do these men help the afro-brazilians? do community service? donate to schools/scholarships? invest in businesses? i rarely hear about any care for their community, so i look down on it for that reason. it seems cac-ish to exploit the situation like that. besides feeling bad for the women idgaf.
What yall think about black men going to Brazil?
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or the money for that
DarkHorse23
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Less than 5%. Black men need to do better. Get those passports and see the world, i know i am.
DarkHorse23
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I don't, until topics like this one is posted LOL
It's like a fantasy to men to imagine themselves going and scooping up a foreign chick that will cater to their needs, but like someone else mentioned, how many of them have passports? Or know how to communicate in the most basic form of the language?
They treat these chicks like unicorns, without actually having any previous interactions or even experience dealing with them
I've spoken to men dating foreign women and generally speaking they are much more feminine, friendly and down to earth according to what i've been told. American women could learn a lot from foreign women......
That's awesome. My family is actually from Colombia, I deal with other Afro-Latinos on a daily basis, and the same shyt they deal with from American women is the same shyt they deal with from foreign ones.
A lame is a lame regardless. Someone struggling over here isn't going to turn into "that dude" just because his geographical location changed.
DarkHorse23
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I disagree. Men are going to other countries because like women want attention so do men. Men want to be acknowledged, validated and made to be important as well. In America the average black man doesn't feel the love and that's why he is expanding his options to Africa, Brazil, DR, ect. Also in other countries the women place more importance of a man being a good provider ect, while in America it's the opposite. Women care more about looks in North America above anything else. In America a man thought of as lame, can go to Africa and be considered highly desirable because the priorities are different.
DarkHorse23
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What corny in North America isn't corny in Africa. I know that for a fact. I spoken to a man(facebook friend) who has retired and married a beautiful black woman from Africa. He told me straight up, they value education and what you're trying to do with your life over there and aren't impressed with the whole thug act. He's a man in his 40-50's so i take his word for it.
DarkHorse23
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Maybe so, but would you so being a foreigner that you looked at differently than someone who is a native just like in the states when a foreign man comes to visit.
this was my line of thinking in my question above
I don't look at them differently, personally. A man is a man at the end of the day. Sure, they may have some different wants, opinions, etc. but they are generally more alike than not. The novelty of being "different" wears off quickly.
That's just me, though; I'm sure other women might have a completely different outlook.
Elle Driver
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They do. But just like a woman in America wants a well to do man, so do African women. And their view is much more warped because they think everybody is well to do in America.
DarkHorse23
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Speaking for a man's perspective I don't think American women care about if a man is well to do or not . Today American women only care about one things and that's looks and everything else is secondary. I can't comment on if African women's views are warped because I've never met one. I'll have to take your word for what it is when it comes to that one.
you speak spanish
Yeah; I generally only speak it when I'm around my maternal grandparents or other fam that don't speak English.