What yall think about black men going to Brazil?

[DarkHorse23]

A lame is a lame regardless. Someone struggling over here isn't going to turn into "that dude" just because his geographical location changed.

Well you're entitled to your opinion, but I've spoken to many men who travel and they've told me different. So

 

[Elle Driver]

Speaking for a man's perspective I don't think American women care about if a man is well to do or not . Today American women only care about one things and that's looks and everything else is secondary. I can't comment on if African women's views are warped because I've never met one. I'll have to take your word for what it is when it comes to that one.

I'm American and I definitely care if a man is well to do. It means if shyt gets tough he can take care of the household.

As for African women, my mother is African and she also lives in Africa for six months out of the year and they think all Americans are living lavish.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I'm American and I definitely care if a man is well to do. It means if shyt gets tough he can take care of the household.

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Most of you only care about those things once you get older. In your young prime years all women especially AA women care about is looks and swag. It is what it is unfortunately.

 

[Elle Driver]

Most of you only care about those things once you get older. In your young prime years all women especially AA women care about is looks and swag. It is what it is unfortunately.

When you're broke and young your standards isn't as high.

 

[philmonroe]

I disagree. Men are going to other countries because like women want attention so do men. Men want to be acknowledged, validated and made to be important as well. In America the average black man doesn't feel the love and that's why he is expanding his options to Africa, Brazil, DR, ect. Also in other countries the women place more importance of a man being a good provider ect, while in America it's the opposite. Women care more about looks in North America above anything else. In America a man thought of as lame, can go to Africa and be considered highly desirable because the priorities are different.

So you agree with another point I made that dudes can't cut it here so they have to leave the country to get play. Its the same dynamic in America its just easier to achieve in cheaper places. Women in America place more importance on looks because if you think about it most people are equal on the looks scale so why not go for the better looking person? You act like if you pick guy a over guy b in most cases its going to be some big differences from a financial stand point. Only time people seem to want to mess with unattractive people is when they have too and that's both genders. How many unattractive chicks you giving play to over attractive ones? Everybody has the same priorities IMO but I will admit I'm talking more so from other experience I trust on top of what I believed before hand too.

 

[philmonroe]

Does corniness translate across cultures? That is the real question

Yeah always people are more similar than they think. It just manifests itself in different ways regarding the corniness. Some stuff universally corny but often times you can looks at cats and can tell if they corny or not. It don't always work but it works often enough lol and the same with corny chicks too.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Yeah always people are more similar than they think. It just manifests itself in different ways regarding the corniness. Some stuff universally corny but often times you can looks at cats and can tell if they corny or not. It don't always work but it works often enough lol and the same with corny chicks too.

Seriously it's like High school in our community. In your opinion define "corny" or " lame" to me. To me it seems if black man or woman deviates in ANY way from what the masses do they are ostracized. SMH it's sad you gotta follow the herd to be accepted

 

[DarkHorse23]

So you agree with another point I made that dudes can't cut it here so they have to leave the country to get play. Its the same dynamic in America its just easier to achieve in cheaper places. Women in America place more importance on looks because if you think about it most people are equal on the looks scale so why not go for the better looking person? You act like if you pick guy a over guy b in most cases its going to be some big differences from a financial stand point. Only time people seem to want to mess with unattractive people is when they have too and that's both genders. How many unattractive chicks you giving play to over attractive ones? Everybody has the same priorities IMO but I will admit I'm talking more so from other experience I trust on top of what I believed before hand too.

In some cases yes but there are some men who do fine with women in the states and still travel outside of the country to meet women. Hey if that's what you need to do to find happiness then that's what you gotta do. I might end up doing the same when I get older. Black women don't just exist in North America. They everywhere.

 

[philmonroe]

Seriously it's like High school in our community. In your opinion define "corny" or " lame" to me. To me it seems if black man or woman deviates in ANY way from what the masses do they are ostracized. SMH it's sad you gotta follow the herd to be accepted

This ain't new though. Don't know why some dudes act like it is male/female. If you do things that aren't the norm you going to get talked about at times. Ir dating, being gay/tranny, dressing way different from what the norm is where you're at, money/education/looks/etc not up to snuff to peers. You see it on here hell why wouldn't you think dating works the same way? You can be yourself just gotta realize people going to possibly make fun of that and be comfortable enough with yourself to roll with it.

In some cases yes but there are some men who do fine with women in the states and still travel outside of the country to meet women. Hey if that's what you need to do to find happiness then that's what you gotta do. I might end up doing the same when I get older. Black women don't just exist in North America. They everywhere.

I speak in generalities esp online and from just the little stuff Ive saw on shows like that going to brazil documentary most of,them dudes weren't doing fine in the states. Its always outliers in everything but I don't focus on them cause they not the norm. I don't care if they do it because you have to be happy I only wish dudes would stop with the weak excuses. That's the shyt I don't like but outside of,that do what you.

 

[DarkHorse23]

This ain't new though. Don't know why some dudes act like it is male/female. If you do things that aren't the norm you going to get talked about at times. Ir dating, being gay/tranny, dressing way different from what the norm is where you're at, money/education/looks/etc not up to snuff to peers. You see it on here hell why wouldn't you think dating works the same way? You can be yourself just gotta realize people going to possibly make fun of that and be comfortable enough with yourself to roll with it.

I speak in generalities esp online and from just the little stuff Ive saw on shows like that going to brazil documentary most of,them dudes weren't doing fine in the states. Its always outliers in everything but I don't focus on them cause they not the norm. I don't care if they do it because you have to be happy I only wish dudes would stop with the weak excuses. That's the shyt I don't like but outside of,that do what you.

What weak excuses are you referring to?

 

[philmonroe]

What weak excuses are you referring to?

Man you know that bullshyt dudes say for going over there to get girls. That shyt is weak and mainly dudes from cats online. You'd get laughed out the building saying you had to goto a different country because girls aren't this, that, and the other IRL. Well at least in my circle

 

[bcrusaderw]

I've spoken to men dating foreign women and generally speaking they are much more feminine, friendly and down to earth according to what i've been told. American women could learn a lot from foreign women......

Foreign males aren't entitled windbags who expect submission without offering anything in return.

 

[DarkHorse23]

Foreign males aren't entitled windbags who expect submission without offering anything in return.

Don't start with me. You open up this can of ass whopping and there is no turning back. Walk away is my suggestion for you

 

[DarkHorse23]

Man you know that bullshyt dudes say for going over there to get girls. That shyt is weak and mainly dudes from cats online. You'd get laughed out the building saying you had to goto a different country because girls aren't this, that, and the other IRL. Well at least in my circle

Alright bruh....

 

[philmonroe]

Alright bruh....

You could have saved that stupid shyt bruh fukk did you expect?