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I'd like to model after my parents My dad basically paid all the big shyt(mortgage, car, expensice household items, repairs etc).

My moms took care of the rest: school shopping and tuition for me and my brother, food, household items, everyones hygiene items, cell phone bills etc

They went half on vacations

Been working for them for 30 years now...........
back when your parents were dating/getting married a man could afford a house and car out of highschool...its 2014.
 

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shocking men are showing interest in you, men show interest in anything thats a puzzy
welcome to the real world sunshine.

I know your working with mostly cacs and will prob bedwench soon won't you :sas1:

yeah men typically show interest in women they want to date also but I guess you're trying to prove point.

:yawn: @ the bold

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Average American isn't making $80K/year. Unless you work at an engineering company, a software company, etc., you aren't surrounded by people making over $80K/year. You may know a few here and there, but you aren't surrounded by them. I work in such an environment in which the average employee makes more than $100K. I'm one of the only Black faces.

I never said anything about Average American. Whenever there's a visit from our corporate manager (like 3 times a month) all the managers in Nor Cal come to my store, I also have regular meetings with different store managers, mostly men.

http://www.glassdoor.com/Salary/Koh...aries-EJI_IE592.0,6_KO7,20_IL.21,31_IM747.htm

average salary for a Kohl's store manager in my area. :ld:
 

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I'd like to model after my parents My dad basically paid all the big shyt(mortgage, car, expensice household items, repairs etc).

My moms took care of the rest: school shopping and tuition for me and my brother, food, household items, everyones hygiene items, cell phone bills etc

They went half on vacations

Been working for them for 30 years now...........

did your mom have a kid out of wedlock though :sas1:

low blow :kony:

the life our parents and grandparents lived is dead.

back in teh day you could drop out of hs or graduate college and get a job that allowed you to buy a house or rent a good spot. Oh your daughter just graduated just bring her in on monday she can help out around here THOSE DAYS ARE OVER.
 

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Men show all attractive women attention Sunshine :snoop: You have a vagina. Men ain't women. You been on here along time. You should have learn some things.

Most men ain't shyt and the rest kinda ain't shyt.
nikkas will show interest to anyone who they find attractive or if they aren't attractive, will give them play or money if they don't have it.
Men don't care about your income more times than not.
The reason why education relates to success for ya'll is because a lot of ya'll get money via education while men get it however they see fit. Some carpenters, builders, plumbers, stock market guys, etc. That reminds me, I have class and a book to read.

The idea of Tupac in a business suit is getting an exciting on edge man who works in corporate America and handle himself in a business setting which is NEXT to impossible for men while women can do the hold different sides of the face personality thing with ease while men can't but women seem to want a combination when men just aren't capable of it like women. A confusing of not understanding men that some women have. Not saying you Juicy but some women have that issue.

why do you guys always do this? I know men show all attractive women attention, I'm not stupid. I don't need to learn anything from here to know that, it's common sense. I also know that I have NO PROBLEM getting a man to like me beyond the way I look. You guys might not care about income but these dudes care. They make enough money to where if they get divorced, their bank accounts are getting emptied but having a wife & family is a big deal. So they want to make sure they marry a woman on their level or close to it. But they're too old for me, the only one I would consider giving a chance (if I was single) is this guy that looks like luke evans :ohlawd:

I'm not interested in the tupac in a business suit dudes or whatever. I've stated multiple times, I'm into the goofy/nice guys. I don't need a guy to be exciting or on edge.
 

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Males who use the term "gold digger" to refer to a woman shouldn't be on any woman's radar as far as marriage and relationships. Those are bottom-of-the-barrel type dudes, and the funny thing is, a lot of the time they don't even make shyt, but are the first one worried that a woman is going to try to use them or take them for the few little pennies they do have. When you hear a dude talking about "gold-diggers this" and "gold diggers that" and they're not clearing a MINIMUM of $100k per year, run far away. (And keep running until you get to one at any income level who wouldn't dare call any relationship-minded woman a gold digger.) I get so tired of dudes with their little Verizon wireless or McCubicle jobs talking about gold-digging I could scream.

