easy.

 

[Will Ross]

I had that thought. Today at work I was getting a soda from the soda machine and it tried to play me for my change so I pressed the coin button and they dropped out. Black chicks walks up to use it as I'm walking away and I tell her "watch out, the machine will try to hustle you"... She looked at my kinda crazy like huh what huh?... Then I repeated it and she smiled and was like oh thanks.

I think black chicks be so invested with black dudes they not really worried about other races of dudes tho.

Trust me you talking to her made her day. She went back and told all her girls that white boy optimo was flirting with me.

 

[Yakno1]

you know i'm not about to go digging through that site to find examples of their bullshyt :luke:

edit: here's a quick gem:

Do you not find black men attractive?

you don't have to look far on the first page you will find everything u need

The Interracial Relationship Forum -


Black girl + interracial dating = WINNING
White Men See The Beauty In Black Women, Black Men Don't
Are black men starting to lose and black women are starting to get a clue?

 

[SouthernBelle]

why wont you address LSA being pretty big on black men bashing and white man worship.

Again...I don't see a lot of black male bashing so I'm not going to address what I don't see (address it yourself). On another note, I have addressed the women on LSA plenty of times who are quick to dog out other black women.

Many of those women think just like you...I thought you guys would get along.

 

[King Poetic]

Look Ladies and i'm going to speak the truth.. Black men have NO HATE what so ever against black women.. black men have a HATE FOR WHAT BLACK WOMEN WANT BLACK MEN TO BE IN THERE EYES..

anything a black man does he get ridicule for. and i mean the good brothers who are working 24/7, 2 jobs, paying rent, paying car notes and trying to live his life with no argument or drama in his life.. for example

1. A black man don't have kids.. what he get label in many sistas eyes ?? he either gay, damage or he must like white women

2. a black man got a nice car and he's not a doctor, lawyer, athlete, rapper and he get label a drug dealer.. why i can't be just smart about handling money?? wait let me guess that's a white man thing be responsible with money

3. a black man travel out the country.. why u leaving the country to find one of them dominican hookers or africa women who obey they man... why can't a black man just go out the country and enjoy life and learn other cultures? wait only white men do that.

All in All the beef between black men and women is really beef about WHAT EACH OTHER WANT THE OTHER TO BE...

However Black women really need to know there role as being a woman and let the man be a man..But so many sistas deal with crackheads, broke, no car having brothers when she come across a brother who's do something with his life she still feel like she's the man

 

[marcuz]

Well you are trying to tell me what I saw and how frequent those threads are...I thought it would be easy.

actually, it is pretty easy

I understand Why black women give up on black men

Ladies: Do You Consider Black Men A Prize?

Why are Black men so single?


Are black men starting to lose and black women are starting to get a clue?

 

[Blown Moon]

when the roles in the household started to change in the 90's when corporations started to close manufacturing plants and thanks to the white media taking over major black networks from tv and even radio.. look at essense magazine.. a black magazine run by whites.. smh

I agree with that being a major part of the problem.

I think a lot of brothes are just fed up with the Years of taking all the blame. it has always been a war on black us but around the 70's black women joined in.

What makes you say that?

I have to disagree.

The women I know who would've been in their primes during that time aren't on that tip. I see and hear about women in their late 20's early 30's that go hard on us.

Good point.


So much value is placed on the romantic interaction between black males and females, as if that's the extent of what love is...That sort of thinking does a disservice to Love.

Frederick Douglass, an abolitionist and arguably one of the most important figures to advance the cause for black independence, married a white woman the 2nd time around...but I dare someone to say he didn't love all black people, including black women.

Romantic love is such a narrow marker of what love is. Unfortunately white and black women -- and whomever else in any other race -- think that the expression of romantic love is the end all be all of what love is.

I've seen black dudes with black girlfriends/wives who've never dated outside their race screw over other black people, women included, just as much as anyone else...and not give a flying fukk about niccas.

That ain't love...but they married a sister, right?


FOH.


People need to just stop it.

I said earlier that I don't care about interracial dating, nor do I think it's a sign of dislike towards your own race.

The problem I have is the willingness to tear each other down that I've encountered. If you haven't seen or heard about this in real life, great.

That still doesn't mean you can dismiss what I've seen.

Please leave my thread.

 

[SouthernBelle]

actually, it is pretty easy

I understand Why black women give up on black men

Ladies: Do You Consider Black Men A Prize?

Why are Black men so single?


Are black men starting to lose and black women are starting to get a clue?

You are the one who said you wouldn't look for them. So are you going to address them?

 

[OPTiMO]

Trust me you talking to her made her day. She went back and told all her girls that white boy optimo was flirting with me.

Bout to bag me a PABG



That don't roll off the tongue quite as well

 

[Yakno1]

However Black women really need to know there role as being a woman and let the man be a man

when she come across a brother who's do something with his life she still feel like she's the man

 

[marcuz]

You are the one who said you wouldn't look for them. So are you going to address them?

address them, how? i'm showing you examples of threads on there that should be considered "black man bashing"