I had a coworker whose mother had cancer and had to have part of her face removed. I’d hit bro up, being supportive, praying for his mother and all of that because he was stressed out and going through it. He almost lost his job because, understandably, he wasn’t as focused at work. She recovered and he improved at work and started kissing his boss’s ass and trying to be a company man. Not only that, he started acting like my valid issues with the job weren’t valid, etc.
Fast forward. My Pops had to battle cancer and I was going through it. This dude didn’t hit me up ONCE after I told him. After all the support and listening to him crying about his mother every day of every fukking week, this nikka basically acted like my Pops had a cold or some shyt. He never checked up on me or any of that.
I ended up leaving that job and his boss, whose ass he had been kissing, got fired. His boss had been looking out for him and without that boss he wasn’t getting special treatment, so out of the blue after months of not speaking to this nikka, he hits me up asking for help finding a job or if they’re hiring where I am.
I treated that nikka like a stranger. fukk I look like?
I took it as disrespect and couldn’t be bothered.