Unfortunately, maybe it's because of racism or non-black men generally don't find MOST black women attractive. If more non-black men kicked it to Black women. Black women would drop their supposed "loyalty" in a second.
Just because a lot of Black women date Black men. That doesn't necessarily mean. We are her main preference. A lot of the strive in relationships between black men and black women. You may have a brainwashed Black person. That might prefer to date white. But they couldn't for whatever reason. So they take it out on their Black partner. Or worse. Instill a sense of self-hate in their children.
I'm all of for Blacks that prefer to date out. They should just do so. The more Blacks that are together out of genuine love and desire. The better it will be for the community.
Great points made. Here in the UK black women used to be seriously angry at black men in interracial relationships, as a young boy and in my adolescence I witnessed many a black man with white women get cussed out in the street by irate black women, occasionally even leading to violence against the white woman. However as white men and other races have started showing more interest in black women in recent years, their mouths have been become firmly shut about this "issue". Black women's "loyalty" to us is largely just a facade, one of the greatest lies ever told. In fact it is quite normal and relatively understandable for women to prefer the dominant race in the society they live in due to image and economics i.e white men in the West. Viewing black women's profiles on dating sites it's quite rare to find one that says "black men only" but I find a lot of "Not into black guys", "white guys only", or "race not an issue" which is mostly code for "I don't like black guys but if I say this explicitly black men will send me hateful messages"
I even read one that said "No Ninjas, thanks"
I do appreciate that black people in the USA have a very different history to us in other countries and that may cause black women to exclude white men from their dating pool but we can't deny that the desire is there
Black men should most definitely not feel guilty about preferring non-black women. I just take issue with:
- Those of both genders who feel the need to bash the opposite gender within their ethnicity to justify dating out, especially those who do it publicly in the presence of non-black people, it's just a really bad look
- Those who put others of a different race on a pedestal and accept very low standards from them. I'm tired of seeing attractive black men with HAWGs and well dressed attractive black women with chavs
In response to the thread title question, my preference is:
- Black
- Half black mixed race
- Middle Eastern
- East Asians
- Non-hairy South East Asians
- White women
- Latinas
We don't have many Latinas here but most are old, poor and
hence the low ranking.
I'd prefer to marry a British black woman but part of me has accepted that black love is all but dead in the UK. Maybe I will find a wife in the motherland
Give me a nice Queen from Zimbabwe, Zambia, South Africa, Cape Verde or Namibia.
I got love for my Asian queens though!
People that have a racial preference (especially if it's a race other than your own) creep me out to be honest.