Professional, well-raised, classy men of means generally don't label women that way, because they've been socialized properly and know that having a family (wife, kids) takes money, that a woman will have to make sacrifices for the sake of her husband and children, and know that she deserves to be compensated and should feel secure that her husband will be able to be a great provider as she dedicates herself to being a
good wife and mother. I have my theories on why so many broke-ass males go around accusing women who want good providers of being gold-diggers, but the truth is: real family men know, enjoy, and love being the provider.

Again, I feel so sorry for single young women coming up today. Little boys these days are trash. Just sorry as hell!

bytch stop being stupid. there sooo many girls who sole goal is to golddig

fukk outta here
 

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Men show all attractive women attention Sunshine :snoop: You have a vagina. Men ain't women. You been on here along time. You should have learn some things.

Most men ain't shyt and the rest kinda ain't shyt.
nikkas will show interest to anyone who they find attractive or if they aren't attractive, will give them play or money if they don't have it.
Men don't care about your income more times than not.
The reason why education relates to success for ya'll is because a lot of ya'll get money via education while men get it however they see fit. Some carpenters, builders, plumbers, stock market guys, etc. That reminds me, I have class and a book to read.

The idea of Tupac in a business suit is getting an exciting on edge man who works in corporate America and handle himself in a business setting which is NEXT to impossible for men while women can do the hold different sides of the face personality thing with ease while men can't but women seem to want a combination when men just aren't capable of it like women. A confusing of not understanding men that some women have. Not saying you Juicy but some women have that issue.

Most women who want an edgy nikka who works in corporate America probably don't work in corporate America.

Edgy nikkas get thrown in the bushes after the first interview. Very few Black men in corporate America. Most are cornballs.

White HR managers and hiring managers don't hire nikkas who pose a threat to their manhood. 6'3" Idris Elba-type nikkas are a rarity in corporate America, brehettes.
 

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you're trying so hard to make a point that you don't even realize that I'm right. :mjlol:

how are you right?
your so gullible, its like what I always say women can't tell the guys who just want to smash and dash and guys who actually want a meaningful relationship.

Your the type fo broad who makes a pof account gets 100 msgs and thinks all these guys want to date me and get to know me, no they just want your vagina.

grow up brehette
 

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why do you guys always do this? I know men show all attractive women attention, I'm not stupid. I don't need to learn anything from here to know that, it's common sense. I also know that I have NO PROBLEM getting a man to like me beyond the way I look. You guys might not care about income but these dudes care. They make enough money to where if they get divorced, their bank accounts are getting emptied but having a wife & family is a big deal. So they want to make sure they marry a woman on their level or close to it. But they're too old for me, the only one I would consider giving a chance (if I was single) is this guy that looks like luke evans :ohlawd:

I'm not interested in the tupac in a business suit dudes or whatever. I've stated multiple times, I'm into the goofy/nice guys. I don't need a guy to be exciting or on edge.
A woman can empty out a man's pockets making equal as well. In fact, she's less dependent and has less spare time for the most part to a lot of men. The type of man I am, I need a women who's ambitious like me if not more to make me see that I gotta get better each and everyday. That drives me. But for a lot of men, that whole equal thing men don't really do. Usually you see men especially white men trying to marry up in the ranks to get a fortune. Men only marry for money when it's substantial compared to them. Like he got 120k and she come a trust fund in the mil. That's why a lot of Black men ain't known for marrying up like that. I don't know who came up with this idea of this:

They make enough money to where if they get divorced, their bank accounts are getting emptied but having a wife & family is a big deal.

I never heard it mention once with any man and I've heard it a ton with women. It's not these dudes on here, it's dudes everywhere Sunshine. For real, you disconnected from men. Don't say you heard it from your dad cause sometimes we say anything because you mean the world to us but as a girlfriend or wife, you better have it together like a man better have it together.
 

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Most women who want an edgy nikka who works in corporate America probably don't work in corporate America.

Edgy nikkas get thrown in the bushes after the first interview. Very few Black men in corporate America. Most are cornballs.

White HR managers and hiring managers don't hire nikkas who pose a threat to their manhood.

in my company of 900 there are only 4 black men, one works in the mail room, one works in it, one works in sales and then there's me. I ain't a cornball but I was hired by a female manager whose daughter has a biracial kid :myman:
 
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