What's The "POINT" Of Having A Kid If You AREN'T Married? (I DON'T Get It)

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Marriage ain't mean a damn thing fukk out of here with these fantasies :mjlol:

my sister in law's husband just pulled a 180 3 days before Christmas and ruined their 3 kid's Christmas. nikka just just fukk em and left to some home wrecker he worked with. And left with a scene, threatening to break all of their presents and shyt:francis:

You don't need marriage to have a strong family strong-hold in my opinion
See, that means he's a lousy husband. Hell, I can take common-law marriage. However, just playing around does NOT create a productive family structure in anyway, shape, or form.
 

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97% of kids are mistakes :francis::russ:
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Breh, think before you post.
You don't need to be married to have a family structure
This. Pay attention OP. Being married is not synonymous with having a strong family structure.
I got a cousin who has been with his girl 9 years. They have never broken up and never gotten married.
Then I got buddy who married a bytch after six weeks. They cheat on each other constantly.
In which of these households do you think a child would have a stronger family structure.
 

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I got 2 cousins and 2 homeboys who don't have that piece of paper but been with their significante.others for for years, no outside kids.
You also forgetting common law marriages
Read my comment above regarding common-law. I'm mainly touching on parents who don't stay and smash just for the fun of it. Then, a kid gets brought into the world.
 

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I would counter that with, what's the point of getting married if you're not trying to raise a family?
Then, why would a kid be brought into the world? These things happen when you have unprotected sex. Also, sometimes women don't take birthcontrol. Strange shyt can happen.
 

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This. Pay attention OP. Being married is not synonymous with having a strong family structure.
I got a cousin who has been with his girl 9 years. They have never broken up and never gotten married.
Then I got buddy who married a bytch after six weeks. They cheat on each other constantly.
In which of these households do you think a child would have a stronger family structure.
Problem was dude was with a girl for six weeks that he didn't know and vice versa. Bad analogy breh :francis:
 

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Wanting children is natural for a woman. Our bodies prepare 3 weeks out the month for it for at least three decades of our life. Not everyone will get married and marriage still doesn't mean a guy will be a good father. I believe children should be carefully planned for but waiting until marriage just isn't realistic.
 

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Then, why would a kid be brought into the world? These things happen when you have unprotected sex. Also, sometimes women don't take birthcontrol. Strange shyt can happen.
I'm not necessarily disagreeing with the original post. However, some people do raise kids together without ever have gotten married. At the same time, what's the point of getting married if your family consists of just you and your spouse? Why do people get married after 10+ years in a relationship? Does it really take that long to figure out she's the one?
 
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