Whats the ideal salary you want your man to have before you will get married on LSA...

[Desirous]

You can maintain YOUR lifestyle with YOUR money.

Why do you need him to make the same amount so you can maintain YOUR lifestyle?

I don't need his money.

But, if you're with someone who makes significantly less, then you'll have to carry the weight or have to meet halfway and downgrade your living situation based on what you BOTH can afford.

I'm not trying to upgrade on someone else's money, but I don't want someone to have to rely on mine either.

 

[mamba]

Women are making more money than ever. But, some shyt never changes. They still think:

Wife's money = Wife's money

Husband's money = Entire Family's money

That's why they want a nikka to make X amount of money. They want to be able to maintain their lifestyles on his dime.

If there were truly about equality, Wife + Husband Money = Family Money

 

[Rockstar Mom]

What are you going to pay?

everything else

 

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

chivalry is dead brehs we gonna turn into japan where we got dudes handing out resumes to females at the bar

 

[mamba]

I don't need his money.

But, if you're with someone who makes significantly less, then you'll have to carry the weight or have to meet halfway and downgrade your living situation based on what you BOTH can afford.

I'm not trying to upgrade on someone else's money, but I don't want someone to have to rely on mine either.

Why then does he have to make "at least" what you make?

Your combined salary, even if he makes $10K less than you, doesn't represent a significant downgrade in quality of life.

 

[#1 pick]

Women are making more money than ever. But, some shyt never changes. They still think:

Wife's money = Wife's money

Husband's money = Entire Family's money

That's why they want a nikka to make X amount of money. They want to be able to maintain their lifestyles on his dime.

If there were truly about equality, Wife + Husband Money = Family Money

This is where you see why a lot of women today are garbage. It's when money is the topic of conversation. Some show their ass and awfully as well.

When you are woman, you really just need to answer this simply like this, while I have goals for the future, I am willing to work with a man as long as he's putting in the work to better himself all around. It covers all important bases but if you don't feel that way and you really think the way you think like some on this thread. No man gonna commit. NO man!

This is the equivalent to asking for ass too fast for a woman. This is a critical part of dealing with men and believing it. Not just saying it.

 

[mamba]

everything else

Like what? You're going to buy groceries? Pay for car service, vacations, etc.?

 

[Ashley Banks]

the female deflect like always, keep reaching for that tupac in a business suit making 100k who will wait for marriage and only be faithful to you brehette

lmfao wtf tupac in a business suit? YALL made that shyt up. I've said tons of times I'm not into those types of dudes. I'm surrounded by guys making over 80k a year and they're not hiding their interest.

 

[Desirous]

Why then does he have to make "at least" what you make?

Your combined salary, even if he makes $10K less than you, doesn't represent a significant downgrade in quality of life.

I didn't say he has to, I said it would be nice.

 

[MikelArteta]

lmfao wtf tupac in a business suit? YALL made that shyt up. I've said tons of times I'm not into those types of dudes. I'm surrounded by guys making over 80k a year and they're not hiding their interest.

shocking men are showing interest in you, men show interest in anything thats a puzzy
welcome to the real world sunshine.

I know your working with mostly cacs and will prob bedwench soon won't you

 

[MikelArteta]

chivalry is dead brehs we gonna turn into japan where we got dudes handing out resumes to females at the bar

wrong in japan its the other way around, men have shunned marriage and relationships
women basically beg and actually pay to date guys

cant wait till north america is like that
the marriage rate is already declining, the hookup generation is here, women have dug thier own grave.

 

[mamba]

lmfao wtf tupac in a business suit? YALL made that shyt up. I've said tons of times I'm not into those types of dudes. I'm surrounded by guys making over 80k a year and they're not hiding their interest.

Average American isn't making $80K/year. Unless you work at an engineering company, a software company, etc., you aren't surrounded by people making over $80K/year. You may know a few here and there, but you aren't surrounded by them. I work in such an environment in which the average employee makes more than $100K. I'm one of the only Black faces.

 

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

wrong in japan its the other way around, men have shunned marriage and relationships
women basically beg and actually pay to date guys

cant wait till north america is like that
the marriage rate is already declining, the hookup generation is here, women have dug thier own grave.

well its either china or japan where women outnumber men and men have to give women resumes to go out on a date with them, too lazy to look up articles but i saw it somewhere

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Like what? You're going to buy groceries? Pay for car service, vacations, etc.?

I'd like to model after my parents My dad basically paid all the big shyt(mortgage, car, expensice household items, repairs etc).

My moms took care of the rest: school shopping and tuition for me and my brother, food, household items, everyones hygiene items, cell phone bills etc

They went half on vacations

Been working for them for 30 years now...........

 

[#1 pick]

lmfao wtf tupac in a business suit? YALL made that shyt up. I've said tons of times I'm not into those types of dudes. I'm surrounded by guys making over 80k a year and they're not hiding their interest.

Men show all attractive women attention Sunshine You have a vagina. Men ain't women. You been on here along time. You should have learn some things.

Most men ain't shyt and the rest kinda ain't shyt.
nikkas will show interest to anyone who they find attractive or if they aren't attractive, will give them play or money if they don't have it.
Men don't care about your income more times than not.
The reason why education relates to success for ya'll is because a lot of ya'll get money via education while men get it however they see fit. Some carpenters, builders, plumbers, stock market guys, etc. That reminds me, I have class and a book to read.

The idea of Tupac in a business suit is getting an exciting on edge man who works in corporate America and handle himself in a business setting which is NEXT to impossible for men while women can do the hold different sides of the face personality thing with ease while men can't but women seem to want a combination when men just aren't capable of it like women. A confusing of not understanding men that some women have. Not saying you Juicy but some women have that issue.